2007-05-13 15:23:07 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am attracted to well groomed, clean cut gentlemen, if he's wearing a suit, even better.
He must be intelligent, and able to carry a deep conversation.
Must be classy and and treats me well.
but then he must also be extremely sexual...adventurous, open minded, raging with testosterone, and craving me.
A gentleman on the streets....a freak in the sheets....
2007-05-13 15:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Stimulating conversation that is not necessarily personal. If he is not asking "feeler" questions, but rather questions that lead to general conversation that can be intellectually stimulating, witty, joking, I feel this often leads to flirting and more adult related conversation. Then the man will find the woman flirts with him. The pressure is off, you aren't wondering what the right answer is for questions of a personal nature about family, jobs, friends. More general points of view that are open ended and allow the individual to relax and feel comfortable.
And he must have clean hands. This includes trimmed and clean fingernails. There is nothing remotely sexy about a man with dirty hands. No one wants to be touched by someone with dirty fingernails. Please do not make any movements with the mouth, tongue, lips that intimate that you perform oral sex. This is tasteless and often leaves a woman wondering how she is supposed to respond. I generally find only immature young girls still respond in kind to such overt displays.
Good luck out there!
2007-05-13 22:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by a p 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only thing that's leading to sex is if we're officially exclusive with one another. After that, sex is no problem because I'd never be exclusive with someone I don't want to have sex with.
Not the answer you're looking for, but that's my answer :-)
By the way, look like Brad Pitt, and you don't have to worry about saying the right or wrong thing. At least, that's how a lot of girls feel (not me, though).
I guess, if I wasn't picky about who I sleep with, I'd say he'd have to be attractive (to me) and have a certain charm, either wise guy charm or good guy charm- whichever.
2007-05-13 22:28:53 · answer #3 · answered by :-) 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if your looking for a one night stand your an asshole for asking. If you been with this lady for a long time and you plan on having a serious relationship then great. Maybe if you take her out to a nice dinner and don't rush her and let her order whatever and you eat together. Talk and enjoy dinner and then take it to the next level as long as you feel she likes you that way. Kiss her and if you get slapped sorry and if not move in. If she feels for you and then move in to ask her if she will like to come over and spend more time with you. Move in further if you do get her to yourplace. You can figure the rest good luck.
2007-05-13 22:29:25 · answer #4 · answered by Andrea B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I really hope that you are asking this question solely out of curiousity and not because you are planning on seducing some poor girl by telling her things that she wants to hear and then just showing a real and different self. Just be yourself from the beginning and if it clicks - it clicks!
2007-05-13 22:32:51 · answer #5 · answered by say it right 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For me, three physical qualities turn me on most ... a very deep voice, big hands, & a hairy chest. Beyond the physical, I look for someone who shows respect & makes me feel safe ... someone who wants to continue the relationship after sex.
2007-05-13 22:27:55 · answer #6 · answered by bayou7673 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Him treating me like I'm a person that's worth going the extra mile for. Him paying attention to little details such as what scent I wear, and what flowers and colors I like. Him NOT expecting me to give out the first, second or third date, but when I want to.
2007-05-13 22:26:59 · answer #7 · answered by Angie 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
First, each woman is different. Second, don't make any suggestions that you're looking for sex. Third, don't be creepy (starring too much could count as creepy and don't breath thru your mouth). Oh and smell nice too.
2007-05-13 22:29:38 · answer #8 · answered by melsoap 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
They should be funny. They should smile at you and look at you very nicely. You have treat her like a princess.
Don't ever be ashamed you are with her.
If you are close to sex, then act sexy. Touch her neck, kiss her on her neck. Play with her hair.
Hope it helps.
2007-05-13 22:28:11 · answer #9 · answered by xmarilynax 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a dude.
My suggestion to you is, play your cards how ever you want!(Pull out the joker! Quik!)
Your biggest need is ..........A Super Luck!
Dude, I'm Ellano~!
2007-05-13 22:30:49 · answer #10 · answered by allanwu_ming 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋