Family & Relationships - 10 May 2007

do i still love him? i have been with my hubby for 10yrs and we dont have sex as often as we use to. Its not just him, its me too. He is 31 and I am 33 yrs old . Any Ideas. Im not attracted to nobody else and im not having sex with nobody else. And I hope he is not. but I feel secure when he is around

2007-05-10 11:55:27 · 3 answers · asked by amot430 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you prefer a woman that is very open and outgoing (even when first meeting her) or the more shy type. The shy woman will eventually open up, but she is just more reserved at first...The outgoing woman usually always speaks her mind....So which woman are you usually attracted to ?

2007-05-10 11:54:27 · 12 answers · asked by sorry richard! ps :amanda 5 in Singles & Dating

It's been 4 months since by ex took a break from the relationship to work on personal problems of his own (see my previous questions for full details). I let him know repeatedly that I am here for him if he needs anything. Well it's been about a month now since I've had any contact with him at all because I am trying to give him his space. He recently posted a blog stating (cryptically) that he has been thinking about me a lot lately, and that I have been the inspiration for a lot of songs that hes been writing for his band. If he is thinking about me that much, I figure there has got to be something there. He was burned VERY badly by his ex, I don't know if he just got a little freaked out because he started developing feelings for me and it started getting serious? But I just don't know if I should try to contact him, or continue to wait for him to come back to me? I know I should probably wait until he's ready to come back to me, but I don't want him to think that I dont care...

2007-05-10 11:46:08 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In our divorce settlement, he got the business and I got the house. It has been 7 months now, and I just sold it. Does he own anything in the house? He says he owns half. But it doesn't apply with the business. Who is right?

2007-05-10 11:45:29 · 9 answers · asked by bliss 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm tall, blonde, and athletic. i get glances from lots of guys around, but there is this one guy in particular that's hot, and he just so happens to glance my way ALOT. but thats in general as far as it goes, multiple glances/stares. and then he goes and flirts with about every other chick in the room.

why. i don't really understand, so a little help would be greatly appreciated <3 :)

2007-05-10 11:42:53 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have six children and four are over 18, one is 17 and the last one 15. They all seem to think their dad is a better parent because he hit them, grounded them and even ran them out of the house. He called them names and made them feel small. I on the other hand, never hit my children and talked with them about things and tried to guide them in the right direction and have always been there for them. If they really need money or clothes or help with a bill, I try to do that too within reason. My ex does none of this. When I ask my children if I was a good parent, they say that even though their dad did do mean things to them, he made them better people. I don't understand, I took them to church, to school, let their friends come over and was always trying to keep peace in the family. My husband and I divorced early in their lives and he never paid child support. Can you give me some insight? I guess I can't do it over but I certainly have sacrficed for them and never had anything for m

2007-05-10 11:39:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for a short time, probably around 2 or 3 weeks now. I went into the relationship knowing that he has been known to "hit it and quit it" with other girls. I was sure to let him know that im not that kind of person, and that I wanted to take things slowly.
However, when we are alone, like in his room or just in his house, he automatically starts kissing me and asking me if he can finger me. I keep telling him no, but he keeps asking me. He has never forced me to actually do anything, but it still worries me. Also he told me the other day that he thinkgs he is falling for me. I personally think it is way too soon to be falling in love, but thats just me. He also asked me if I wanted him to buy any toys and asked if i would use some. What I want to know is if he is just using me.

2007-05-10 11:38:37 · 24 answers · asked by big red 5 in Singles & Dating

To cut a long story short, the love of my life has recently walked back in after 15years apart. In this time we have both moved on and created seperate families. We initially parted due to him being bisexual curious, 2 years later i did find out he had seen this through and carried on with this man for many years. He now claims he made a mistake about his sexuality and to give him his dues he has a legitamate family to prove this. We bumped into each other a few months ago by sheer coincidence, and for both, our feelings have rekindled. We are both still in our previous relationships and have no feelings for our partners whatsoever. I cannot leave as my husband is rich and i am very materialistic. What can i do????

2007-05-10 11:38:11 · 28 answers · asked by claire d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i can remember when i used to play with my old friend she has other friends now thats why we dont play together any more. i wish we still did.

2007-05-10 11:36:15 · 6 answers · asked by kellybelly 2 in Friends

I'm currently using matchmakers and I was wondering if anyone has had any success doing this. or not. tell me your stories!!!!

2007-05-10 11:31:02 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What about some flowers or candy? What bribe would work best?

2007-05-10 11:29:13 · 20 answers · asked by ? 4 in Singles & Dating

I believe in love and that nothing can take it from you, not even death. If challenged to, would you die for your belief? I'm not talking about hurting others in the process, no suicide bombing ideas please! If your death hurt no other living creature. And you believed that any price is worth this belief, could you die for love?

2007-05-10 11:27:48 · 13 answers · asked by Monkey Dancer 2 in Marriage & Divorce

most special thing she ever did? something besides cleaning bla bla bla thanks :)

2007-05-10 11:26:12 · 5 answers · asked by la la la 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i work with this girl and i think she likes me. but again i am not 100% sure. and i need your help.
when ever i see her she is telling me that she likes my eyes and she wants me to hangout with her.
and she is telling me this stuff when no one is around so what do u think?

2007-05-10 11:25:57 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright there's this girl that I like and am wondering just maybe, by a slight chance she may like me too. I've had previous encounters with her that she's caused (such as starting the conversation first), and from this I can tell she's easy to make friends with. So, in school she invited me to join her group for a powerpoint presentation on South America. Then another group of gals tried to persuade me to join their group, but the girl I like gingerly grabbed my hand keeping me in place, which is exactly what I wanted. I went on to make her laugh a few times and then the period ended. So, what do her actions mean? Clearly, she cared if I left her or not. Is there a hint that she may actually like me? P.S.-Please don't crush my dreams. If you say she doesn't like me I'll work on her to get her to.

2007-05-10 11:24:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im still married to her and want to stay married to her so does that make me responsible?

2007-05-10 11:24:07 · 20 answers · asked by hosscarr 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay...everyone in my family tells me that I'm such a beautiful girl and that my parents need to lock me up cause the guys will be all over me. The thing is...their not. Actually, most ignore me and treat me like crap. Do you think my family is lying just to make me feel better? I was so excited when I became 16 and was able to date, but...there's no one to date. I'll admit I'm not the most popular girl at school, but I'm not ugly. What do you think?

2007-05-10 11:21:28 · 9 answers · asked by rkuhl24 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband may be getting a new job in Illinois. We currently live in Jersey near family and of course friends. I really don't want to go but my husband will be getting a substantial raise if he takes the job. My question is, if anyone has ever moved far from family because of a spouses job has it had ill effects on the relationship or did it all work out for you in the end?

2007-05-10 11:19:33 · 16 answers · asked by Allison L 2 in Family

I would talk to her but she just talks to me, she doesnt smile a little or seem to "lighten up" as usual. Was she just having a bad day? I did notice that she looks toward my direction when Im not looking so why is she giving mixed messages?

2007-05-10 11:17:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-10 11:15:24 · 8 answers · asked by vanshreeg 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm not talking about sex....that's a given!

2007-05-10 11:13:27 · 9 answers · asked by Lotus 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 11:01:57 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Was it embarassing humiliating or just plain horrible!

2007-05-10 11:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well before I start I have to explain this...me and this kid John got accepted to be Ambassadors for our school and 18 people got accepted in all....3 of which are guys....anyways today in math we were using dry-erase boards and I was sitting by John and so we started writing stuff on our dry-erase boards...and this is what we wrote....(M=me J=John) J: There are only 3 guy ambassadors M=There are only 15 girl ambassadors J=Not enough??? M=Never enough J=Ha Ha Ha...then later...J=more chances for the guys eh...M=?...after that he said "you won't get it...it's a guy thing"...what did he mean when he said "more chances for the guys"??? and is it possible that he was flirting with me???

2007-05-10 10:56:30 · 10 answers · asked by problem_girl 3 in Singles & Dating

My fiancé and me have been together for about a year and a half. About a three month ago he started playing this game call RuneScape. He’s always playing this game and whenever I ask for us time he says “In a minute, in a minute” but in a minute never comes. He is so focus on this game that I have to yell at the top of my lungs to get his attention and then he tell me I’m bugging him. I’ve even tried sex to focus his attention to me but all he seems to care about is the game. Do I have the right to get upset or am I just over reacting?

2007-05-10 10:53:20 · 30 answers · asked by Telly-Of-War 3 in Marriage & Divorce

we like the feeling of otther people looking at us be we dont know where to go no the web.

2007-05-10 10:49:40 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Going on 8 years.

2007-05-10 10:48:57 · 7 answers · asked by fab1 2 in Marriage & Divorce

like in general?

2007-05-10 10:46:05 · 4 answers · asked by sparklyshoebox 1 in Friends

2007-05-10 10:32:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-10 10:27:52 · 34 answers · asked by Brian T 2 in Marriage & Divorce