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enjoy getting a vibrater as a gift from a guy.....or would you rather be with him to help him choose the best one. how many do you own

2007-05-24 20:35:13 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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I think it would be nice to receive one as a gift but what the guy has to remember is to not be overly enthusiastic espesh if your girl doesn't already own one, you could pick one that you think she'll go nuts for but in reality it might frighten the living daylights out of her.

Also think it would be fun to buy one together, could buy togerther first so you get a feel for what she's in to then go and treat her some other time.

Just be aware that you need to talk to you girl about this first, as you can see from some of your answers not all girls go for vibes (not sure I believe that to be honest hehe) you must be 100% sure that your girl is in to this, dont make her feel pressured to purely because it would turn YOU on xx

2007-05-24 21:48:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Son you better get the best one if your aren't sure which one? Saving the receipt won't do you any good you can't take it back. Most people are too shy to shop together others get really turned on. You'll know if she likes it..immediately. That crap down below me? probably never even had an orgasm....AND believe it or not guys like good vibrations too lmao

2007-05-25 03:51:05 · answer #2 · answered by Don't even think about it 2 · 0 0

OK! I hope you are serious about asking this and not just looking for points for YA.

I own 5 of them and I purchased them all by myself.
It depends on how your mate feels about you using them. Some men feel as if you are getting assistance for their short comings and other men feel it is just a pleasure toy for you both to use together.
Only you can answer this question and if you cannot, seek his input on the subject before asking him to get one for you or going along with you.

My deceased husband bought my first one because we were both curious and I was too shy to go into 'that' type of store. I get them on line now. (Most discrete and private that way). WARNING:
You cannot stay on the sites long because you will start getting a lot of email you don't even want to know what they are selling.)

SO.....you decide. I like my privacy now and get them alone. If my man wants to put out the $35-$120 for a gift, why not let him if he is agreeable with you using one.

2007-05-25 04:15:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

That sort of "gift" would only be acceptable from a guy that I was already intimate with. Any one else doing that would come across as a jerk. Yes I'd want to be with him when he chose it. Too many guys think bigger is best, and that's not true, not for most women I'd say.
As to how many I may or may not have, that's none of your business. You are not my lover/husband or even a potential, so NOT TELLING!

2007-05-25 03:50:05 · answer #4 · answered by Barb Outhere 7 · 0 0

not unless the person ur talkin about is a freak and enjoys things such as that but from opinion iplead as no it wouldn't be the best thing but you can probably fix up the bed rm or bath rm with candles or rose pedals and make luv 2 her and don't forget her fav. drink sum music and 2 buy her something that u can take off later.
enjoy and don't forget tha condom

2007-05-25 03:40:56 · answer #5 · answered by shalida b 2 · 1 0

Go to this sight and look up the Hitachi Magic Wand and you can't go wrong, you can even add the 2 attachments if you really know her that well.The wand works as a vibe and a massager.I ordered one and got in in 4 working days.
http://www.goodmans.net/

2007-05-25 03:50:47 · answer #6 · answered by old man 4 · 0 0

Haha I can't believe I am answering this question. I own 4 different kinds, 2 were gifts from my boyfriend. I never use them by myself, but they are a great enhancement to our sex lives. I probably would use them if he was gone for awhile.

2007-05-25 03:39:38 · answer #7 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 2 0

Could be a gift or we could choose it together. Does the same thing in the end.......Just the one!!

2007-05-25 03:38:20 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

well...if a guy took me to sex shop and payed for a vibrator i would get one but i wouldnt use it when he is watching or when we have sex - i just dont feel comfortable with it.
i have two by the way.

2007-05-25 03:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0 0

I would rather be with him....but i would not be horribly upset if presented with one.

I have 5 or more right now.

2007-05-25 03:38:10 · answer #10 · answered by Patricia G 4 · 0 0

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