i have been with this man for 10 years. he was ready to marry before but i did not think we were in the right place. we are about to have another child and i feel that we either need to commit completly or let each other go.
2007-05-24 20:27:51 · 10 answers · asked by the wife in a lot of drama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
I'd just tell him.
2007-05-24 20:30:08 · answer #1 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should propose to him? He already asked and you said no, so maybe he's afraid you'll say no again. My bf's parents have been together for 30 years but never married. If things are good between the two of you, you live together and have kids, why would you leave? But honestly, just ask him and I'm sure he'll say yes! Or, after 10 years, the least you could do is talk to him and tell him what you're looking for. Has he said he doesn't want to get married now?
Good luck!
2007-05-25 08:01:56 · answer #2 · answered by tink 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If both of you are being together for 10 years, I believe it is good to settle down and enjoy the warmth of family and love. If he don't have the intention to settle down at this stage, you really can't do much. You have to know what is the main reason that is behind it before you decide if you should let go of the relationship.
2007-05-25 03:48:19 · answer #3 · answered by Clown & Joker 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant force him to marry you, he has to do it on is own. If you have been with him for 10 years and he is not ready to commit, then its time to move on. Then again you guys are married...COMMON LAW.
2007-05-25 03:40:15 · answer #4 · answered by jmo2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him that you thought that you both needed to be in the right place. but now you see that there is really no right place, when you love someone you committ and you think that you should get married. because it is what both of oyu want and your both ready to complete this already happy family.
2007-05-25 08:37:44 · answer #5 · answered by tasheema22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he asked you and you shot him down - maybe you should be the one to ask him! Get a sitter - make a trail of candles to you room and sit on you bed with a rose and ask him to marry you!
2007-05-25 03:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by mmcmahonoakley 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a choice.........would he rather pay child support and possibly alimony? [depending on what the law is in your state for that problem] or marry you? It's up to him! When he makes his choice, see an attorney or minister.
2007-05-25 04:26:12 · answer #7 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you should be the one that asks him to marry you! If he really loves you and wants to be with you he will say YES! Be spontaneous! The only way you are going to know for sure is ask him!!!!
2007-05-25 03:34:32 · answer #8 · answered by Rainbow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sit down and have a conversation with him about it and see what he says.
2007-05-25 09:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by OFFICIALLY MRS. HOWARD! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him?
2007-05-25 03:31:15 · answer #10 · answered by kosybee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋