I am seeking visitations with my daughter. Its a long story. I was approached by a lady online in which we hit it off instantly and become involved in a relationship. She was married at the time and left her husband for me. In this time she became pregnant and eventually ended up going back to her husband. When her husband left to go to Iraq she wanted to continue seeing me afraid that maybe her husband might change his mind about accepting my daughter into their family. I have been having visitations with my daughter and seeing her mother every since he left. She started talking things over with him via email and phone. I guess because maybe she was feeling guilty. As it stands right now they want me to go to court and get a paternity test ordered and if in fact I am found to be the biological father then have visitations and child support determined by the court. One other thing he had a vasectomy done about 10 years ago in the military from what I have been told. They also are offering to try to settle things out of court as far as visitations go if I am found to be the biological father. I look forward to your reply as soon as you can find the time. I work from 5am till 3:30pm M-F but I take a lunch break from 12pm to 12:30pm. Feel free to contact me during my lunch break or after work anytime. I also have emails and instant messages from the mother as proof to all of this. I just want to be able to be apart of my daughters life. It is not her fault what has happened. I think she has the right to know both her parents and I will not turn my back on her. Thank You very much for your time.
2007-05-13 15:10:03 · 10 answers · asked by chevy 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
first get a paternity test/a lot of men say they had a vasectomy when in reality they did not/before u become more involved GET A PATERNITY TEST RIGHT AWAY/regardless of what they say/ have everything settled through the courts/u have rights too/if u do not go through court it will be an issue of he said she said/ good luck
2007-05-13 15:19:05 · answer #1 · answered by hotdogsarefree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can request a paternity test. If you are found to be the biological father expect to pay child support. Of course, you'll also get visitation. Do not settle out of court without an attorney of your own.
2007-05-13 17:22:00 · answer #2 · answered by kp 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Paternity should be stipulated at birth with DNA. What the hell use is a birth certificate that gives out wrong information to the owner of same. And now that marriage is on the decrease, DNA testing is more than ever a must for the future.
2016-05-17 10:22:57 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say where you're from. But a friend of mine was in a similar situation and he turned out to be the father of the child. Since the woman was married and her husband accepted the child and his name was on the birth certificate, my friend did not have to pay support. Yet he did get visitations. Fortunately, he is a great guy and still helped with money and now the three of the child's parents get along well.
2007-05-13 15:33:56 · answer #4 · answered by califdreamer_2000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i would go ahead and get a paternity test as soon as possible so I could be a part of my daughter's life. Children grow up so fast. I know from experience.
2007-05-13 15:17:12 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um you answered your own question. You can request a paternity test anytime, but you will pay for it.
2007-05-13 15:13:19 · answer #6 · answered by dior.junkie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, absolutely so..It doesn't matter if she was/is married. If there is a question , then there can be a paternity test.
2007-05-13 15:15:36 · answer #7 · answered by Hestia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can get the test done, and pay for it... they will make you pay support and set you up with visits... good luck
2007-05-13 15:17:02 · answer #8 · answered by bronzebabekentucky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can go to the hospital they will tell you to go to the surgeon group they thell get some blood
2007-05-13 15:15:04 · answer #9 · answered by Kaycee 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no you have no rights unless she says its urs
2007-05-13 15:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋