Family & Relationships - 24 May 2007

2007-05-24 23:56:04 · 11 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-24 23:49:11 · 8 answers · asked by ஐKatஐ 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have being married for 12 years and 8 years ago my husband had an affair that brought his daughter in to our lives, her mother was negletful in such manner that the little girl had being molested three times.. Courts decided she was in better care with us.. I steped in her life feeling that for some reason God only gave me sons, and I totally forgot she is not by birth my child, but sometimes she says things to me to hurt me.. things like she wants to hit me in the head with a hammer and get a pencil and poke my eyes out.. I took her to a therapist she is getting help for the things she went trough, by being the only girl we treat her like a princess, but the way she talks to me sometimes makes me afraid to continue to allowed my self to thinks she is mine, afraid of one day she might come out and say i hate you your not my mother.. my husband had another affair sense we had her and I was going to leave him.. she asked me to stay and because of her i did.
My heart is broken, need ad

2007-05-24 23:44:09 · 17 answers · asked by boricua_2290 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Is anyone in a satisfying, loving and understanding relationship with a bi-person where both partners' needs are met?

I'm bi with, for want of a better way of putting it, an approximate 65:35 preference for women:men. I would like to think that there are potential partners out there that can cope with that but my own experience is that people get turned off when the issue arises. It's not necessarily that people are homo (or indeed hetero!)-phobic (though some can be) more that they feel threatened or insecure because they don't think they would be able to meet all of my needs.

PS. If you disagree with bisexuality, please don't trouble yourself by answering.

2007-05-24 23:40:31 · 7 answers · asked by Oliver C 2 in Singles & Dating

When I have sex it seems that the guy I have sex with doesn't think about pleasing me. Sex with him is over way to fast and I really don't enjoy it. I feel like I'm being used. I feel so dumb and worthless. I'm still a rookie at sex and I only have sex with guys the are more experinced than me. I think I should just stop having sex period,point,blank!

2007-05-24 23:34:36 · 29 answers · asked by black_china_kitty 1 in Singles & Dating

i have just found black and white mold in my roof and havent been able to kill it and its in my bedroom so im sleeping on the couch.but still have been in there for extended amouts of time and have a sore throat itchy eyes and stuffed up chest can this be from the mold or is this just a reg cold or should i be worried.

2007-05-24 23:32:28 · 4 answers · asked by couriousone 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok - this is a problem that my fiance frequently faces. He's the nice kind of guy - when he goes to a restaurant with a group of people (friends or colleagues), he will always pull out his wallet and offer to pay part of the bill. But the problem's he always gets stuck with the whole bill! Ppl just shamelessly don't offer to pay! And it's happened so often that he doesn't know what to do! So how is it possible to avoid paying the entire bill, without having to actually ask people to pay their part of it? Is there a nice way to do it?

2007-05-24 22:56:45 · 18 answers · asked by pseudo 1 in Friends

2007-05-24 22:56:20 · 13 answers · asked by hello world 7 in Weddings

I broke up with my boyfriend recently and told him I needed space until today to think about if I wanted this relationship or not. Now I think I do...but...He sent me a message today saying....

"Hey it's Friday! I hope you enjoyed your time at Tina's and your space from me and such. I hope your week was as good as mine was. Listen are you going to be home either today or tomorrow? I have something I need to say to you.These past few days have really been amazing and something I've needed for so long. This "break up/break" has really made me think about things. I would prefer you did not reply back to this text message but allow me to "express" myself either today or tomorrow. I have done a lot of thinking and really enjoyed this space. Before you say anything positive or negative please allow me to "express" my feelings about this situation. I gave you your space now i deserve your time so pick a day either today or tomorrow."

what does this mean!!!!
what is he trying to say??

2007-05-24 22:52:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-24 22:48:59 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a very new LDS and I have a good friend who will be going on his mission in August, he's about 22. Well the point I'm trying to get at is that my other friends have noticed that we both like each other enough to go out with each other, and they want to set us up so that we are dating when he leaves so that I can wait for him, but how do I wait for two years??? If he really is my eternal companion, how am I supposed to cope with being away from him if I'm emotionally attached?

some advice please. Please dont say that it wont happen, because I've practically already been set up with him and he agreed.

I hope you can understand whats been said through my babbling...

2007-05-24 22:40:04 · 10 answers · asked by joeyfarlz 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating on and off for three years. Every couple of months for the last couple years we get into a fight and dont have any contact for three weeks at the longest. He will usually call me up and we'll get back together. Right now things are going so wonderful, I've never been so happy. We are moving in together July 25th. I guess that it is bugging me that he hasn't asked me to marry him and that he told me about a year ago that he doesn't want kids because he doesn't want to give them his eczema and because he says he likes to relax and not do anything after work. He doesn't want screaming kids around. Things are going so well right now that I dont want to bring up how I feel, that I want to get married and have kids. I have brought up marriage before and he says that we fight too much, but that he has always been faithful and commited to me. I dont know how to tell him how much it is bothering me.

2007-05-24 22:23:02 · 9 answers · asked by juniper555 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-24 22:13:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-24 21:52:07 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this is what it said "Hey --------, see you're on bebo again you sad boy, would you like me to make another housecall and keep you company???"

I reckon that is extremely flirty and it's obvious she's visited his house before and that comment has completely turned me off him. Have I jumped the gun a bit here? My friends don't think I have and they'd be fuming if it was them!

2007-05-24 21:49:53 · 29 answers · asked by Soph 2 in Singles & Dating

I met Sophie a month ago and she is the girl of my dreams , long blonde hair , pouting lips , ready willing and able etc etc...
We fell madly in love sharing many many happy nights together , she never moaned at me once and was so giving in bed , any position i wanted.
She is a quiet girl , happy to let me do all the talking and never ever minds if i want a night out with the lads. Well lad actually as i only have one friend, but thats another story...
Problem is this , where can i buy a puncture repair kit as she has a leak ?
Thanks.

2007-05-24 21:47:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it really cool for a woman to take her man to a strip club? For the most part I'm sure it would turn the guy on 1000%, but what happens after the strip club? Is it one of those things where you have to be sure you can trust you guy before it happens?

2007-05-24 21:44:40 · 5 answers · asked by Mirry 2 in Singles & Dating

We've only been dating for a month but is it adviseable to get her a present? We are very close. If so, what presents would be a good idea?

2007-05-24 21:33:14 · 17 answers · asked by MrSmooth 1 in Singles & Dating

I was been in the dating site for quite months already,though responds from there is ok but as the days passed by im having a lot of doubts already to all the guys i have met from there....im not closing my door for another relationship but seemed i havent really find the right one whom i can feel comfortable talking with where i can feel also his sincerity in knowing me so well and my family as well.....

2007-05-24 20:59:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What is you reason? Aren't you afraid someone, especially your neighbors would take a peek?

2007-05-24 20:44:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We will have been married for 12 years. I found out about his affair last year but it had been going on for a little more than a year. He broke up with her and he came back home. I thought it was to work things out but he says that its only for his son and he does not love me. He is keeping his options open to be looking. Sometimes I wonder if he sufferes from depression because he can be very hurtful. I love him and I want to make our marriage work but its just been only on my side. To make things worse, my dad past away a month ago. Right now the thought of kicking him out is more than I can deal with -- not to mention how bad I would look in my son's eyes (he's only 10). Part of me feels that he acts the way he does so that I will throw him out and he can blame me for the way things are. Also while my dad was sick, no one in my family knew or knows what I was going through. I don't believe in divorce and I feel that we could work it out. What should I do?

2007-05-24 20:38:05 · 14 answers · asked by susan p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-24 20:37:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

enjoy getting a vibrater as a gift from a guy.....or would you rather be with him to help him choose the best one. how many do you own

2007-05-24 20:35:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do girls go for the gentlmen type anymore

2007-05-24 20:30:49 · 9 answers · asked by corey t 2 in Singles & Dating

i'm really friendly person and alot people like me alot
will yesterday i was at meeting and i met real nice girl she was at my age (20) she told me that she heard alot about me in the company. i asked her ist good or bad ... she said alot of good and little bad and i asked wats the bad she said" alot people think that u like to challenge people u think ur better then anyone. i said that no true i like evreryone and i treat them just like the way i like to be treated.
but when i went home

i told myself that sometimes its true i do think that i'm better then alot people and i dol like to challenge people in everything like( gym, work, college, and girlfriend... what i mean by girlfriend is i always has to have the best looing girls then anyone) and as far as look i always think im the best looking guy out there.

i dont hate any 1 i like everyone but i feel like i have to change


is't okay or is't wrong? is that confidence? is't just cuz i'm young (age matter).

2007-05-24 20:29:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-24 20:28:18 · 10 answers · asked by jnwmom 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with this man for 10 years. he was ready to marry before but i did not think we were in the right place. we are about to have another child and i feel that we either need to commit completly or let each other go.

2007-05-24 20:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by the wife in a lot of drama 2 in Weddings

My son has been married to my daughter inlaw who's 5 1/2 years older, almost 12 years now,he still looks at her with total love. I will admit it up front I'M JEALOUS, and my 3 daughters have either separated or divorced their husband because the think their little bother is the type of man they deserve!

My son does everything for his wife. He learned how to prepare a wonderful meal has become a light master chef just for her I think even though he says he enjoys preparing meals for loved ones, it's really for her enjoyment!

He learn how to give 6 different kinds of messages just for his wife and gives her them at least once a week! He messages her feet every night!

He leaves little "I LOVE YOU NOTES" for her. writes her a letters and mails it to her telling her those things that he feels makes her part of his week, she openly looks forward to mail every week! She says it's like finding a piece or her husband because he takes time to writes them just for her!

2007-05-24 20:27:05 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-24 20:25:42 · 9 answers · asked by rockubabe 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I broke up a few days ago. I am absolutely miserable and it wasn't a happy break-up. We got in an arguement b/c we work together and a guy we work with made an obscene sexual comment towards me the day before. I told him to shut up and my boyfriend found out and chewed him out. The next day the same guy asked me a question about work in front of him and I answered him. My boyfriend freaked out and it lead to a lot of things that shouldn't have been said. We ended up hurting each other really bad and he said he can't forgive me even though he said the same things. He's always had a bit of a jealousy issue, but we love each other. His friend called me three times today and was telling me how sad my boyfriend was and how he was excited that he thought I was waiting for him after work, but I wasn't. I miss him miserably but he wouldn't talk to me yesterday. What should I do and should he be this upset? I am so scared of never being with him again.

2007-05-24 20:22:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships