How do you really please a man?

Question

I'm not talking about sex....that's a given!

Answer 1

Give him affection, admiration, respect.

Answer 2

Understand his basic instinct and follow it or match it or feed it with a sacred intention of pleasing him and nothing more.

If u wonder, what is basic instinct... then its something that he always keep logging for.(BUT BE SURE NOT TO BE UN-NATURAL. THATS WHERE THIS GETS TOUGH. U SHOULD MAKE THESE AS PART OF UR NATURE/HABIT AND SHOULD NOT IMITATE OR JUST USE TACT TO FOLLOW THESE)
May be :
affectionate touch (touch therapy)
affectionate talk
tasty food
hygeinic food and environment
good clothes and dresses
neat and spick and span home
honesty
truthfulness
good intentions (not the words/actions that matter. Intentions matter - for few people)
love and affectionate on him
chit chat with him
playing his interesting game
loving the people that he loves
giving him affection in times of irritation/frustration/anger
any many more.... just try finding his passion/want/weakness/nature/natural instinct which they cant live without or live for !! (i am sure there will be one...) best of luck. U r idea is very good. pls do it.

Answer 3

It is simple. A husband (I say husband, because a boyfriend doesn't matter in this equation) wants to be needed, but not nagged.
Simple way to do this...
Act like he is the most important person alive and not you. He will in turn act like you are the most important person in the world. A marriage is like a team.
Example...
Sink full of dishes, baby toys all over the place, floor needs to be mopped and vacuumed.
Your (and his) attitude must be "what can I do to make this situation easier on him,"
instead of
"I cleaned up this mess last time, it's your bleeping turn!"

If harmony is met on both sides in this equation, one starts on the dishes, the other sees the spouse doing that and should begin to pick up toys, vacuuming/sweeping the floor, and you meed half way with a smile/compliment. Doesn't matter how tired you are, doesn't matter who's day was simple and who's day was a nightmare. The only excuse is illness, and when there is harmony, the sick person will need to be told to go lay down.
This is what I have. My wife and I fight here and there because we have a ton of stress in our lives, but I assure you, I couldn't be happier.

Answer 4

Let them be little boys and have their toys.
Don't question them about anything.
Don't tell them you want to "talk"...they want to die if you want to have a serious conversation and it will take more than 20 minutes.
Don't tell them what sucks about them, or what you need either...that's considered nagging.
Don't try to change them...it makes them crazy..they are what they are.
Have dinner made, and the house cleaned, and don't expect much in return.
I think that almost covers it besides the sex thing. :)

Answer 5

As a man, what pleases me is knowing that my sweetie is behind me, cheering me on and not trying to sabatoge my efforts. Sex is important, but love, affection, caring, compassion, and kindness is too. Life's tough enough. It's tougher with no refuge.

Answer 6

Love and accept him for who he is, not who you want him to be. Tell him the things that you admire about him. Give him positive and specific feedback when you are happy with him. Never attack him personally, no matter how upset you are, and be sure to praise him in public and argue in private.

Answer 7

Everyone is different, but the main thing is to accept them for what and who they are, NEVER try to change him!

Answer 8

Men are simple creatures.
Sex, Food we're good.

Answer 9

8====D stroke it