Family & Relationships - 7 May 2007

Shes good looking loves men and will love and care for me just like i will love and care for her

2007-05-07 23:59:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she left to go to another state with her kids, and family came down later to stay with her, but they did finds jobs. she had to paid all the bills in the house and they decided to come back and left alone with bills. she did not have a job for awhile to paid the bills. about two weeks ago she and I didn't speak. now after two week she text me for money. and now she call me to see if I at home where I suppose to be, I call her asked why you dont't answer her phone, she said she sleep at 11pm, then i call at 8:30pm next night still no answer, but she call me at 8:30 am to tell she just got my message. i told her i call back later after church, i call no answer, then i refused to answer her call twice, she asked me why i did not answer her calls. i told her i fell asleep. and i have to go to work now, during the week she doesnt call me only on the weekend. what to do?

2007-05-07 23:56:40 · 3 answers · asked by blkngd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating this guy he is upfront with everything except when it comes to showing affection. The only time he would kiss me on his own is when he is leaving my house. Other than that he considers spanking me on my butt a sign of affection, but it is not to me. I have to be the aggresser when I want to kiss and cuddle. Then again he might be those guys that dont know how to show affection. I dont know. I do know that I am way more affectionate than he is. So, tell me have you ever went thru this in your relationship(s)?

2007-05-07 23:49:42 · 12 answers · asked by Amenity 3 in Singles & Dating

I fell in love with him, i did everything I could to make him happy, i let him do whatever he wanted and never stopped him in doing anything, satisfied him in every way. What more could guys want from a girlfriend? Then he dumps me out of the blue, saying that he was unhappy but doesn't know why. I was so heartbroken, but me loving him so much i let him go and gave him what he wanted. Now all of our friends are telling me that we as a couple didnt do anything and we were boring, and becoming single was a good idea, and are all looking at me like it was all my fault like I ruined his life, like he was the f*ing victim out of all of this. I feel like a total fool and a failure. He still hasn't told me an explanation as he "doesn't know", but it feels like he was influenced by his mates as they are all single.

2007-05-07 23:48:42 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I ended a relationship with a guy about a year ago for several reasons. Since then I've changed my number and I have not been in contact with him because I believe that when a relationship is over that should end as well. However, we still attend the same church and lately he's been approaching me after service and attempting to "get me back." I have remained cordial (saying hello only when spoken to-and moving on) and repeatedly told him that he is my past and we will never be together again. Yet, yesterday he began e-mailing my little sister on her myspace and asking her to ask me how he can get back into my life. I feel like I've been more than up front with him and he's just not getting it. I have purposely not told him that I'm involved with someone because I feel that it will further encourage him. What else should I do? I'm not sure why he isn't understanding me.

2007-05-07 23:44:11 · 11 answers · asked by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 23:40:26 · 16 answers · asked by stephen a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was running my own business, building our dream home and I gave her all the time she needed to start her own business even helped her with marketing, business planning, etc. Not only this, for the previous 3 years I was providing her a new car, phone, computer, paying all expenses (including 3 holidays) and giving her money to spend on clothes, jewellery every month. It seemed the more I gave the more she wanted. We serarated because I was sick of her promising she would change and then asking for more. Recently she seems to have realised how much I was doing for our family and has turned up at my new home a few times in tears, saying how sorry she was. I have the kids 3 days a week and pay maintenace on time every week and just want to get on with my life and help my boys grow into strong men. I want more kids and want to find someone else that does too but am worried that someone will take advantage again. Is this natural and what do I do to make sure it does not happen again?

2007-05-07 23:35:14 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was told it was for pure it. Most people live together before they get married these day.

2007-05-07 23:32:48 · 21 answers · asked by MJane21 5 in Weddings

i am very close to this male friend.


for about 3 months we have been calling each other everyday, chatting at least one hour to even 4 hours at a go.


we have feelings for each other.
but we always shun away from the topic of being together or admitting our feelings because we're shy.


we flirt a lot(: even to the extend of dirty talking and holding hands. we share alot of secrets. and i feel very comfortable with him.


yesterday he finally admitted his feelings for me and wants to be with me.


today, i agreed over the phone but everything was so awkward.. things just feel wierd. so he suggested we be friends for the time being and think over it again.


i really want to be with him. what should i do?


should i SMS him instead so it'll be less awkward for the both of us?


thanks and hope you'll answer my question(:

2007-05-07 23:31:49 · 7 answers · asked by apple-licious 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 23:29:40 · 32 answers · asked by spring 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am having some difficulties at home right now, and I am finding it extremely difficult not to get brought down by everyone else's problems.

My dad was involved in an accident a few months ago, and still won't be able to walk for another few months yet. He continually moans and feels sorry for himself, and also complains about the pain, but will not take his painkillers (for what reason? I don't know).

My brother is also very low at the moment. He has recently split with his gf and I hate seeing him upset.

My house is therefore not a very happy place to be, and although I do sympathise with both of them, I am finding it very hard to stay happy & upbeat. I try to keep myself occupied with other things, but can't help but think "what is the point?" How can I stop myself being dragged into unhapiness?

2007-05-07 23:18:53 · 24 answers · asked by ♥Miss Inquisitive♥ 5 in Family

1. What is your reaction when you find out that your best friend for years also love the same guy that you loved for years???

2. What is your reaction when she finally makes it with your crush?? Whether your friend already know that you're in love your crush??

2007-05-07 23:13:33 · 16 answers · asked by Nunchi_90 2 in Singles & Dating

About 6 months ago I became involved with a man who's intelligent, kind, understanding, and patient. However, since we've become involved its been one obstacle after another because of our differences. He's older than me, of another race, divorced, and a single father. While, I'm younger than him, in college, and don't have any children. My family has been against us being together for as long as I've known him. However, I can't help but notice that he's made me happier than I think I've ever been with anyone. I mean despite it all we manage to work thru things. Yet, I have pushed him away a million times and given him just as many reasons for why I would never want to be with him. I have always had an idea man and he doesn't fit the description-but he makes me happy and I care about him a lot. My biggest fear is that I will oneday regret being involved with a man who's lived so much when I have saved myself in the hopes of finding someone who'd done the same. What should I do?

2007-05-07 23:13:27 · 11 answers · asked by Mille_D-Gurl08 3 in Singles & Dating

this week at chruch there was a girl who always calls me cute and when i was siting near her she wisper to her hes cute and later she was looking at me i was looking at my pan and looking on the ground and after i look at her she copy me and i was looking at her firend and she was stareing at me but i did not look at her and she make a nosic in her mouth why?

2007-05-07 23:05:44 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ONE A PERSONAL LEVEL

Why do you think i became a RECEPTIONIST ?
Is it because you wanted and believed i am to be a receptionist?
Is it that reason that i am unhappy is because i don't get the support i need to go somewhere and be what makes me happy and why?
What do you think?
How would you help me?
Would you like my ideas or not? If not, why be cruel to me when helping me?
Please reply......................................................................................

2007-05-07 22:57:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this aquarius guy i know says he is going away for forever and then comes back. only met him on the net. he is forever changing his mind without any warning. seems to be drowning in some secret sorrow. how do i get him to be a little bit more consistent.and why is he acting like that?

2007-05-07 22:50:03 · 11 answers · asked by Sphinx 1 in Friends

What should I do to be able to ask her out?

2007-05-07 22:47:41 · 20 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Singles & Dating

What's a nice gift under fifty dollars to get a person that has been there for you when you have been upset?

2007-05-07 22:47:40 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we all ready share our false teeth

2007-05-07 22:46:45 · 9 answers · asked by capa-de-monty 6 in Family

i've been going out/dating with for about 3 months. i can kinda tell that he's into me. we have lots of fun going out together (we live not too close and it takes him 2 hours to come to my house to pick me up). the thing is the fisrt time i went out with him he tried to kiss me on the lips and hugged me but i got scarred. i tilted my head and ended up just hugged him instead. so till now he still hasn't kissed me yet. i thought he would be turned down by me from that but then he still keep asking me out. he even told his mom that he was going out with me. so here is my question. 1)is he really into me or i'm imagining things? 2)if he likes me why he doesn't get the strength to try to kiss me again? 3)if he tells his mom that he's going out with me/dating me does that mean he's serious about me and consider long term thing?

2007-05-07 22:42:08 · 11 answers · asked by My Dear 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi so i need some sex advice
Basicly i know that me and my girlfriend are becoming more and more sexual almost everytime i see her and i know it wont be to long befor we have sex i was just wondering what are some signs i should look for coming from her that she wants to have sex like maybe shell keep biting her lower lip or something just as a werid example anyways help if you can


Thanx,
Ben


Here is a picture of us ^^

http://img300.imageshack.us/img300/9936/...


See alot of people are like no wait your to young...but if you are turly in love why should you wait?

Friday i drove 14 hours to see her, she is in Everett Washington, and im in San Fransisco Cali.

I drive up to see her twice a month

Im pretty sure im going to be spending the rest of my life with her, 2 days ago i gave her a promise ring ^^

Anyways i just want advice on body language

I DONT WANT ANYBODY TELLING ME IM TO YOUNG!!!

i had to make a new post cause the last one was filled with ppl saying i was to young..

2007-05-07 22:42:06 · 13 answers · asked by Agent 10017 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I stay away from the guy I like, i know he likes me, but we never had a conversation, ever! When we are at a practice, the teacher made us partners, and I don't know, he's conscious when I'm near but i know that he likes me because he became my suitor, but, he didn't talk to me personally, he's writing me on a paper, he's shy to talk to me personally, and now, school's over, there are to sections, A.M. section and P.M., he is always P.M. but I already enroll in the A.M section, I want him to talk to me about the "suitor" thing, but I think I am just waiting for a rain to come in a drought!

2007-05-07 22:39:12 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It alsways seemed that she liked him and i know that my dad doesnt like him either
I love him i know that he is a difficult one to understand but i know how he is towards me and he loving and caring
And believe me i know love is blind but i can see
How do i deal with this?

2007-05-07 22:38:59 · 12 answers · asked by SAgirl 5 in Family

SO I had a baby before my 18th birthday, why does that make me so bad. Why am I constantly looked down upon by people who don't even know me. I am so sick of this stereotype. Of all steroetypes. Why do people think they can judge me without knowing my situation. You people want to be so nosey then here you go this is my story, Judge me know : I grew up in a loving family, mom and step dad, silver spoon in my mouth. Dad on the weekends. My step-dad was the best parent I had. He died the day after his and my moms divorce was final of a drug enduced heart attack. Everything we had went up my moms nose. I went to live with my dad. My recovering alchohlic dad, who was very emotionally abussive. My mom recovered and came back in my life. I moved back and forth between them in high school, untill the point where I didnt care about anything, was failing school. Met a great guy and started staying with him. Mom relapsed, dad got worse. Moved in with my boyfriend. Now let me tell you I had been

2007-05-07 22:37:19 · 12 answers · asked by cait5156 3 in Family

im nearly 25yrs of age. ive been told that i dont look my age and that i look 19yrs of age.

ive met this guy who is 20yrs old. we get on really well. hes knows my age and is fine with it.

would it be "wrong" for me to date a 20 year old???

2007-05-07 22:36:24 · 59 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been with my boyriend nearly 3 years. Last night I saw a bloke that I went to school with years ago. There had always been chemistry between us for years while we went to college together. I later texted him to tell him i had always liked him. What do I do, I feel like I have betrayed my boyfriend or is it perfectly innocent texting this bloke?

2007-05-07 22:35:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

See told me she just needs time to choose between us. How long should I wait in this relationship.

2007-05-07 22:32:47 · 6 answers · asked by Mat 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 22:29:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is wrong if a woman has lost her chastity before he marriage to somebody before marriage and she wants to have relationship some other guy since she is not all satisfied with her marriage as her husband is not upto her satisfaction

2007-05-07 22:21:17 · 15 answers · asked by janu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-07 22:20:02 · 14 answers · asked by Blondie Bear 3 in Friends