Family & Relationships - 22 May 2007

When I am out in public with my 19 year old son I don't trust anyone. Their are way too many sickos out in public places to trust my son to be out of my sight. When my son and I go shopping and he or I have to use it, I take him right into the ladies room with me. He is only 19 and now old enough to be out of my sight. Someone in the mens room may try to snatch him or molest him.
Some of the women in the ladies room seem to have a problem with me bringing my 19 year old son into the bathroom with me but I don't care. They need to get over it and get a life. Why shouldn't I take my 19 year old son into the ladies room with me?

2007-05-22 23:58:12 · 34 answers · asked by Flushing06 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Well, I haven't been seen her for 2 years now, the last time I saw her, her hair was in shoulder length, and she is Malay, honestly, she love to smile, but she don't really smile in photos and she don't show her teeth much either. What I never forget about her is her smile (especially her teeth smile). Someday if I wanna fix a date to meet her, I will love to take photos and using camcorder to video her, do you think she will smile? cause I don't even know how to make girls smile, and her teeth is pearly white & straight, like she wore braces before. (She never wore braces.)

2007-05-22 23:45:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We seperated because he had an affair,we have been txtn each other a lot bout our feeling and stuff he even called me baby and all that stuff.
Last week, i got his sister to babysit so i could go out with a guy i liked and since then he has been blunt with me and only txtd bout the kids.I haven't txt him either cause i don't wanna come across as waiting around for him.
Thing is, it was him that fell for someone else and promised he wouldn't go silly if i dated, so whats up with him?

2007-05-22 23:45:07 · 29 answers · asked by live life 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Or prefer something else when speaking of your "significant other"
Another term you may dislike!

2007-05-22 23:42:47 · 10 answers · asked by Yellowstonedogs 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

all the self pity, it was the excitement of being with someone new.well after 9 mths with this other woman how could it still be exciting. he said he felt like she would do anything he asked,drop her plans in an instant to see him. don't you think he was falling in love with her come on after 9 mths fooling around with the same person. called her everyday sometimes 40 times a day. or was he obsessesed with her.never showed any signs of guilt during the time i never suspected anything.basically admitted to me he felt guilt sometimes i couldn't live with myself if i had done this.she was 13 yrs older than he. was it an ego kick or what.obviously he enjoyed being with her more having sex or talking on the phone. his only regret is that he got caught. she had told him you are not going to quit calling me or seeing me, so he didn't.sounds like she was emotionally involved or trying to break our marriage up what do you think

2007-05-22 23:41:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he got a nice size check and owes her for a car and hasn't been around and just got a new car

2007-05-22 23:41:40 · 7 answers · asked by mathesfamily13 1 in Family

2007-05-22 23:37:52 · 10 answers · asked by cierne_vtaca 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband was 22 when we married 19 years ago. I am older than him, but at the time he was so keen to marry me he said he was 5 years older than he is. We have a daughter who is 17. In the last 5 years he has been restless and says things like he has never lived alone, that he feels stifled. When I asked to control my finances he saw this as a sign of not being committed and our problems escalated. I found out 18 months ago that he was having an affair, he says it was a mistake. He moved out of our home and I transformed myself by losing weight, spending money on my appearance and regained some of my youth. I think this confused him and also because he feels duty bound to our daughter to finish school etc, plus he has a half share in our house, but he comes back 4 days a week and now makes out he lives away because its nearer to his job. He is making an effort with me by spending more time with me, by giving me more consideration. but says he needs more time before moving back in.

2007-05-22 23:37:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-22 23:31:34 · 3 answers · asked by sami 1 in Friends

Why dont girls trust on the lover, I mean why she always ask to his boyfriend that How much he love her.........?
In a day how many times you will say, that you really love her.......!"

2007-05-22 23:30:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how they feel. and on aim, they keep imming me so i blocked them, they call, but i dont pick up and i try to avoid them! my 3 friends are supporting me, ut what am i suppose to do? they yell curese words at me, and i feel like being tortured verbally. i usaully dont cry but this situation made me so upset i was crying for 1 hour yesterday. what should i do?? its almost the end of the year, but i have nearly a month to go until i graduate.

2007-05-22 23:26:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Im going out on Friday on a sort of date into town, we've said we are gunna have a laugh and get a bit tippled, i want to drink but want something easy to drink like southern comfort or shots of stuff? want to get happy but not uncontrollable, any tips for the date also

2007-05-22 23:20:54 · 9 answers · asked by H 1 in Singles & Dating

Not enough postage, a tornado cost me my job, I don't think you need it, let your new husband pay our kids bills. These are a few I have heard recently, I am just wondering how many other men/women are in the same boat? I have 3 wonderful daughters....they are losing out on a lot, mostly because, however creative we can be with our finances, we just don't make enough money, for everyone to do everything!

2007-05-22 23:17:57 · 4 answers · asked by hjmordgz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

So far, he has called my employers to check if I am working there, has done numerous background checks to see if I have been charged with anything, has asked friends to follow me...
I am constantly hearing accusations about what he THINKS I am doing, though none of it is true. He has subpoena'd everyone from my boss to my loan companies, anything to find dirt.
Where can I get a line drawn? We've been divorced for 5 years, and he's even remarried! Crininal checks? Calling my work? Is that invasion of privacy?

2007-05-22 23:15:36 · 9 answers · asked by kyndrad77 1 in Marriage & Divorce

19m,5-3 height,52 weight,student

2007-05-22 23:15:08 · 9 answers · asked by sonu_ l 1 in Singles & Dating

He busted his chops to win me over, and now that he's got me, play wolf on his back. I don't get it. I've been nothing but honest and now he pretends not to know who I am or what I am or where I came from how hard I'm trying to be somewhere else. blaal la I don't get it. I'm afraid it's another game of concour and deciept I want to know why these guys work sooo hard to get me then act like oh jeee I didn;t want a relationship I have already swaorn it off way torment me. Leave me the f---k be.

2007-05-22 23:10:02 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-22 23:06:08 · 17 answers · asked by lukingnready 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-22 23:05:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This boy i like has recenlty started touching me more. We are really good friends tho. He squeezes my legs @ my thigh and calf muscle. He touches my arm and hugs me. He slaps my thigh and bumps his knee into mine. He walks me to class after lunch and wanted me to hang with him at his school drama club, he wants me to join it....


whats going on???

2007-05-22 23:05:48 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if u know someone plz tell them 2 contact me....

2007-05-22 23:04:33 · 5 answers · asked by gowtham 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a chance to have a good friendship with a beautiful sweet girl and it seems like i've ruined it by being arrogant rude and disrespectful.Why does she still continue to be polite,cordial and even let me talk to her?Does she still care in some way?

2007-05-22 23:04:29 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like a girl and have told her my feeling last year, but she said she just wanna be friends. But, now I am sure some things have changed.

So a few days ago we were having a school project meeting and she seemed so friendly to me, She sat next to me and is so warm. Eye contacts. However, at school, things are different and we rarely talk. i am too nervous.

Today, for example, we met along the corridor and then I thought I saw a little smile on her face, but she seemed shy and did not talk.

And yes, one more problem, there is another boy who likes her. He keeps trying to talk to her and approaching her. And sometimes her friend would tease her about him and I think they created a nickname for him, while sometimes about me.

What does she mean? Because yesterday she did not reply to my text message wishing her good luck for the exam. I never talk to her at school though, i seemed cold towards her.

She is mature, dilligent, friendly, bookworm.

2007-05-22 23:02:02 · 8 answers · asked by En Route 1 in Singles & Dating

What would you do, if some one asks you to go to bed with him or her, I mean to have Sexual Intercourse and why?

2007-05-22 23:01:26 · 22 answers · asked by SK 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-22 23:01:20 · 36 answers · asked by ASIF IQBAL 1 in Friends

What should I do?He does not want to let go...keeps telling me he loves me,I do not want to make him choose me over his family...Any advice?

2007-05-22 23:00:47 · 35 answers · asked by Reta 1 in Singles & Dating

Why are they doing this?

everytime i meet someone its all good, we exchange numbers and all that but after one or two dates, they just keep their distance, they either busy or they have an excuse not to meet. this is killing me coz i just cant keep a girl, what am i doin wrong that drives these women away?

2007-05-22 22:54:49 · 14 answers · asked by mister m 1 in Singles & Dating

please be seriouse and answer this question correctly.
This is an controversial issue.all answer with the best descriptions will appreciated.

2007-05-22 22:45:47 · 10 answers · asked by Runtime Error 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-22 22:45:06 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If all out warfare were to break out between male chauvinists and female feminazis, both sides armed with all available weapons and technology- who would win?

...Or are we looking at a nuclear holocaust in which there are no survivors?

(Ten points to whoever has the wittiest answer. lol.)

2007-05-22 22:36:11 · 9 answers · asked by Ruby 3 in Singles & Dating

Met a guy around 10 months ago through another guy friend we were like best friends and were also very attracted to each other. During the early stages he told me that he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship with any1 at the moment. So we were not intimate, but stayed close and got even closer than before. That was when he started saying that I am someone that he would like to be with as he has a soft spot for me, I am very intelligent, ambitious and very articulate. I even went to the US he would call me from the UK and talk to me for ages were so close. Then we started seeing each other officially and things didn’t 100% work out as he wasn’t in the frame of mind for a relationship and he was a very self centered and indecisive. So for e.g. he would not call me for days and think that it was alright. But then if I tried to move on, he would come back. We finally broke things off as I gave him 1 last chance to tell me what exactly he wanted and he said that we should be friends

2007-05-22 22:35:47 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships