Im turning 18 soon, and unlike most people my age i didnt date alot, i went the other route and got into a serious relationship instead, bad idea! i dated this girl for a year and a half and it ended brutally because of my drug problem. How come it seems like girls need drama? its like when things settle down they have to start something for more drama?
2007-05-13 16:25:49 · 32 answers · asked by Orion M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Alright, teenagers (guys and girls) always will have drama because everyone is still trying to learn who they are. It's hard to figure out who you are when you have one friend telling you one thing and your other friend telling you the other. Teenage years are tough and eventually it will pass.
On the other hand, I have no idea what your drug problem is (if your still involved get out) but she was smart to keep her butt out. and make a big deal. It sounds like you need to get your duck in a line before you get into anythin serious. Good luck!
2007-05-13 16:31:21 · answer #1 · answered by Erin = ) 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The teen years are about trying different relationships, different personalities, etc. in an effort to decide exactly who they want to be. Girls aren't the only ones who enjoy the drama although it is more prevalent with them. Some would wonder why you have a drug problem. You have your reasons. It's kind of the same with the drama.
It's all about experimentation and finding out who you are. The hope is that as a woman matures, she eliminates the drama. That isn't always the case so prepare yourself. Not all women are like that though. Keep looking until you find the right one.
As for the drug thing, I hope you've outgrown that and are taking steps to get that drama cleaned up. Once you do you may find there is less drama all around. All the best to you.
2007-05-13 16:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by innerradiancecoaching 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As Bill Clinton said, "I feel you're pain", I'm much older than you are, but I can honestly tell you that if you realize that you have a drug problem, than congratulations!, you're years ahead of about 90% of your peers. With that in mind, I strongly encourage you to decide just how serious you are about overcoming your drug problem and start taking some steps ASAP. being as that you are only 18, the easiest route to go is to find a support group, perferably one that is specific to your drug of choice if possible. The first thing you will probably discover is that you will be among the youngest, if not the youngest in your group, but STICK WITH IT!!! From there, you can get a better idea of the journey you're in for, other solutions, companionship, support, etc.... And again, keep in mind that if you start know, you will probably be in a much better state by the time most others are just realizing that they have a problem.
As far as the female issues go, you might be interested to know that even though you survived puberty, their is actually a part of your brain that doesn't fully develop until your mid 20's or there abouts. What makes it more interesting is that this part of the brain deals mainly with logic, common sense and abstract thinking, among other things. The point is, that women your age are still maturing, just as you are, so take these next few years to focus on taking care of you, and don't be to "anxious" to jump into a relationship that will probably be destroyed by your drug use anyways. Hope this helps. Good luck
2007-05-13 16:47:40 · answer #3 · answered by diamond_therough 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Because they have no life experience. All they know about relationships is what's on television and stable relationships don't play well on TV and in books. Dramatic ones do.
They tend to copy that and can actually see something "wrong" with it if that drama isn't there.
That and the beginning of any relationship is exciting and energetic. Young people freak sometimes when that fades, believing that you're always supposed to be that "high" on one another, so they artificially ramp up the tension.
Also, some are still in the "Me, me, me" phase of life and don't look at the big picture. They like that they can find ways to heighten and center things on THEIR feelings.
2007-05-13 16:34:46 · answer #4 · answered by Atavacron 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hummm, that's a hard question to answer given the fact that admittedly you had a dug problem. To answer that question one would need more information on circumstances. As a female, I do not agree that females need drama. But we sure do know how to be drama queens!
2007-05-13 16:31:09 · answer #5 · answered by Monique B 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your placing blame....your the one with the drug problem, so maybe your the reason for all the drama!
2007-05-13 16:30:24 · answer #6 · answered by RN_and_mommy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Raging hormones, girl-crazy boys, and boy-crazy girls. High school stress. The pressure to date the opposite sex constantly. And no matter how much we deny it, we love the drama and fast-paced relationships.
2007-05-13 16:28:30 · answer #7 · answered by [NICKNAME] 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They are stuck in the girly rumor-chat-drama mill with all of their girlfriends. It is just like one big soap opera.
Find a smart, mature girl instead.
2007-05-13 16:30:18 · answer #8 · answered by greengo 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's not dramatic. That's just you overthinking that the world revolves around you.
2016-05-17 10:42:38 · answer #9 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all girls are like that.
Most of them just do it because they are immature and insecure of themselves.
I think most teenage girls shouldn't have a serious relationship because they do not know how to handle it..
2007-05-13 16:29:23 · answer #10 · answered by Boy_Crazy! 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋