Family & Relationships - 19 May 2007

here's the thing, me and my ex just broke up last march...then we got back together around mid April coz he claims he was being an a** and says he still loves me and doesn't wanna lose me. but during the week after we got back together, he acts all weird and doesn't act like my boyfriend at all, so during the 7th day after we got back together, i confronted him.

i asked him if he really does love me or not and he doesn't answer...but eventually he did. he claims that he does love me and he knew how much i love him. he just can't stay with our relationship coz he might do things that might hurt me. he's the type of guys who goes to bars and parties with his guy friends and other girls (friends only as far as i knew).

anyways, after our talk, he says that he can't handle the commitment that comes with the relationship but still says that he loves me.

2007-05-19 23:24:41 · 12 answers · asked by Vyxen 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 23:22:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I recently had a fall out with a girl i was seeing and since then she has been given me the cold shoulder, me feeling bad and apologetic, I have tried to make up and since I look like the bad guy. When she was plainly in the wrong

2007-05-19 23:21:57 · 11 answers · asked by Intellithug 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 23:19:59 · 8 answers · asked by Ronie 1 in Singles & Dating

Sometimes I think of my best friend as more than that. He's the type that really listens to what u have to say and is always there when u need a shoulder to cry on. Am I crazy to think that we could make a couple?

2007-05-19 23:19:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-05-19 23:18:39 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im seeing this girl and she has this best friend who is a guy. They have been friends for years and he bought her an expensive ipod for her birthday. Im trying not to be jealous but if it get serious between us (like long term, even weddings, kids etd) it might pose as a problem. Insecurity is a pain but maybe there is something wrong with me. MMMM any suggestions on how not to let this be a problem.

2007-05-19 23:17:56 · 12 answers · asked by kaptain_wonderman 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 23:17:09 · 14 answers · asked by kwjt 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 23:13:59 · 37 answers · asked by Coo-ee 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-19 23:13:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my friend have been dating for about 2 months he actually hasnt done anything real heavy i just have not liked how things were going thats another story i think i may have been nagging more so, so i just had got fed up and i went to his apartment and left him a dear john letter on his door i ran into him 2days later he said he was so hurt & he was really pleading the fifth about how we cant end it like this how can i tell if he is sincere or is it b.s.

2007-05-19 23:13:17 · 8 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

My best friend was cleaning house when she ran accross her boyfriends secret porn stash. She called me very upset and crying. She's heartbroken. She thinks that he is watching the porn because she is not good enough for him. I tried to explain to her that it is more of a fantasy thing, and he is not watching it because he would rather be with those women. But I started thinking about it and now I am sort of intruged. I guess I am just looking for a guys point of view on this. Am I right? Or is it possible that she is just not fufilling his needs? What is the deal with porn?

2007-05-19 23:09:51 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for 4 years and have been together for 6 years...I love my wife but, things have gotten pretty quiet in the bedroom. She has never once come on to me or initiated sex...I know I have been satisfying her (multiple orgasms when we are together) I'm very good with foreplay and oral sex but, still she doesn't seem like she wants me. Is it wrong for me to want my wife to come on to me sometimes or initiate intimacy?

2007-05-19 23:08:12 · 15 answers · asked by aviddiver651 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am dating a guy for 11 months. before him i liked his best friend...and i think i still like him alot...but i also love my boyfriend, what should i do??

2007-05-19 23:07:16 · 13 answers · asked by 80s princess 2 in Singles & Dating

my relationship with the violent farther of 1 but now I am doing what I should have done a long time ago and kicked him into touch the final hearing is in september is there any way that I can delay this to prove to social service that I will not have that man back in my life all I want is my children home

2007-05-19 23:01:16 · 8 answers · asked by LEIGH T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i helped this cute girl out when she ran out of gas on the highway. we got to talking, and i really liked her personality. i got her gas and drove back to her car and put it in her tank. we talked a little longer and went on separate ways. so i got to think that i should have got her number or gave her mine. i know she works at a restaurant by mine, should i stop in to talk to her?

2007-05-19 22:57:05 · 5 answers · asked by niedbalskiitt 2 in Friends

she loved you.

2007-05-19 22:54:30 · 13 answers · asked by kwjt 1 in Singles & Dating

This 9th grader keeps calling me about 10 times a day and just hangs up when I answer what do you think he wants? He knows I like him but we can't be together so why does he keep calling me?

2007-05-19 22:54:01 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it just as bad to you guys? do you prefer marijuana over cigarettes?

2007-05-19 22:51:30 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 22:49:27 · 9 answers · asked by Maggy 1 in Singles & Dating

I have good grades, i haven't done anything that i would consider stupid in my life (i.e. get drunk, or do drugs), i play sports, and am a good person..................
but my parents won't let me party anywhere. what reason is there? please some one enlighten me.
Im 16 and can drive legally.

Yesterday, my parents drove 20miles to come pick me up at 2AM from a party because they wouldnt let me stay and have fun where there was no alcohol or anything like that. Also, i drove to the party so they picked my car up too.

Is there a legitimate reason to there actions

2007-05-19 22:48:10 · 17 answers · asked by baller750 2 in Family

2007-05-19 22:45:13 · 4 answers · asked by sarah_652468 2 in Singles & Dating

There is a chick in my math class and she is the best. Can you tell me a cool way to ask her out?

2007-05-19 22:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by fuzzyjewfro 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend, and we are both in the school drama club. I was stage manager for the musical, and she was a stage hand. whenever the teacher had a time change to make, i had to call everyone. they were all cool with it, except my friend , who would go off screaming about how she already knew and that i told her things more than once. she has never accepted my other friends, and whenever i was with one of them, she would just tell me how immature we were. Then we were backstage., and i tripped and broke my finger. i aked if someone could cover for me for 5 minutes while i went to get something to wrap it up with. she told me to suck it up and take it like a man. twenty minutes later, she scraped her hand against a wall and started screaming and asking for someone to do her job so she could leave. jokingly, i said suck it up, and she went nuts. the past few weeks, she has been trash talkin me to my friends and others, and she has been trying to take my friends from me. What can i do?

2007-05-19 22:42:51 · 7 answers · asked by mcricktrix 1 in Friends

I'm getting married in September, or maybe sooner. I don't like showing off, especially for a commitment that's just between me and my fiance. I just want to go to the courthouse, sign the paper with no one present, and afterwards go out to eat, just me and him. My mom, however, has been whining about not getting to see her only daughter get married (my brother got married overseas, so she didn't see him get married, and my other brother is gay and so likely won't be able to marry). She's really been pitching a fit... when I said she could come to the courthouse and watch, she started talking about how we needed flowers, a dress, photographers, and how we will have to invite my fiance's parents as it's only fair. I don't want any of this... I'm thinking of just getting married and not telling her forever... lol. What should I do? I REALLY don't want a ceremony of any sort!

She did offer to pay for everything, but I still don't want it.

2007-05-19 22:41:05 · 23 answers · asked by T.M.Y. 4 in Weddings

Long hair and facial hair is gross, right? That seems to be the common opinion of most women today. If they see a guy with a beard and a mane, it's ugly.

If women think that long hair and facial hair is gross, then why do so many tell me that these are some of my more attractive and distinguishable features? (Bearing in mind, I like to keep myself neatly groomed.)

This also falls into comfort-zone line of reasoning. If a man is comfortable, he is more likely to attract women who can sense the man's comfort, and feel comfortable themselves. I'm comfortable in my appearance, but no one else seems to pick up on it. :S

2007-05-19 22:37:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 22:36:26 · 6 answers · asked by JERRY P 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been divorced since 1999. I don't have children, but love them. I have a good job, keep my bills paid, have a wide variety of interests, I'm friendly and approachable, and I respect others. I done eveything that I can think of to attract a mate, but don't have one. I even gone a far as changing my clothing style, but to no avail. When I do date, I always hear afterward that I am such a nice man and would make someone very happy, but they just want to stay friends. Nothing else. Most just want a friend with benefits and only want me around when it suits them.

Other than companionship with my cat, am I just meant to be alone. If I am, then I can handle it. I'm just so tired of the games that women play.

2007-05-19 22:32:10 · 7 answers · asked by dakotaviper 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-19 22:31:56 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-19 21:14:48 · 10 answers · asked by mummy-said 2 in Singles & Dating