well i jus got dumped but now i wanna pay back ma ex make him sad or heart broken or rejected for jealous how do i do that?
2007-05-17 22:48:18 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sleep with a friend of his?
Go on a date with his brother?
Flirt with his Dad? (or Mother or Sister!!)
Pick his arch-nemesis and go out with them/be seen kissing them in public.
All the above will have the same effect as kicking him in the plums and shoving your hand up his bum and pulling out his entrails quite vigorously!!
(Or you could always play it safe and sensibly and follow the advice of any of the beautiful women who posted before me)
2007-05-17 22:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
It´s not worth it and it doesn´t help at all.
I know, it hurts like devil, but anyway, it is better to realise, that this relation ship would have lead you to nowhere.
So the best you could do is find somebody else who is worth it and be happy with him.
I think it´s very immature planning revenges, as it won´t really help you. Don´t tell lies and horrible things about your ex to common friends, as finally you would be regarded as the "bad one" and also dating with his close friends is just another stupid thing you could do, as people won´t take you serious and talk behind your back, saying that maybe the reason why he has broken the relation ship with you is because you were flirting with all his friends behind his back.
So this is like a boomerang which will come back to you and hit you.
The only thing to do is be pride and don´t show how much he really hurt you, appear cheerful and happy, well dressed and going out with your lady friends.
So he will see, that you don´t give a damn about him.
If other people ask why you break up, just say that you both decided that way as this relationship didn´t have any future.
So let them think whatever they want.
Just live your life and show everybody that you don´t need that guy and sooner as you think love will knock on your door again.
2007-05-18 06:48:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anita P 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no need for revenge the best thing to do is hold your head up high and if you ever see him do not rise to the bait look straight through him and he will be even more peeved.
Revenge just lowers you to his level and I am sure you are a good person keep your chin up walk tallx
2007-05-18 06:27:45 · answer #3 · answered by Edgein 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a new outfit that is sexy. Call up a guy that your ex does not like. Go out where he can see the two of you together. Be sure to act like you are having plenty of fun, even if you can't stand the guy.
Text him--"Boy am I glad that you decided to leave. I've been wanting to date this guy who's been asking me out, and now I can. Thank you!"
2007-05-18 05:54:02 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want revenge? Life is to short. Move on. Be happy. The best thing is to be happy in yourself. Never need someone in your life. Choose to have them. I love my husband dearly but he knows I dont need him to make me complete. I choose to have him in my life. I chose to spend my life with him. But at the end of the day if we split up. Yes I would be sad but the world still turns and I would still have the ability to function. Im a confident person in my own right. I know I am lucky to have him but I also know he is lucky to have me!
2007-05-18 06:04:58 · answer #5 · answered by Psycho Chicken! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wanna do that too. i was dump 3weeks ago. and i cant forget what happen and i want him to regret for doing that. people will say that im immature. but i dont care. i want him to feel 100x worser than i am now. he broke my heart and flunt my exams because of him. this is what i get in return. now he has a new girlfriend. i still want to make him jealous and remorseful. im always telling myself that it's his loss for dumping me. i was a wonderful girlfriend everyone always wanted. go out with a group of guys at the place he usually hang out. make yourself feel as if you are really happy and that you can still be happy although he is not tgt with you.change your hair abit, dress differently. i cant give you good comment. im in the same situation as you, i need comments as well. im still working on mine. well, good luck to you and me. lets wish for success and hope that they will regret for dumping such great girls like us. =)
2007-05-18 06:08:10 · answer #6 · answered by distordedx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By getting a grip and making a success of your life.
2007-05-18 05:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by Gemma T 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't
he did something to you does not mean you do the same
get over it
find someone else
and hope the next person is not so bad
2007-05-18 06:59:56 · answer #8 · answered by aku 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
rise above revenge, it wont make you feel any good about yourself. at the moment you feel anger, it will go just give it time
2007-05-18 05:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by moonbeamyyy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a happy life without looking back.They seem to hate it when we are happy or can make it without them:-)
2007-05-18 05:51:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋