Is he lying. I wish i knew.
I feel so bad to leave him, the thing is we met online, i'm from arizona and he's from vermont, i flew 2,000 miles to meet him and then realize he loves me. And i fall in love with him, then move in with him and his family. Since the beginning of this year, all we've been having are arguments, and i don't know whether to leave or to stay right now i'm packed up. yester day we argued this morning to and i feel it's all my fault cause i get mad at what he says in his dreams about girls, i check if he really is dreaming about me and ask him to hold me. when he says no i feel i'm not in his dreams. it's hard for me right now. i say i will leave and he cries then i stay. i can't make up my mind. i need advice.
The first day i moved in he said that's your room and this is mine, come in here if you want to have sex.
the first day we met we had sex.
he called up his ex and told her he was with me, in front of me, she couldn't believe i flew 2,000 miles for him.
2007-05-13 23:31:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He's a psycho and has at least a lifetime + to grow and learn from the hells he imposes on others close to him, Do NOT stick around to see what else is up his sleeve, I once dated a guy who could turn on the waterworks with a flip of a switch. Looking back I am so disgusted and I feel dumb for wasting any time with him... Sincere or not the guy is a total d-bag just drop him and find your true happiness elsewhere!
And he may or may not love you but he loves all the other girls, too. Imagine what could happen if one ever comes onto him. He won't be pure..... I can tell you that.
Do the right thing now get away from him ! ~If u want to talk add me to your contacts/ but just remember you are stronger than him and he's LUCKY to have you, he's an absolute fool to be acting like such a dog.
2007-05-13 23:47:26 · answer #1 · answered by Jeska J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need a therapist. 1 for flying 2000 miles to move in with someone you met online, and 2 for getting mad at someone for dreaming. He can't stop his dreams! Are you that insecure that you are jealous of his dreams?
2007-05-14 06:39:21 · answer #2 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everything has happened in your relationship all too soon.
This is a perfect example of why people need to take things slow and get to know eachother before making large life alterning decisions.
You went a great distance to be with him, but that does not make it 'meant to be'. You were obviously too eager to be with someone that you would risk so much for so little.
Go, and learn from your mistake.
2007-05-14 06:39:39 · answer #3 · answered by Bearess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is selfish, stupid and an abuser and you are wondering. Get out today - immediately, and go back home. Once he sent you to "your" room it was abuse - and now he has hit you. Get out now. You only asked because you know that is what you must do. Even if you love him, he has no feelings for you except bad ones as he hit you. No matter what he says, he hit you and that reflects contempt toward you. Do not listen to him - get out now.
2007-05-14 06:44:14 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stay much longer, i can evisage him bringing his mates round to share you. An judging by your post i would imagine you would let it all happen as you sound very very lonely.
Try and escape, before you find yourself chained up in his basement eating dog food and being a sex slave.
good luck
2007-05-14 06:54:43 · answer #5 · answered by nyleridedog 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out of there, this guy will abuse you, once a hitter always a hitter. He needs help, and he will not get it with you there, he will come up wth an excuse everytime you bring it up. Get out your life is in danger.
2007-05-14 10:16:36 · answer #6 · answered by Jim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should leave him now there is no point to continue with him coz u left your family for him now he hits your what kind of a guy he is? i wish i was him, he is so stupid,pack your staff and leave but dont commit suicide.
2007-05-14 06:45:09 · answer #7 · answered by luvuyo s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Violence in a relationship is an absolute deal breaker.
Get out while you can.
Don't go back for any reason.
You deserve better.
2007-05-14 06:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disagreements are normal but being physically abused is not love honey.
If your not sure if he loves you maybe going home will answer that question.
Good luck and think about what is best for YOU. :)
2007-05-14 06:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by no cutesy name : ) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do really a lovely woman, oh i am a woman too , anyway i appreciate you for your love , hope the man knows how to treasure you, if not move on. good luck.
2007-05-14 06:49:15 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋