Family & Relationships - 17 May 2007

And then demands to see the children at the last moment? Even though he knows you've made other plans - like taking the children away for the weekend, or on birthdays? And he makes the plans through the children, refuses to tie himself down to you? He aso refuses to take them on ordinary weekends, or if they have after school activities, etc. My friend is having real problems. If she says "no" - he says she is refusing to let him see the children, but the weekend she booked in January (which he knew about) is going to be ruined. It seems as though he wants the children when he knows it will cause the most upset, otherwise he ignores them. What would you do?

2007-05-17 23:50:55 · 11 answers · asked by True Blue Brit 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-17 23:48:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I’m a virgin and abstaining from sex till marriage. I was wondering what happens if I fall in love with a partner who’s had lots of sex and didn’t wait? What if they have kids? Would I likely be jealous if my ideal partner didn’t wait for me and has kids?

2007-05-17 23:39:16 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

being a man myself, its thrilling to see ladies in lingerie, stockings etc, but i do wonder where this programming comes from ? Also what do women think of this idea - i know sexually men are more visual and women are more feelings based but still don't understand the thing with underwear !

2007-05-17 23:38:57 · 13 answers · asked by sd_lewis2003 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Been seeing her since December. Her father died last July and she became a little upset on each date, was even pretty tetchy at times, at the time I did not understand her loss. On Valentines she tells me there is somebody else, she has to resolve things, see how she feels, I say bye. She met him online, he suffered bereavement and said "some heavy things". But we keep in contact. One month later and she's back, he is not what she expected. All the dates are strained as her grief seems more acute, she tells me I don't know how to react. I read up on grief to try and understand. The whole thing wears me out, our last two dates are fraught as she shows high emotion. She suggests a month break, no contact. I leave her a book on grief, a mistake probably. I email her to find out how she is, no reply. I ask if I should move on, she says we should be friends. She sends book as "Olive Branch". I email thanks and ask how she is, she says busy! But she wants to watch football with me next week!

2007-05-17 23:37:35 · 17 answers · asked by crazy fool 1 in Singles & Dating

hi im not proud of myself but my man caught me me in bed with his brother what makes it worse if also been cheating on him with his brothers girlfriend for nearly a year. im so confused i love me boyfriend but i feel i need to get him back because how many times hes cheated on me what do i do he forgives me but i really cant get over him

2007-05-17 23:35:14 · 20 answers · asked by ffdream21 1 in Singles & Dating

last night me and my bf went to the pub. Now i think he was drunk but he proposed to me and this morning when we got up he never mentioned anything, was it just a drunken mistake of his i mean i aint even 18 yet? help and advise i am confused.

2007-05-17 23:34:39 · 28 answers · asked by Hayley D 2 in Singles & Dating

My son got married 3 months back . It was a love marriege they are not living together as girl dont want to stay with him . What should I do? Pl. advice .

2007-05-17 23:30:35 · 22 answers · asked by rekha 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-17 23:30:13 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-17 23:28:20 · 8 answers · asked by gracious 1 in Family

How do I secretly break up someones relationship?
One of my friends is going out with someone who is always getting suspended and he smokes and that.I don't think he is a good influence on her.I want to do it secretly because if I break up their relationship with no cover she will probably hate me for it even though I try to explain to her that it is in her best interests.

Help me out here please!!!

2007-05-17 23:26:57 · 7 answers · asked by janeilhomeblack 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

No, I am NOT a bad person. It's just that there is this girl who ANNOYS the hell out of me SO BADLY it's all I can do to stop myself from killing her right there on the spot. She's also my friend. I tried counting to a billion, and trying to reason with her but I just get so stressed out, I don't know what to do anymore! It's complicated... I want to try and get her to see that she can't just walk all over me. I want to ruin her life JUST FOR A WHILE, just to make a point... I already decided to steal her school books (we're in year 10 and no, I'm not immature), and I just don't think it's enough. She lies to everyone but pretends to be so sweet and nice, and people are beginning to get sick of it. Any ideas on how I can "ruin" her life SECRETLY WITHOUT anybody finding out?

P.S. I'm really sorry if I'm coming off as an awful person. It's just that there's a line, and she crossed it, stepped on it, smudged it, ran over it, and now there is no line, there's just a pissed off me.

2007-05-17 23:22:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My x boyfriend sister want to see me do i go & if i should go do i have to tell my boy friend about it

2007-05-17 23:20:27 · 6 answers · asked by bamidele t 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a very weird attitude when it comes to my crush. :(( i'm the type of a girl who easily fall for someone.. but then, before i realized it, were getting closer to each other, when it happens, i begin not to think about him anymore.. or in other words, i am turned off. that always happen. i think the next time it'll happen, it's the 6th time already.. what should i do to get rid off this weird attitude?

2007-05-17 23:17:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we both are married RESPECTIVELY. but i swear , i never knew what chem is till it happened with this guy ,we are family friends so met almost daily .
il not deny having feelings for him.. but it took me so long to get over him & move on .
just wehn i "moved" on i noticed the something just clicked again ?? & there the two of us , whov fought endless battles , been rude are playing chemistry again ?

my Q>>
a. is this normal?
b.could it be love.. after all this games been on for 5 years!
c. and, is chemistry there cos of love/lust?
sorry long one!

2007-05-17 23:11:33 · 1 answers · asked by barley 2 in Singles & Dating

I am shy around most girls and I really like this girl who's one of my friends.I want to go out with her except she already has a boyfriend.Should I try and break upo their relationship or not.I'm confused.
Help me out and give me some advice please!

2007-05-17 22:59:41 · 6 answers · asked by janeilhomeblack 3 in Singles & Dating

a while ago my bf left me he said he was too stressed n such with school. i found he was with somone else. but a day later he called me and said he loved me and he wanted me back and he was sorry such and such.... to make a long story short were back togther he proved himself loyal and proved he was confused.. thats was about 7 moths ago. Im preg. now and were getting married but the ***** who he cheated on me with has serious mental probs and still wants him.. he has screamed at her... yelled and bitched her out... and so hav i and our other friends. two nights ago i got a message saying "hey jess call me i have a feeling mike cheated" from the girl and i flipped and left him... i should have known he didnt and such but we got back togther the next day i guess it was preg hormones. BUT. he flipped **** on her and so did i... she swears she didnt do it.. but its there on my myspace. IM going to their schoopl today so we can talk to her in peroson. I just need more advice! help me! lol

2007-05-17 22:56:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i love someone he also love me but i love him deeply but he doesn't love me so deeply like me what can i do? in this situation please give me the answers soon

2007-05-17 22:55:39 · 10 answers · asked by boni k 1 in Singles & Dating

Hey guys, I'm nearly 18 and i want to like experience all the things and be more INDEPENDENT. I want to learn to take my own responsibilities and care and look after myself. I've always had difficulty doing this because i don't really know where to start from. How do i start this whole process on me and how do i apply them.

2007-05-17 22:55:31 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With that being said. Was this is biblical times that this saying was created? Today, that isn't always the case. What does this saying mean to all of you out there in Yahoo Land? She works, brings home money as well as other things.

2007-05-17 22:55:22 · 8 answers · asked by TargetPractice 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-17 22:52:30 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i don't! i don't like the feeling because i'm extra sensitive and my boyfriend doesn't like all the yuckiness!

2007-05-17 22:49:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

well i jus got dumped but now i wanna pay back ma ex make him sad or heart broken or rejected for jealous how do i do that?

2007-05-17 22:48:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have 3 sisters they all spy on me and moan about my friends they also slag me off all the time but when they want me they are as nice as pie

2007-05-17 22:45:04 · 4 answers · asked by PUSSYCAT 2 in Friends

My 2 gd frens told me they wanna join this underground group who go around doing bad stuff. It's not hard 2 believe cuz they skip schl b4. PLZ!! HELP!!! I need help convincing them not to join.. Tnx so much!!!!!

2007-05-17 22:41:22 · 5 answers · asked by Nadarin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Kathy stop sending me the same message to go away. You made it clear to me that you don't like taking an enema cause when you were givin an enema when you were a little girl the enema hurt your stomach and you never wanted to take an enema again.

2007-05-17 22:40:03 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Like playing poker online, other specific websites (deep into the night), chocolate and other candy/food which makes me fat, etc.
Even if i get over an addiction (like answering questions on Yahoo), a new one gets in it's place.
It's bad for my social contacts and a little bit for my work.
Is it possible to break down that pattern? Is it possible without professional help?

2007-05-17 22:37:42 · 7 answers · asked by · 5 in Friends

I've been faithful to one girl for four years. We match on every level, except sexually. She's a once a month person and im... i prefer a lot more than that. Im in college and there are quite a few girls that like me, some very pretty. My ex just came back to the city and she is really pushing the issue for me to sleep with her. I dont want to cheat but my girlfriend's "once a month" thing isnt making it easy for me. What should i do?

2007-05-17 22:36:45 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im a pettite little lady who is curious about lesbonics!!!

2007-05-17 22:35:39 · 11 answers · asked by MA 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm daiting this woman, she works mon-sat 8-7 only has downtime on a sunday. We try to sort out times we can meet up but often she get s pulled into work, we do reschedule and meet up -but i'd like to go out with her on a friday or saturday night but this is next to impossible with her (and my) schedules. Her job is extremely demanding and often gets things thet come up last minute. We do have feelings for each other, we get on very well.

Is it worthwhule persuing such a relationshiop with a career minded woman, or should I save my energy for someone else?

2007-05-17 22:35:01 · 2 answers · asked by jimmypayneman 1 in Other - Family & Relationships