Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

I have been married to a lovely man for only a year. We have been together 4 years, living together over 2 years. I cant say that weve always had a fantastic relationship but he is very kind, caring, generous, he would never betray me or cheat on me. We both work long hours in stressful jobs. We got married & I came off the pill just b4 we wed so that we could try for a baby straightaway. We had a fabulous honeymoon & we were very happy. But when we came back from honeymoon, we didnt make love for 2 months! He wanted a baby just as much as me. He has 2 sons from his previous marriage, who we have 3 days a week, every week. My self esteem dropped to nothing. I tried talking to him, screaming at him, writing him letters but he always just said he was tired. I met a man just as a friend & confident, however, that has led to an affair. My husband did start paying me more attention around Christmas time but by then, I had fallen for this other man. I havent slept with this other man as I...

2007-05-10 23:55:45 · 41 answers · asked by Confused G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My daughter and future son-in-law both live in different states and will be getting married in yet another state. They both have homes and furnishings. They would prefer money to help with the moving etc. for wedding gifts.

2007-05-10 23:42:41 · 19 answers · asked by MuseumGirl48 3 in Weddings

ty all for your answers the reason she dont want in a relationship is she affaid of hurting me she dont think she is good enough for a relationship. she said she wants on with me but she just dont want to hurt me if things dont work out. we hang out all the time and we have fun together and she also thinks i might hurt her down the road. i do respect her wishs and she knows how i feel. thats the reason im confused she wants to but dont want hurt. but ty all for your help

2007-05-10 23:41:51 · 3 answers · asked by aaron b 1 in Singles & Dating

what to do then?

2007-05-10 23:41:20 · 4 answers · asked by luvuyo s 2 in Family

where would you go?

2007-05-10 23:35:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she lives near me she is in 12 she got 84 in his 10 standard I talked with her 3 times I am in 13 what should i do to impress her Please give me some suggestion girls or those who are expert in this cases now a days i always think about her she would think about me yes or no

I knew her timing when she goes and when she comes should I stand for her

2007-05-10 23:24:17 · 14 answers · asked by Harshal P 1 in Singles & Dating

What are some good things 2 do with your guy that they are sure 2 love??? I want 2 surprise him and do sumthin fun!!! It would be nice if yall could give me a couple of ideas....

2007-05-10 23:21:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

*******I want it to turn him on big time******* Thanks x

2007-05-10 23:20:48 · 11 answers · asked by Rachel 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm a bit down and fed up today. I feel i can't be with my boyfriends of almost 3years anymore as he has taken all the energy out of me with all the arguing. But i don't have the strength to leave him as i'm scared of being on my own :0(

2007-05-10 23:19:03 · 30 answers · asked by x Jay Jay x 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend is totally perfect for me. We have been going out for 7 months(as of today)and hes sweet,he can make me laugh,hes cute, and he has a nice body. Hes everything I want in a guy. I love him so much and I don't want to lose him.

2007-05-10 23:18:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not seen my ex in 6 months......it's complicated...but i really want to talk to him to see how he is now feeling. anyone got an excuse i could use. we don't have kids and never lived together.

2007-05-10 23:17:35 · 10 answers · asked by smileyouroncctv 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 23:15:33 · 47 answers · asked by rahul 1 in Singles & Dating

geez this one guy flirted a lot with me and made me fall for him... i just told him forthright ..and he said that he doesnt really like me ...so i'm feeling sooo embarassed now i dont know how to act around him..can anyone help me

2007-05-10 23:11:27 · 7 answers · asked by bronz 1 in Singles & Dating

I think about him all the time. I have dreams about him. When he catches me looking at him my stomach jumps and my heart skips a beat. I love the way his big brown eyes shine when the sun hits them. His smile when he gets embarresed and his black hair with blonde tips. It feels great when i catch him staring and smiling or when he tries everything to get my attention. I go to school just to see him when im not feeling well just so i can talk to him for 1 period. He found out i liked him and i couldnt speak to him so i ignored him. (bad idea i know) Now he starts conversations and i just love listening to him talk the way his lips move. His big dimple drives me crazy. I want him so bad but we are both to shy to get together. My question is could this be love??

2007-05-10 23:08:26 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My younger sister is quite lazy and extremely messy - I mean, I am not terribly neat myself, but I am worried about her - she leaves dishes in the sink for days on end, garbage (smelly!) overflowing in the house, clothes laying around on the floor. When we go to her house, we have to negotiate our way around the floor to prevent us falling over. She has asked me to help her, but I don't really know what to say besides clean up after yourself! I think she is suffering from depression also. Have you ever been this messy and disorganised, and been able to "correct" your ways so that you are not so bad. My young nephew lives with her and I worry about him being brought up in this environment as well. My sis knows she has trouble, but I don't know what to do to help her.

2007-05-10 22:57:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would you take me away?

or

Do something?

Please reply with your answer........................................................
I hope you understand what i mean................................................

2007-05-10 22:52:43 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if somethin was to happen to the parent so i would get the child and nobody else.

2007-05-10 22:51:45 · 8 answers · asked by shelly s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 22:51:21 · 21 answers · asked by Captain 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 22:43:15 · 23 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5 in Singles & Dating

how do you deal with a mother in law who absolutely does not like you for no reason at all? even worse she influences her daughter to believe a whole bunch of crap that is not true. and she lives with me and hubby!!!! and so does his cousin. all they do is mooch of my hubby and they don't make enough money to afford to move but i don't like them trying to take over my household. please help!!!!!

2007-05-10 22:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by ? 2 in Family

2007-05-10 22:35:53 · 20 answers · asked by Fashionista22 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I no longer love my wife and the only reason I'm with her is because of my 19 month old daughter whom I love so much.

I'm very civil and polite to her, I don't think she really believes that I no longer love her which makes it even harder because I feel sorry for her and am not too keen on breaking her heart.

On the other hand I'm now very depressed and can't even show it at home so I have to keep up a smile and ahappy face....but surely there's a point when I have to stop and say enough of this? can anyone help me here? on one hand I don't want to lose my kid ( which I surely will ) and on the other hand I'm just getting more and more derpressed ... please only answer if you're going to reply decently. Thanks

2007-05-10 22:33:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This married guy lives as a paying guest at my friend's house.In the absence of his wife(gone to live with her in-laws as she was pregant) he somehow manage to maintain very good n sexual relationship with my friend n promised to give divorce to her wife and marry her.But after his wife's arrival wid a baby he totally changed and now hez not entertaining my friend at all.She can't tell her parents too about all this bcoz he have very good impression in their eyes n really want to throw that guy out of her home.His wife knows about all this but don't want to accept the fact n believes that her husband is right.What should my friend do??She can't take a bold step........

2007-05-10 22:32:04 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been dating 1 year and 7 months, and i checked his voicemail (he gave me the password a long time ago) and there was a female who had called his phone saying she was in the area and needed directions. He went through the trouble of erasing her number (while he was working today)off of his phone i'm guessing so i wouldn't see it, and the whole time we have been dating i haven't heard of this girl at all! Got off the phone with me to talk to her (which he also failed to mention) bc we split the phone bill, and i happened to see she called him about 6 times throughout the day. And Let me add he talked with her on his breaks from work and when i called he had to let me go, later to find out she was on the phone with him!!! I called the number back and said someone called from this number earlier and she responded i must have had the wrong number. YEAH...Right...ANYONE help! I need some opinions PLEASE!!!!!

2007-05-10 22:26:16 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and this guy that i really like have been txting 4 a while but 3 days ago he told me he really liked me. i told him not 2 say things he doesnt mean and not 2say things just 4 the sake of it. he said that he did mean it . Then i told him that i was sorry for bein mean about it and i explained 2 him that its my way of protectin myself from guys coz sometimes I duno wat 2 believe and thats just the way that I am. He didnt reply. THen the nite after I apolagised again and said that I was only trying 2 explain and it was stupid and I had no idea what hes thinking and that I thought about him all day, which was true. He still didnt reply.

Now i dunno whether 2 just leave him, coz Ive already tried 2 sort it out and apolagise and he should star the convo now, or whether I just start a normal convo and not bring it up.

But I'm worried that if I do start a normal convo he wont reply. Wat do u think hes thinking and wat is ur honest opinion about it all? What should I do?

2007-05-10 22:22:31 · 7 answers · asked by bubble wrapping 5 in Singles & Dating

Has anyone had any difficulty having sex when your children stay up at all hours at night and by the time you want to have sex your so damn tired, and you keep putting it offf until you can't remember the last time you had it. I have five children and I am constantly busy but no time for myself or my boyfriend don't have anytime to spend together. Got any suggestions or comments?

2007-05-10 22:21:45 · 9 answers · asked by Lisa D 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

i went for a drink with someone i used to go to school with last night. it was just a catch up with a friend really but i like this girl and i cant remember if i tried it on at the end of the night and i am worried i did!! we were both drunk but are just mates. we had such fun tho so i dont know what to think simply cos i was so drunk! she was too tho!!

2007-05-10 22:19:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 22:17:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

to get a reaction from anyone they can by lying?

2007-05-10 22:15:23 · 2 answers · asked by GoodQuestion 6 in Family

My husband used to subcribe to a porno website and he received the daily emails of naked women in his inbox. Occasionally, when he's free, he'll download and save it in a disc, but, he's very open and let me see the pics and tell me I can view them if I like. He just save it for a collection purpose. Is this normal or has he become a sex weirdo? Or whether, what he said is true, just for collection purposes? The only thing that I felt uneasy about this is because I'm currently pregnant and am not sure when my husband viewed those photos, is there any meaning behind it? Any advise or that's normal for every man to view naked pics sometimes?

2007-05-10 22:13:50 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce