this is what it said "Hey --------, see you're on bebo again you sad boy, would you like me to make another housecall and keep you company???"
I reckon that is extremely flirty and it's obvious she's visited his house before and that comment has completely turned me off him. Have I jumped the gun a bit here? My friends don't think I have and they'd be fuming if it was them!
2007-05-24 21:49:53 · 29 answers · asked by Soph 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I wasn't checking out his page at all, he had just sent me a comment and to reply you have to go to the persons page and reply, as soon as i posted my response there was that one from her! I wouldn't go out of my way to view his page, i was only replying to his comment!
2007-05-24 21:58:05 · update #1
Okay, another thing that I never mentioned. We've been "seeing" eachother since mid January...and he's only on bebo the last month or so...so this definately happened WHEN we were seeing eachother!!
2007-05-24 23:13:00 · update #2
I wouldn't worry - my boyf has got loads of comments etc on MySpace with girls chatting him up and stuff like that but I know that he is faithful. I just laugh at it. I have the same sort of comments on my page too, luckily we are not jealous and laid back. That's the key to a good relationship.
2007-05-24 21:54:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
even as a bloke i have to say this sounds a bit dodgy, but you have to be careful with all these comments on the net and even wityh txt msg. Just ask him straight up what the score is with this person DON'T get sneaky and try to fake him out with made up msg's and don't ask her what's going on she might just be a cyber stalker. At the end of the day relationships are about trust if this tiny little thing has freaked you out then you and him both have a long way to go.
2007-05-24 21:57:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say something to him. Just explain that you were genuinely on his page to reply to his comment and you were upset by the comment left on his page. A complete stranger left an obscene comment on my boyfriend's page one time so I told him how I felt. He understood completely. I really hope that this guy is not trouble. Hopefully its all a misunderstanding. Maybe she doesn't know that you guys got together and thinks she can still get away with it.
2007-05-31 05:19:06 · answer #3 · answered by giggly nurse 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, yer I can definatley see how you are annoyed because I definatley would be. What you could do is ask him very lightly .. "Ooh, so whos the girl on your bebo then, I hope your not cheating on me" .
You'll be able to see from that whether or not there's anything going on in the way he reacts .
GoodLuckx
2007-05-31 01:24:25 · answer #4 · answered by bessy_1962 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody has a past! I am sure you had one before you met him and that you werent an angel! Tell him it makes you feel uncomfortable and let him know that you wont stand for him messing about behind your back from hereonin. And I agree with the other poster - stop checking his profile - you obviously dont trust him and it will drive you mad
2007-05-24 21:54:55 · answer #5 · answered by forgetmenot1908 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be furious too but i woud confront him about it, its a post on a page from a girl who might just be a bit of a nutter! You dont know, maybe she called round before you two got together or maybe they drank coffee. Who knows but you wont unless you ask him.
2007-05-24 22:37:23 · answer #6 · answered by British*Bird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is understandable that you would be annoyed, and yes you are right it is not snooping when you repond to someone you see all their comments straight away it is hard not to notice what someone has written.
anyways, you need to confront this guy to make sure nothing is going on, you may find that 'it' happened before he even got together with you and perhaps he has not even responded to this or perhaps he told her he was with someone. if you feel strongly about it approach him but dont fly off on an angry note.
good luck
2007-05-24 22:13:02 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him about it could be some girl trying to cause trouble get u jealious or trying to come u both or could be hes confussed or maybe moved on but ask him straight out and u will know if he looks into your eyes and way he talks treats u and acts around u and if he seems sincere and also not defensive then all is ok if its opposite time to move on
2007-05-31 12:23:38 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it could of been she has but it could before he was with you in which case it's the past leave it where it is.
he's with you. if its bugging you that much talk to him calmly and see what the situation is. dont do psycho girlfriend as in what the hell etc it will only get his back up and you'll be none the wiser.
2007-05-24 21:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by womble 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hola Senorita
2007-05-24 21:53:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋