Well these new girls from a different school have come to my school...there are 5 of them and they were best best friends.....they had their own "group/space" and when they came to my school they started hangin out with me and so i became a part of their group.....
Now...things have changed they make plans to go out, etc and seldom call me.....they act as if im really not their best friend even though i was and they said so.
Only one of the girls hang out with me and keeps backbiting about those other 4 girls.
I havnt done anything wrong but i feel as if all 5 of them are up to something...against me...
PLz help....what should i do
Im really worried and depressed
But i dont want rude comments plz
2007-05-13 22:19:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
y dont u jst ignore them.for sum time jst roam around with ur old pals.wen they'll see this they'll automatically get to kno that u are not an easy target.Goodluck
2007-05-13 22:25:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where are your friends you had before the new girls came to your school? If you feel they are cheating you or using you, go back to your old friends (if they will have you back). When I was in high school I had about 3 friends and was never part of a group because I'd rather have a couple of good friends then to belong to a big group.
2007-05-14 05:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think back to when all was ok the very next time you seen the girls did anything happen and you were not aware of.ask you self when /why did things change also remember there going to a new school it may not be you it maybe because they are nevious of the new school things change but to put your mind at rest ask them one by one if you do not want to speak to them all together phone and ask if you can meet for a chat now i know that it is not easy for you but for your sake do something for you good luck silver fox.
2007-05-14 05:34:45 · answer #3 · answered by aidanj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust me, the same thing happened to me. Everything was going smoothly. Until one day, they avoided talking to me. I text messaged her(leader of gang) and she said that she was angry because I can get along with her best friend more than she does. Well, that's the end of it. Try text mesaging her. If she says no, ask her other best friends, maybe they'll know something! Good Luck, and be brave! ^.^
2007-05-14 05:49:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just go hang out with some different people. They are not a positive group and they are causing you negative feelings. I say dump them.
2007-05-14 05:23:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play it cool hon, and slowly back away from them with dignity, If you do it real slow, it will give you a chance to develop new friendships with other girls at your school. Don't worry, and have a good day.
2007-05-14 05:26:50 · answer #6 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been around people like that soo many times.Ditch em hunny it will save you alot of trouble in the long run.. they are eventually all going to get back together and team up against you
2007-05-14 05:23:19 · answer #7 · answered by Kelsey W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to them and let them know that you are feeling left out. Whatever you do, do not participate in the backstabbing that is going on.
2007-05-14 05:28:46 · answer #8 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You make your own group of friends and meke them know how much you value them.
2007-05-14 06:04:02 · answer #9 · answered by madlymadrks 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SIMPLE--find some new friends
2007-05-14 05:32:02 · answer #10 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋