Met this guy at work on a week end. He became really very friendly and wanted to keep talking to me. By the middle of the day, he asked if he can take me home instead of my husband picking me up. I thought this was ok. Called my husband and told him I just met a new friend and that he was going to take me home. My husband was ok with this. We had a good time chatting over dinner. Come Monday morning,like this guy didn't know me, and even felt like he didn't want to talk to me. Instead of dining at the cafeteria like he used to, he ate inside his car. What's up with this? I felt like he liked me but was staying away bec. I was married. Am I right?
2007-05-13 22:24:26 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Why dont you ask him, to avoid all the missunderstanding.
2007-05-13 22:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by "LuckyStar" 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are one step away from committing adultery. Here you are, worried about some other guy when you should be worried about your husband.
Let me get this straight. You told your husband you were getting a ride home from work and he didn't have to come get you, right? Then instead of going home right away (like you should have), you went to dinner with this other guy.
To me it is a form of cheating. You told your husband a "new friend" was taking you home. I'll bet you never mentioned the friend was male, did you? Here's a thought: Tell your husband you went to dinner with a new MALE friend and how much fun you had "chatting". What do you think his response will be?
Your "friend" is doing the right thing. Yes, he is probably staying away from you because you are married. Why would he put himself in a bad situation? Who in their right mind gets hooked up with married people anyway?
2007-05-14 05:33:35 · answer #2 · answered by bux_martinfan 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you accept a ride from a guy you just met, instead of waiting for your husband to pick you up? And why are you now wondering if this stranger likes you? Doesn't sound like your heart is in the right place, lady.
2007-05-14 08:47:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't sweat it. Be glad that this guy took it amongst himself not to pursue you, because he might have made trouble for your marriage. Since you didn't know him and he didn't know you, your not friends let it go. Maybe he seen that you weren't interested in an affair and decided to try to move on to the next married woman. Be glad that he went on his merry way, sounded like a trouble maker to me.
2007-05-14 05:33:19 · answer #4 · answered by Lil_MissVal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is mad because he never got any where with you and now is try to avoid you so that you will feel sorry for him. He want s to see if you will chase after him. Doesn't matter to him that you are married. It is an old guy trick to get attention.
2007-05-14 05:30:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
U have answered ur own Q. U should do the same, stay away from him! Dont mingle with emotion if u r not ready to ruin ur marriage.
2007-05-14 07:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by ni2penang 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why in the first place you befriend an unknown person and go to his place. He must have thought you are single and that he would have S**x with you and you did not allow it happen because you are married.
2007-05-14 05:31:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what does it matter that he likes you or not??? You're married and don't need to be eating dinner out with other men. Are you so blind not to think he is just mad because he didn't get in your pants??
2007-05-14 07:21:51 · answer #8 · answered by swtlilblonde31 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah!!!! He doesnt want to be involved with a married woman! U may have seen it as a new friendship, he was seeing it as a possible relationship. now he doesnt want anything to do with you.
2007-05-14 06:23:29 · answer #9 · answered by teena662002 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married thats whats wrong with him. He may have just wanted to be friends and may think you want more than that.
2007-05-14 05:44:20 · answer #10 · answered by treasuredwife69 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋