a while ago my bf left me he said he was too stressed n such with school. i found he was with somone else. but a day later he called me and said he loved me and he wanted me back and he was sorry such and such.... to make a long story short were back togther he proved himself loyal and proved he was confused.. thats was about 7 moths ago. Im preg. now and were getting married but the ***** who he cheated on me with has serious mental probs and still wants him.. he has screamed at her... yelled and bitched her out... and so hav i and our other friends. two nights ago i got a message saying "hey jess call me i have a feeling mike cheated" from the girl and i flipped and left him... i should have known he didnt and such but we got back togther the next day i guess it was preg hormones. BUT. he flipped **** on her and so did i... she swears she didnt do it.. but its there on my myspace. IM going to their schoopl today so we can talk to her in peroson. I just need more advice! help me! lol
2007-05-17 22:56:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
restraining order! go to count and fill out a restraining order on her. Make sur eyou have her full name. Have a policemen deliver it to her door. This will work because if she comes within 100 yard of you.. she will get arrested... trust me,... i got one on both my ex and his current girlfriend who will not be near me for at max.... 3 years... :)
2007-05-17 23:04:09 · answer #1 · answered by honeyxmust 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that if he does not get the bit*h ou of your face, you are going to leave his little a**. Why should you have to deal with all of this drama when you are pregnant? You don't want to cause you baby any problems. Stress is not good for you right now. It wasn't your mistake in the first place. It was his mess, now let him deal wih it.
2007-05-18 06:04:15 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
hey hun, its me again! i answered ur other question! and ya know what my advice is??
Ya need to talk things over with him.. tell him , its u or her! and by that u mean, no contact AT ALL with her! you guys are trying to start a family together and she doesnt need to be in the picture! If he doesnt understand, then thats his choice and u need to move on because hunny, Ur child doesnt need to go through the fights and arguments that u will have about her.. trust is a BIG issue these days but u need to TRUST him or it will more than likely not work out...and if it doesnt then BABY THERE ARE MORE GUYS OUT THERE that will TREAT u right, and love to have u...and just b/c u are having a baby doesnt mean no one will want u..alot of guys look for that....but dont be in a hurry cuz u need to just focus on urself care and takin care of that lil bundle of joy!! THat baby needs u... ANd when your man grows up, he will realize he lost something very special ...but he needs to learn from it..if he wont give up the other girls for u and his baby..its as simple as this..HE ISNT WORTH UR LIFE>....Hope everything works out for u... Please let me know how things work out! hope i helped u....BTW..if it works out between u and him.. LET HIM KNOW THAT U WANT TO BE ABLE TO TRUST HIM...AND he better not screw it up! good luck girl~ ! email me if u would like!
2007-05-22 00:05:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Meeting with her will just give her more attention. I would advise you to change your phone numbers and try ignoring her completely because every time she does something like this, it is to get your attention....and you are giving her the satisfaction. Just pretend she doesnt exist...and by the way your boyf is pretty stupid for cheating, even if it was for a day
2007-05-18 06:01:25 · answer #4 · answered by confused 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Don't even bother. Neither of them are worth your time or energy. Find someone who will love and stay faithful to you no matter what. You are worth FAR more than a cheating man!!! Hope this helps!!!
2007-05-18 06:00:37 · answer #5 · answered by roritr2005 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
This looks like a job for Jerry Springer.
2007-05-18 06:01:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why don't you grow up?This sounds like a bunch of high school stuff!Why don't you change your phone number?Your buyfriend's the problem not her.
2007-05-18 06:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
SAY F**K YOU YOU SKANK HE LOVES ME AND HE WOULD NEVER CHEAT ON ME IF YOU WANT YOURE MAN GO MARRY A GOAT B***H USUALLY I WOULDNT SAY TIS BUT THIS IS TERRIBLE I WANT YOU TO SAY THAT TO HER IGNORE HER WHENEVER SHE CALLS SAY F**K OFF AND HANG UP NEVER TALK TO THE SLAG AGAIN
2007-05-18 06:02:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋