Family & Relationships - 13 May 2007

Im turning 18 soon, and unlike most people my age i didnt date alot, i went the other route and got into a serious relationship instead, bad idea! i dated this girl for a year and a half and it ended brutally because of my drug problem. How come it seems like girls need drama? its like when things settle down they have to start something for more drama?

2007-05-13 16:25:49 · 32 answers · asked by Orion M 1 in Singles & Dating

Death really do hurts know you are not ever going to see them again until you make it to heaven or hell.
I have already lost my sister, Now I am facing to lose my Father too. I do not know how much longer he has.I am losing my best friend and a mother too
I am going to be lost in this world with out my family. once again DEATH DOES HURTS

2007-05-13 16:24:46 · 23 answers · asked by starliee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I fell in love with him when i found he loves me with all his heart. he would do anything for me even if it means leaving his house. But that would be a prob in my house 'cos i'm still in college. He's trying his best to stop his marriage but its of no use. If he tells abt me, then we would face serious consequences. I'm totally lost and helpless. I dont want to give him up though. I have one more yr to complete my engineering after which i'm free to do anything. He cannot even push his marriage for another yr. Pls suggest me a way out of this. Or atleast give ur opinions if u were in my position so that i can face the reality.

2007-05-13 16:23:41 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im smart at least that's what my classmates think and they think that im pretty.im a good sport.im suportive.im the class president.but im NOT A NERD.

2007-05-13 16:22:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

In the Bible it talks about the marking of the beast and if you ecept it then there is no chance in getting into heaven, and that is the only way to purches food, so who decides for the kids to get one. and would you accept it to feed your kids.

2007-05-13 16:21:24 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i want to ask is there any way by which we can see a persons profile ,so that he or she dosent come to know thats his profile is being seen , plz be sure

2007-05-13 16:20:59 · 8 answers · asked by jj 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi, last week, it was my grandma's 72nd bday. My bf of 3 yrs (26 and I am 25) was invited and he chose not to attend. He met my mom (briefly like once), but not my close relatives. Yest, I was bridesmaid for my friend's wedding and was planned months in advance he would come. But at very last min., he told me couldn't come. His reasons are he is uncomfortable, and they are all strangers to him, so what's the point of attending functions. The only function he attends is my bday (probably with no-one else around). The strange part is that during our first year, he attended almost all the functions I invited him to. He has social anxiety b/c before a potluck one time, he took social anxiety pills. Now, he backs out of everything. My friends/fam never said anything bad of him b/c it's impossible since he hardly met any of them. I attend all of his fam/work events. He only attends his friends' bdays. How can I gradually get him to attend my friends and family functions?

2007-05-13 16:17:39 · 3 answers · asked by Mei Wah W 1 in Friends

Some responses to the question here:

http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=Ajl6DcbcW1Lvfab0iLg9GzHsy6IX?qid=20070513185553AALYYar&show=7#profile-info-PxJXU5nuaa

have me a little perplexed. My feelings on the topic are in the thread, but some of the responses lead me to ask women...IF you agree she was right to slap him, can't he hit her back?

If not, EXACTLY why not? What gives you a right that he doesn't have? What gives you a pass to be violent?

If you've hit him, haven't you sent the message that if you're ticked enough it's an appropriate response? Why SHOULDN'T you expect the same treatment?

2007-05-13 16:10:47 · 8 answers · asked by Atavacron 5 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and he says he likes me. but hes starting to show a sexual interest. and hes hot so of course i would have at least a little sexual interest in him too. should i just have it with him or make him try dating first? i dont want to make the mistake of losing my virginity with an a-$-$

2007-05-13 16:10:45 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband joined the army almost a year ago, and when he left for basic training, i didnt cry. i was sad, and miserable that we had to be apart, but i couldnt cry even though i wanted to. he came home for christmas, and when we took him to the airport to fly back to where he was having his training ididnt cry then either! he feels like i should be crying, and he thinks that i dont care that he is leaving, because i dont cry. it is a really sore spot for him too, i know that it bothers him so much! i mean, when we fight i cry so easily, but i dont understand why i cant cry when he leaves. I miss him desperately, and i cry into my pillow a lot at night when hes away, its not like i dont miss him. and to make things worse, his mother and sisters always cry a lot when he leaves, and it makes me feel like a really bad person! how can i cry?

2007-05-13 16:07:59 · 13 answers · asked by lorieu 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-13 16:01:22 · 18 answers · asked by noodle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-13 16:00:36 · 16 answers · asked by crazychick 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-13 16:00:17 · 24 answers · asked by Free Girl Now 3 in Friends

On Friday I received a dozen pink roses from my one and only daughter. On Saturday I went to dinner with my daughter as her other treat and she also gave to me a gift bag of Godiva Chocolates .On Sunday my husband, daughter and good friend went to breakfast as my husbands treat. My son and his wife came over to visit with me and brought me many assorted gifts. Also received many gifts from my husband and he took me out to dinner too. I am blessed with a wonderful family. A sad note to this happy weekend -- my oldest son never even thought of me on Mother`s Day. He told me I am useless to him. Well, I guess it is his loss.

2007-05-13 15:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by Patches 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-13 15:57:50 · 18 answers · asked by Ash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After seven years of being together he has forgotten or not acknowledge my birthday over half of those years and never cares about mothers day. One year I had to take my kids to the store myself to buy me my mothers day presents. This year he took the kids out last night to go buy me some gifts and I just found out he bought himself a cd he has been wanting. I thought today was suppose to be about me? He even hid the CD from me- when the kids questioned him about it he said he had my permission...
What should I do? I just got laid off from my job but Im trying to get a new one. I didnt even buy myself something I really NEEDED not wanted tonight because funds are going to be way tight until payday.
Why is he so selfish and self centered? He said hes not... what else would you call it?
Do I have a right to be hurt? I feel very deceived and hurt right now. Should I leave after I get a job? What would you do? He claims to be a Christian but this isnt right behavior is it?

2007-05-13 15:52:58 · 19 answers · asked by mommabeags 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Well my girlfirend has busy schedule for work and going to college. I go to college and sometimes volunteer with needy charities. We bewarely have any time to see each other and sometimes we only see each other for about 3 hours a week. I love her to death and just want to spend time with her. She said she will have more time to spend with me in the summer. Should I stay with her or break up with her?

2007-05-13 15:50:59 · 15 answers · asked by avenger 2 in Singles & Dating

I know crazy, but i really REALLY want to get away. I am sick of my friends and some of my family. IM only 13 so its not like go many places. I dont want to runaway, so like is there anyway i can arrange for someone to kidnap me for like a week for like a few hundred bucks????

2007-05-13 15:49:41 · 7 answers · asked by Linnea T 1 in Friends

2007-05-13 15:49:23 · 9 answers · asked by vishnu_chooda 1 in Singles & Dating

i will be getting married soon but my future wife has around $26,000 of debt from college and her car. and i do not have no debt, and my credit score is perfect, now from my understanding when married her debt is now my debt which is bullshit if you ask me. and i also have quit a bit of money saved in a personal savings account that i have saved through the years from my hourly job. first off will her debt show up on my credit report as me owing $26,000 when married too? and the money i have saved i do not want to tell her as of right now until i feel comfortable later on to see how the marrige works out because who the hell knows if someday i get a divorce paper unexpectedly or something who knows what the future holds what looks good today which it is otherwise i would not be marrying her, might not be good tommarow?

2007-05-13 15:40:36 · 17 answers · asked by brussels152 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Currenly I'm under seperation with my wife and my girlfriend is expecting my child. Few thing I'll like to know.

i) When the child is born, will I be legally the child's father and can the child's birth cert bear my name as the father?

ii) If it's negative, how should I go about becoming the child's legal father after my seperation?

iii) Will the mother (my girlfriend) be entitled to the government's grant for newborn?

iv) Is there any legal implication from my current marriage/seperation?

v) It'll be good if ayone can input some pointers that I should take note of and not asked in these questions.

Thanks in Advance.....

2007-05-13 15:39:37 · 2 answers · asked by Darren S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

tell me why is it we cheat and then fall in love with the cheaters like they won't do it to us?

2007-05-13 15:34:19 · 31 answers · asked by Monique 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-13 15:23:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a HUGE crush on a guy that works at my school. he isn't a teacher, persay, but he does work at my school. i can't stop thinking about him. i have felt like this for like 3 years now. he knows so much about me and he always wants to talk to me. whenever he gets the chance, he will have a long conversation with me. sometimes, i think he likes me too. but then my friends will tell me that it's NOT gonna happen since he is a teacher and all. i am soo close to him. and i hate it that i don't know how he feels and i can't get over him. i'm only 16. and he's 27. i'm graduating in 2 years, so maybe things will change. we used to email each other but not anymore. i just don't know what to do anymore.

2007-05-13 15:21:10 · 8 answers · asked by Hanna S 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so here is the deal. My husband and I recently got married, but I cannot move with him right away. He is going back to his station to sign in tomorrow. (He's in the Marines!) We are trying to get me signed in, but... to do that can I send him with a copy of our marriage certificate or do they really need the original? He will be in S.C. while I'll still be in N.Y. I would hate to send him with the original because it will probably get lost, lol. But, I don't want him to get down there and he needs the original. We are trying to move me there a.s.a.p. Any help or info from experienced persons would be greatly appreciated!
Just shooting for it... Do you also know how long it would take before I am eligible on his insurance and when I can start using it? I kind of need it! Thanks again!

2007-05-13 15:17:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It's me again...about the husband frequenting bars - one last question for tonight. I fear that in leaving, he'll blame me for giving up on the marriage - even though he's the cause of us getting to this point. How do I become strong enough to make that decision for the better of me and my sanity? It has taken me a long while to get here because I truly would love to stay with him, but I know I can't keep going on like this. (I liked the suggestion of the ultimatum - the bar or me. I think I've given it to him without actually saying it.) With his behaviors I've now come to the point that I don't feel loved or valued. I'm very attractive and sometimes wish I could just gain some attention but that is sooooo not me nor of God. I hate how I'm feeling and hate that I'm so confused. I never imagined that marriage was like this or that I would ever have to endure such feelings. (I would like some men to be some of the responses posted. What is my husband thinking?)

2007-05-13 15:10:32 · 8 answers · asked by working on my marriage 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am seeking visitations with my daughter. Its a long story. I was approached by a lady online in which we hit it off instantly and become involved in a relationship. She was married at the time and left her husband for me. In this time she became pregnant and eventually ended up going back to her husband. When her husband left to go to Iraq she wanted to continue seeing me afraid that maybe her husband might change his mind about accepting my daughter into their family. I have been having visitations with my daughter and seeing her mother every since he left. She started talking things over with him via email and phone. I guess because maybe she was feeling guilty. As it stands right now they want me to go to court and get a paternity test ordered and if in fact I am found to be the biological father then have visitations and child support determined by the court. One other thing he had a vasectomy done about 10 years ago in the military from what I have been told. They also are offering to try to settle things out of court as far as visitations go if I am found to be the biological father. I look forward to your reply as soon as you can find the time. I work from 5am till 3:30pm M-F but I take a lunch break from 12pm to 12:30pm. Feel free to contact me during my lunch break or after work anytime. I also have emails and instant messages from the mother as proof to all of this. I just want to be able to be apart of my daughters life. It is not her fault what has happened. I think she has the right to know both her parents and I will not turn my back on her. Thank You very much for your time.

2007-05-13 15:10:03 · 10 answers · asked by chevy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello everyone,
Just earlier today, I received an email from a girl I know. She stated that she has a crush on me, that she likes me, etc. She already knows, somehow, that I don´t return her feelings.

So my question is this: how should I respond to her email? I want to respond in the nicest way possible, I don't want to hurt her feelings any more then they probably already are.

I have searched through the internet and have found a lot from the perspective of the person who has the crush, but virtually nothing from my perspective.

Any ideas? Any help would be greatly appreciated.

2007-05-13 15:04:18 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

what does it mean??

2007-05-13 15:01:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Alright, if you are having sex like 2-3 times a week with someone for several months and you break up...what does that do to females sexually? If its been a month or two since you've had sex, do you want it even more? How uncontrolable is it? And how addictive is it in general?

2007-05-13 14:55:11 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating