i have a very weird attitude when it comes to my crush. :(( i'm the type of a girl who easily fall for someone.. but then, before i realized it, were getting closer to each other, when it happens, i begin not to think about him anymore.. or in other words, i am turned off. that always happen. i think the next time it'll happen, it's the 6th time already.. what should i do to get rid off this weird attitude?
2007-05-17 23:17:37 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why even bother getting rid of your attitude
just get rid of the guilty conscience
nothing wrong with that
when you get rid of it
trust me someone is gonna fall for you and then loose interest just when you want to go deeper
that's life
its how the world is
2007-05-17 23:22:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take more time to get to know the guy before jumping into a relationship. You are too impulsive when it come to relationships. The best one take time and effort.
By the way, there is no Mr. Perfect!!! You will just have to figure out what qualities are the most important to you, and look for someone that possesses them.
2007-05-18 06:22:28 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you have to realize that there is no Mr. Perfect, all the men out there are wonderful, and they all have unique qualities that you see that make you attracted to them, it is not only on the outside that counts, it is on the inside.
Stop looking so hard and stop analyzing every man you go out with and do not look at their imperfections, becuase we, women and men are not perfect, it is on the inside that counts.
When you let lose and look at the inside of a person and when you stop critisizing (sp), them then you can look at the real person, and fall in love with each and every one of their beautiful qualities and what they can contribute to your relationship.
2007-05-18 06:26:05 · answer #3 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be careful, of things you wish for.
As for Mr perfect.
One day a Mr. Perfect will make your heart skip..and make your eyes roll back, and make you feel the goose bumps, well that might be him.
Just take time to enjoy all those things that comes with that package.
As for that, weired atitude, well you come as a package, as well.
Good luck.
2007-05-18 06:36:00 · answer #4 · answered by meatball288001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find out why you do this. Maybe you fear commitment and when things get too serious you bail.
Happens to alot of poeple. Others just like the chase. It's like the fun is catching the fish. Once you have caught it the fun is gone..... I suggest maybe see a counsellor to help you determine whats going on for you
2007-05-18 06:23:26 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Two possibilities:
1) You have low self-esteem, and by returning your affection a guy indicates that he's not really good enough after all - because no-one good would really love you back.
2) You're scared of the real thing, and you shy away when things move from wishing&hoping to an actual relationship
CD
2007-05-18 06:26:25 · answer #6 · answered by Super Atheist 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
It seems to me that you just want what you cant have. You like a guy but as soon as he shows interest in you you're over him. Maybe you never really liked him in the first place you just wanted the attention? Maybe just think about why you would do that. Are you not happy just being single?
2007-05-18 06:23:12 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gess u thrive on tha thought that wen you hav a crush on sum1 u dnt kno, u feel giddy and happy about bein 'in love' but u dnt kno tha person *otha than u've got tha hots for them and that theyr really hot* I used to have that feelin, nd wen i found out they liked me too, it felt like 'okay, move on to the next guy' maybe its that feeling that u know u can get them sorta thing...yea, well anyways, u shudn't really fall foa sum1 until u get to know them, it culd be lust wat ur feeling. luv tha person foa how they look AND there personality. 50/50
2007-05-18 06:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by vongi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
work on being ms perfect and really try to become the person you desire in your life and when he finds you it'll last because you can feel one another. you'll have the same likes and dislikes. take your time and really get to know him better
we don't like what we don't know
2007-05-18 06:35:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
2 solutions
16 Over- Have sex with youre love beleive me itll help
15 Under- Have a first kiss
2007-05-18 06:28:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋