Family & Relationships - 13 May 2007

so this guy that i really like also likes me back, but he says he wants to move slow, and that he likes to be friends with a girl before he dates to see how we will get along. does it just sound like he wants to be friends or does it seem like he's the type to take it slow?

2007-05-13 23:55:45 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i hate cca camps and school camps because i always suffer at the camps and even when i am bathing we have to bathe together and i dont like it when they see my parts and touch it

2007-05-13 23:54:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Around a year ago i started seeing a guy who moved next door with his mum. im 19 and he is 25. it was a secret thing as we didn't want others to know and still to this day nobody knows. but the worst possible things has happened. he has fallen in love with my mum and now they go out together and i sleep in a room next to them two.

what should i do??

im in a happy relationship now with a great guy, but still the though of them two getting up to stuff drives me insane and i cant bear it!!! any idea how i can get to grip with it??

any advice will help so long as its reasonable and within reason!!

2007-05-13 23:54:08 · 18 answers · asked by Kirsty N 2 in Singles & Dating

OK so ? I have this friend and she thinks she is friends with me and these girls but no one likes her in the group neither do I and she is just so annoying we all dont want to hang out with her but she is always talking to us and like hanging out with us it is really annoying we dont want to be mean but we dont want to be friends with her but we made up a code name for her but she still thinks that were friends with her so just try to ignore her but that doesnt work is there any thing I can do to get her of my nerves?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!? PLease HELP me and my friends need to do something about it know because soon were just going to scream in her face and like kill her im being sarcastic here ok but I really need help does anybody have any go ideas I mean please it is the only thing I need please please please please and one of the friends in the group thinks she brags alot and I mean alot she is so annoying so if anybody has any ideas please help us please we just really need to!!!!

2007-05-13 23:50:37 · 4 answers · asked by tadp2 2 in Friends

my mother and i never really got along, but on mothers day was when things really started going down hill. it was a norman day, everything was going fine until my uncle showed up. hes been coming over everyday for quite sometime now, always the same thing: being annoying, drinking liquor and beer, smoking; ive just had enough. when he does this he basically talks out of his u know what; saying he wants to hurt and kill ppl, sayin hes god, and all kinds of crazy things...im just fed up. i told my mom weeks ago about this, but i guess she paid it no mind. well, i was cursing, like i always do; its a bad habit thats hard to break, and he was saying stupid stuff, and i was just like, "stop saying ur gonna try and kill ppl all the time" and he basically told me to shut up....i was sooo pissed because he said ur not grown until u have kids and blah blah blah. im 18, almost 19 hopefully, and yeah, im not an adult, but i also think that having kids doesnt make u one; thats just retarded....

2007-05-13 23:46:12 · 9 answers · asked by Jeannette A 2 in Family

in laws included to tell your kids off when you are in the same room, especially when you haven't had a chance to open your mouth and speak yourself.
This has been happening to me with one of my in-laws and I feel a bit peeved to say the least,

2007-05-13 23:39:20 · 33 answers · asked by treacle0511 2 in Family

His "dream girl" always give's advice to him, and also cheer him up a lot, my Friend is confused about this situation, My friend tried to court her, but she said that she's not ready yet, She told my friend that if he changes she might answer him.....

And also His dream girl seems to care about my Friend a Lot, My friend is confused, what should he do???

2007-05-13 23:34:35 · 22 answers · asked by DARKSTAR 3 in Singles & Dating

Is he lying. I wish i knew.
I feel so bad to leave him, the thing is we met online, i'm from arizona and he's from vermont, i flew 2,000 miles to meet him and then realize he loves me. And i fall in love with him, then move in with him and his family. Since the beginning of this year, all we've been having are arguments, and i don't know whether to leave or to stay right now i'm packed up. yester day we argued this morning to and i feel it's all my fault cause i get mad at what he says in his dreams about girls, i check if he really is dreaming about me and ask him to hold me. when he says no i feel i'm not in his dreams. it's hard for me right now. i say i will leave and he cries then i stay. i can't make up my mind. i need advice.
The first day i moved in he said that's your room and this is mine, come in here if you want to have sex.
the first day we met we had sex.
he called up his ex and told her he was with me, in front of me, she couldn't believe i flew 2,000 miles for him.

2007-05-13 23:31:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 23:21:36 · 19 answers · asked by Eva M 1 in Singles & Dating

I have kinda been out alot lately and i would like to stop drinking for a while, im gonna join a gym and start boxing after work. i wanna do this to get into shape and have a new focus in life. i will go out with my friends sometimes but not get so drunk and i wanna do this for the whole summer. is this a good thing or a bad thing? and why? whats the positives and negatives? thanks in advance!

2007-05-13 23:15:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I cant understand why we argue over many things and i end up saying i will pack up and leave i suddenly realize i really love him, and can't.
I did this many several times.
And still feel the same.
He has said to me hurtful things, like you're just jealous you don't have a best friend you could take advice from like i do, all you have is your aunt and your dad.
He has then cried like a baby each time i said i would leave, then i feel his pain, and want to comfort him and stay.
He has told me i don't say i love you first he has to be the one to always say it first, he's said i don't really love him if i say i'm going to leave him.
He has attempted to stab himself with a knife the minute i started packing one time, then stopped and said there are other people that love him like his family and friends.
When i talked and interuppeted him he bursted out angry and punched me on my shoulder arm several times telling me to let him finish what he was going say. I need advice.

2007-05-13 23:05:26 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we've left school 4 study leave and all my mates have gone through different paths,im the only 1 going bck 2 school 4 sixth form and im afriad that im goin 2 loose contact with 1 of my bezzies Amy Lee.i know in a couple of years i can go 2 friendsreuonites.com(sox if spelt wrong)and i dnt want 2 loose her as a mate.what can i do?i dnt want 2 force her 2 stay on.and also when im older im moving 2 new york and she's staying in caerphilly.i know that ill write 2 her but we will defo loose contact in years 2 come and i dnt want our friendship 2 be taken away from us.plz help!i know that some ppl have gone thru this already and i want u guys 2 tell me how u got thru it. thnx

2007-05-13 22:59:45 · 5 answers · asked by xxashtonxx 2 in Friends

yesterday my bf called me and i was in a situation that dosent really allowed me to talk with him, but i answered .
while i was saying hi , he felt that am not comfortable at talking so he asked me if theres people around me and i saied yes.
so he told me its ok and he will call after a lil time.
then he sended me a msg saying thats : " is this my treat cuz i wanted to hear ur voice, u tell me people around me , im really angry now and i will never call again sorry for bothering u !""
i traied calling back many times but he keeps shuting on me then he sends me this " dont call me again never, its enough until now "
i was realy angry at him. especially i now i did nothing wrong, and its the first time i do this.
while he does it to me many times when i call him, he always tells me :" baby am with some friends call me after 5 min.or he tells me his around people call me after a while.
i never was mad or said anything about it.
what is wrong with him acting like that. i luv him

2007-05-13 22:58:18 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i told my girlfriend one day that i will be at her place at one hour and i was late for more than 1h, and forgot to let her know that i will be late. now she lost confidence in me; and said "i know now what i mean for you"; i know her for over 6 months; i love her a lot, what shall i do

2007-05-13 22:56:32 · 9 answers · asked by jaks 1 in Friends

Me and my girlfriend are together for two months and more
She takes good care of me and I am trying to take care of her, but we have a problem sleeping together on the same bed.
We tried 2 times so far.
I have to sleep with someone else in the same bed for 7 years
I am kind of scared that this will destroy my relationship with her.
How do I handle this , what can I do?
We both love each other and we said that to each other
She told me also that she loves me and she is scared. What means that?
Please give me some advice on the things above
Thank you

2007-05-13 22:55:57 · 5 answers · asked by ianquestions 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

On Friday night I was in the pub with some friends and we spotted this fat girl sitting at the bar. My friends put a £50 bet on that I wouldnt take her home. I took her home and got my way with her and collected the 50 quid from my mates the next day. The thing is that this girl keeps calling to my house and I am hiding and pretending Im not in. She also got my phone number from somewhere and keeps phoning me. How can I get her to go away?

2007-05-13 22:55:42 · 28 answers · asked by Sean D 3 in Singles & Dating

I get married in July, What can i buy my parents as a Thank you for everything they have done?

2007-05-13 22:53:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Ladies your sitting at home watching T.V. when out of the corner of your eye you see your ex, and he's only three inchs tall, running across the floor. What would you do?

2007-05-13 22:51:06 · 17 answers · asked by Stang 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we had a previous argument, and everytime i ask him to hold me, he gets mad that i wake him. I'm not starting to like the fact he is this way. I get angry at him most of the time.

2007-05-13 22:50:28 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 22:49:09 · 8 answers · asked by mahal 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I married my wife when I was 16; I have 8 kids who all vary from 1 to 10 years old. My wife and the love of my life past away last year in a car accident. You might find this weird but I am a marketing director with big thick wage packets (I don’t know how I have had 8 kids but I do know how I became a marketing director).

My wife wanted a big family so she kept popping out each year without thinking of any consequences and I just gave her it each time. Do you think I was taken advantage off?

Now I am left with 8 little disasters & a nanny who rips me off for £600 a week but that is fine; I have no time on my hands and no social life as I am always on the run for promotional ads.

Where do you think I will be in the next 10 years and also do I sound like a great catch; if a brought a woman home to my 8 kids “Do you think she will run for the door”. After all “I am 25 with 8 kids now you rarely ever see that ;o)”.

2007-05-13 22:47:02 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm serious and really would like to know the truth.

2007-05-13 22:43:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has anyone been hurt by another that afterward they hated who they were even for a little bit and how did you benefit from it later on or learn from it or tell me stories of you loving yourself again... say if a significant other didn't like somehting about you that you hated but later learned to either love or live with or are still struggling with... please details... i'm bored and thinking of my own issues.

2007-05-13 22:41:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we were doing great before. but somehow lately, i cant stand on his angry attitude. he's like always try to find my faults. at the same time i cant really tolerate with him anymore. previously, when he's mad, i'll usually tolerate and be soft. seems like i cant do that anymore. we will fight like hell even on a small matter. we were planning to get marry in 2 years time, but i just cant imagine my life if this situation remains. :(

2007-05-13 22:38:36 · 15 answers · asked by la la la 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a girle firend that she is 8year older than me.I love her & she love me.we want to married together but we parents dont allow we.we dont know we must do.

2007-05-13 22:34:36 · 10 answers · asked by geladiator_ir_as 1 in Friends

3 weeks ago my ex girlfriend ( she was my girlfriend back then) said she loved me more than anything in the world, and that she could never live without me, well after about 2 weeks from her saying that, She broke up with me, and dated someone else for two days, Then that week she said she still loved me, then we argued.. did not talk for a week, she texted me saying she wanted to see me, first two days of her asking I blew her off, I was upset. Then I finally came to see her, she said she had sort of missed me. That night we ended up making out, next day we went shopping together when I brought it up she was very embaressed, before this break up we were together for 3 years, last summer she had broken up with me, and was pretty much acting the same way she is now, She has bi polar, and last summer it seemed as if she were manic, this summer it seems that way too, but she says that she is not manic. She only wants to be friends with me and wants to be with someone else.

2007-05-13 22:33:10 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-13 22:30:44 · 12 answers · asked by xyz 1 in Singles & Dating

I met this guy. I want a relationship, he seems decent. But he is what most HOT girls would call a complete loser. He is not built, he is not good looking, and he sounds as if he is gay but he isnt. Through his voice i mean and sum of the things he does.

This guy likes me, and i was going to d8 him to see how things went, but my gfs would be shocked if i did and giv us a hard time about it. Specially me. I am worried about what they think, and i am kinda embaressed about it. Imagine you were me, what would you do?

2007-05-13 22:30:16 · 6 answers · asked by louise 3 in Singles & Dating

Met this guy at work on a week end. He became really very friendly and wanted to keep talking to me. By the middle of the day, he asked if he can take me home instead of my husband picking me up. I thought this was ok. Called my husband and told him I just met a new friend and that he was going to take me home. My husband was ok with this. We had a good time chatting over dinner. Come Monday morning,like this guy didn't know me, and even felt like he didn't want to talk to me. Instead of dining at the cafeteria like he used to, he ate inside his car. What's up with this? I felt like he liked me but was staying away bec. I was married. Am I right?

2007-05-13 22:24:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well these new girls from a different school have come to my school...there are 5 of them and they were best best friends.....they had their own "group/space" and when they came to my school they started hangin out with me and so i became a part of their group.....
Now...things have changed they make plans to go out, etc and seldom call me.....they act as if im really not their best friend even though i was and they said so.
Only one of the girls hang out with me and keeps backbiting about those other 4 girls.

I havnt done anything wrong but i feel as if all 5 of them are up to something...against me...

PLz help....what should i do
Im really worried and depressed
But i dont want rude comments plz

2007-05-13 22:19:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends