what am i doin wrong that drives these women away?

Question

Why are they doing this?

everytime i meet someone its all good, we exchange numbers and all that but after one or two dates, they just keep their distance, they either busy or they have an excuse not to meet. this is killing me coz i just cant keep a girl, what am i doin wrong that drives these women away?

Answer 1

You will find someone who is right for you....it's called Dating.
When you talk with a girl, talk about her. Ask questions about her. Don't talk about yourself, unless she asks you something.
Put her first, and let her know you are interested in her.
Many men only want to talk about themselves, not asking her questions..........wrong.
Let a woman know you want to talk about her, and she will be more likely to want to be with you.

Answer 2

Let the girl know you are interested, but don't come on too strong. Don't be obnoxious and loud. Women hate that. Don't just talk about yourself. Act like you want to get to know her/ ask her questions about her life/family. Ask a friend to critique your moves. Go on a double date(less pressure).

Answer 3

hmmmmmmmmmm, little more info needed here.
Could be looks, could be what you choose to talk about, how well you treat them. You know there's all kind of great books out there on how to date, just do some research.
How are you on a first date, nervous, yourself, cocky?
Maybe it's not you and you just haven't found the right one yet that likes you the way you are. It's like sales, call 10-100 people and sell your product to one....

Answer 4

I think you just need more experience in dating. Maybe try double-dating some and learn from the other guy. I'm sure you are well groomed, freshly shaved, and showered...head to toe. Clean clothing. Brush your teeth regularly. So, how's your personality? Do you enjoy yourself when you're around other people? Speaking for myself, I like it when the guy talks about himself on a date and tells me whatever he wants me to know. I listen attentively, eager to learn about his hopes, dreams, ambitions, etc., etc. I prefer that he not probe too much into my life.........I want to remain somewhat of a mystery to him.

Answer 5

Maybe when your on dates you unknowingly give off the wrong signals. Try to find out from these women what turned them off of you. Keep trying you'll find someone for yourself.

Answer 6

Women do not like show offs, disgusting primal jokes, rudeness, innuendos about sex all night long, and guys with huge egos, disrespectfulness, and insensitivity.

Also, boring and cheap does not cut it.

If you are any of those things, you probably just turn them off!!

Answer 7

You may be coming across as too 'needy'. Just relax and enjoy their company and don't put any pressure on. As you haven't told us any of your tactics, then we can't really comment on what you're doing wrong.

Answer 8

i can say that its not really your problem if they don't like you. i am female and sometimes just like men we are too civil in dealing with our dates even if we really don't like the man. try finding somebody who can appreciate you and your qualities for who you are. its just as simple as compatibility test and if she's not really interested or if you have dated 10 ladies and they turn you down, men its alright! that's the dating process, sometimes you win and sometimes you lose!

Answer 9

Ask friends or ex girlfriends what your problem was. Or just ask the girls themselves.

Answer 10

dint make your self to available and don't be so nice girls like bad boys well ambitious boys