Is anyone in a satisfying, loving and understanding relationship with a bi-person where both partners' needs are met?
I'm bi with, for want of a better way of putting it, an approximate 65:35 preference for women:men. I would like to think that there are potential partners out there that can cope with that but my own experience is that people get turned off when the issue arises. It's not necessarily that people are homo (or indeed hetero!)-phobic (though some can be) more that they feel threatened or insecure because they don't think they would be able to meet all of my needs.
PS. If you disagree with bisexuality, please don't trouble yourself by answering.
2007-05-24 23:40:31 · 7 answers · asked by Oliver C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being bi myself . . . I think it is possible but it requires an extremely high degree of emotional security and maturity . . . finding two such persons is difficult. It does help if both persons are bi.
2007-05-25 01:52:13 · answer #1 · answered by Skully 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person and the relationship. If your partner trusts you then it shouldn't be an issue. But I think that it comes down to the increase in people who are a threat to the relationship; if you're partner is bisexual then both men and woman are a threat to your relationship. And I think that yes; I would feel that I couldn't totally satisfy a bisexual mans needs as he would have a desire to sleep with men, and I just don't have the right parts to offer. It's a tough situation to be in I guess. But if you meet the right person; be it a man or a woman then you have to be committed to them 100%. It's the same as a straight man to be honest; you might have desires but you have to choose not to act on them and stay faithful to your partner.
I don't have any direct experience with this myself; but I think these would be the thoughts that would go through my head if I met and started a relationship with a bi-sexual guy. Hope this helps!
2007-05-25 06:50:19 · answer #2 · answered by kchick8080 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's the problem here is the fact that you are male and women don't normally like to share with someone else. I f the situation was reversed then it wouldn't be a problem maybe it might be worth your while looking into another bi-sexual partner then at least there won't be that barrier. Good Luck Homes.
2007-05-25 06:44:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
im not gay or bi but i have a friend that is a lesbian and she used to be staight and she even had a kid. when her man got sentanced to life she turned gay and she is now in a relationship whith a bi girl and they seem very happy together and her kid loves her girlfriend.
2007-05-25 06:44:53 · answer #4 · answered by jacquie925 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If my gf was bisexual i would be perfectly happy with that, as i'm sure most guys would.
I doubt women would feel the same about their men be bi though.
2007-05-25 06:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
i can only speak for me personally, id be too afraid of the competition. unforunately it would be a trust issue and i would say no i wouldnt be comfortable.
2007-05-25 06:43:05 · answer #6 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont want to go into detail but the answer is yes.
2007-05-25 06:43:46 · answer #7 · answered by louie3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋