Death really hurts?

Question

Death really do hurts know you are not ever going to see them again until you make it to heaven or hell.
I have already lost my sister, Now I am facing to lose my Father too. I do not know how much longer he has.I am losing my best friend and a mother too
I am going to be lost in this world with out my family. once again DEATH DOES HURTS

Answer 1

Yes its a very painful time in your life & it takes many years to stop missing them but you have to try to live your life because thats what your dear departed ones would want for you, & I think its terrible to watch a love one die especially someone close like your Dad but when it does happen just try to remember all the happy times not the times when he was sick!
Bless you & yours

Answer 2

Yes, death really does hurt. But we have to accept it. Nobody will remain alive forever. It is only a matter of God's timing that we will all die. One of my friends lost her father two days ago. I found about it today when we were at the mosque and I couldn't help but cry for her because she is only 12 years old and she hadn't seen her father since she was 9 years old and was really looking forward to seeing him this summer. You would definitely guess that she was sixteen years old. She cried because she missed her father but at the same time she was talking about how she had to move on. SHE was the one telling US that she had to move on because that is what God wants and she has to make the best of whatever is left in her life. It is usually the other way around but this girl is very strong. I was very proud of her because of how strong she was and because of her faith in God. But I could tell that she hurting. Who wouldn't be hurting after losing a loved one, let alone a parent?

My point is, no matter how hard things seem to get and no matter who you lose, do not give up sweetie. Death is something that will happen to each and every one of us and it is inevitable. But you are not going to be lost in this world if you stay strong. You need to realize that it is not the end of the world when you lose someone. People come and go. We cannot stop that. We must accept it and move on with our lives. Of course it is painful but we must learn to cope with and by time the pain will fade. What you need to do is speak to someone about this so that you can let out all of your feelings. Stay strong and never give up.

By the way, how old are you?

Answer 3

Death is only the beginning. You seem to have this fear of death? why? I have been around death, young death, old death, we all seem to die at the wrong time. "jus one more day"

The best thing you can do is understand death and not fear it. If you fear it, it will conquer you. If the worst is to happen and your family passes away know that you are not without that person. Yes you may be without that person physically, but they will always be in your heart right? You wont ever forget them will you? Of course not, so when you see them dead understand that what you are seeing is only physical death, not even a person anymore, all they are now is an empty shell.

You will not be lost...if you are religious, cling to it in your time of need, it is not right to suffer alone.

Answer 4

We are all dying in fact the moment you are born into this world is the moment you start to die. But I understand your question when it comes to the hour of death the brain actually blocks out the nerve responses of the body prior before death so at the moment of death you actually feel no pain. Now not all people die instantly some it does take time in which there is suffering involved. My mother had a terminal illness (cancer of the gul balder), it spread to her liver and she did suffer greatly but she never complained about it to the Sisters that were taking care of her. My mother always thought about others before herself so she didn't want to impose upon them when she was suffering. Now my sister that I was living with was called by the cancer home and informed that it was time for my mother to die. My sister was taking her time to get ready so I was hoping I would not be late in being there when she died. It was a half an hour after we were notified that it was time but my mother waited for all of her children to be there before she died.

Answer 5

Yea but GOD said he will always be there I am so so happy that you aren't blaming this on GOD because of this it shows that you are a very smart person and God is truly going to bless you if you need anything I will be here although you don't know me but who cares if you are falling of a bridge you aren't going to wait until you see someone you know to come by first person you see you yelling help SMILE heaven is a beautiful place whoever makes it there wouldn't trade places with us for the whole world and all the money in it...God says there is a time for everything including death and there is also a time for happiness and joy...and who knows when death is going to come knocking just be prepared and not for the worst but for life prayer is the key just trust in his holy words and tune into John Hagee and life goes on beyond measures let them all know how much love them and if they are suffering then pray for their deliverance...SMILE...DEATH is being absent from the BODY and being present with the LORD GOD ALMIGHTY

Answer 6

okay...I am not going to preach to you because nowadays that's what everyone does...but I will tell you...I lost my real father and my adopted father in two years time..then I had my son...he's named after them...all I can tell you is that people die everyday and it's not meant to hurt you...the things they see you do before they die is what counts....you need to focus on them before they die and live each of thier days left here to the fullest...you will eventually lose everyone but thats when you need to either build a family of your own or move on with your life and make new friends new people......you live to die and death is just part of life

Answer 7

I am facing losing my father who is also my best friend to pancreatic cancer. It is very hard but I treat everyday as if it were our last together so that he has the chance to do the things he wants before he passes on. The pain we go through in life makes us stronger. Chin up and remember that they are going to a better place.

Answer 8

I lost my first love to cancer, my son of 27 days to SIDS, and the day before yesterday my cousin who overdosed.
Death hurts alot! I am learning to adapt to life without their physical presence, but I keep them alive by talking about them. It helps to talk with those who have lost loved ones, and vent to them. If i can help in any way, I am here for you. I wish I could give you a big hug. Love to you on this Mother's day as well.
God bless!

Answer 9

well i dont know your ? because u didnt ask one, but death is a normal part of life.........though a little random fact when death is just about to occur all the endorphins in the brain are released such as testosterone so medically it may feel really good to the victim, u need to relax and one day come to terms with the sad hard truth that death is going to come for us all

Answer 10

I lost my father to cancer in 1999 then my mother in 2000 we think she died of a broken heart (Yes it does hurt) believe me though when i tell you it does get better,where as it doesn,t hurt so much.But you will have your memories and there is a big place in your heart just for them.You have to be brave and go forward if not for yourself then do it for them,I always talk to my parents when im feeling down I know they cannot answer me but I do feel better.My heart goes out to you and yours.....................Liz.