i'm really friendly person and alot people like me alot
will yesterday i was at meeting and i met real nice girl she was at my age (20) she told me that she heard alot about me in the company. i asked her ist good or bad ... she said alot of good and little bad and i asked wats the bad she said" alot people think that u like to challenge people u think ur better then anyone. i said that no true i like evreryone and i treat them just like the way i like to be treated.
but when i went home
i told myself that sometimes its true i do think that i'm better then alot people and i dol like to challenge people in everything like( gym, work, college, and girlfriend... what i mean by girlfriend is i always has to have the best looing girls then anyone) and as far as look i always think im the best looking guy out there.
i dont hate any 1 i like everyone but i feel like i have to change
is't okay or is't wrong? is that confidence? is't just cuz i'm young (age matter).
2007-05-24 20:29:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There,s nothing wrong in wanting to challenge people. That,s how performance is improved and things are learned.
But the confidence thing ? I don,t think you are that confident. You seem too hung up on looks, and as the adage goes, "looks are not everything".
How do you think a woman would feel if she knew that the reason you are seeing her is to win some macho pissing contest !
2007-05-24 20:36:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a little too much confidence. or what we call arrogance. It irritates ppl. its good to feel confident but not too much.
and i think somehow u are a bit childish for ur age. considering u compare looks of girlfriends and yrself.
i thought maybe its better to have healthier competition of capabilities and personalities.
wake up dude!
2007-05-25 03:35:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were really 20 you wouldn't be asking this immature question. You're like 12 or something.
People who are 20 dont consider themselves young on a dating scale
2007-05-25 03:34:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound pretty conceited. There's a girl at my school who always has to look better, everything that happens to you has happened to her but better, she talks about herself all the time.
All the people she thinks are her friends ***** about her behind her back and are relieved when she leaves the room.
I'd guess the same happens to you.
2007-05-25 03:34:59 · answer #4 · answered by Yvette! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen here kid, stop feeding yourself this crok of bs, there's nothing wrong with a little cofidence, but your taking it too far..and you'd better stop it in the work place, or you wont be working long...sooner or later you'll meet some-one who is a better looking guy and smarter then you . SO nock the sh-- off; before it gets nocked off , get it kid???
2007-05-25 03:45:56 · answer #5 · answered by Back Attcha 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go on with your life. Your young.
2007-05-25 03:32:09 · answer #6 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence is a good thing dont second guess your self you seem to be a sucessful person dont sweat it
2007-05-25 03:34:07 · answer #7 · answered by mommyofanangel06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its all good. its because you are the best looking probably. just dont get too cocky. it always backfires. youll grow out of it.
2007-05-25 03:36:03 · answer #8 · answered by Willowjac 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its okay because u are still young
2007-05-25 03:33:09 · answer #9 · answered by Frozzangel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think.. its as long as your ego doesnt get in the way ... too much...confidence is a gd thing...
2007-05-25 03:33:00 · answer #10 · answered by kosybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋