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What should I do to be able to ask her out?

2007-05-07 22:47:41 · 20 answers · asked by 21questions 4 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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If she's hot and approached by many guys, she's used to have the power on them, she's used to be complimented, she's used to get gifts and offers, etc...
Act differently. Don't try hard to get her attention. Act INDIFFERENT. Have fun. Act like someone who doesn't need anything. She will wonder why you don't give her what all the others give her... And never stop acting like this untill you get her for real. Never be weak, always be confident. And never rush into things. Be patient. Let her come to you. YES. It's this way it works. Especially with hot babes.

2007-05-07 22:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

Whatever you do, don't outright hit on her! It gets really annoying knowing guys are only hitting on you because they want something from you.

Go for her MIND. Let her know you care more about her than just what she looks like. Act like a friend first!

Ever wonder why gorgeous girls end up with ugly guys? It's because they paid more attention to them just what was on the outside. It was how the guys made them FEEL.

2007-05-07 23:11:53 · answer #2 · answered by sublime 5 · 0 0

Tell her that you think that she is a special woman, and that she should be treated to a special night. Ask her out. Plan a unique date. Something that will knock her socks off!!

Be a gentleman. She is used to all of those guys trying to get her into bed. What she is probably looking for is the one that won't push her. That very unique man!!

2007-05-07 22:53:15 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 2 0

normally, i'd just say, if you have to ask, you cant make it. but i am feeling train mannish today.

so do go check out the latest men fashion mags. and get a look that is contemporary (hair, clothes, shoes, even scent - yeah. cos if the woman likes your scent you got it made)

dont try to make yourself a prince if you aint got the paycheck that goes with it. just dont be a average joe.

work out. wimps arent going to impress nobody. if she's hot, she takes care of her body so you should do likewise, but dont preen more than her!

dont hit on her. find out what her interests are from her friends. get involved in an interest that you share with her. then when you are together, can just say hi and go on from there.

2007-05-07 22:55:41 · answer #4 · answered by lsl4x 4 · 0 1

Hi there.

I think she needs someone to seduce her mind and be challenging. I bet she is used to having guys only interested in her appearance and from her point of view, that isn't flattering.

You should compliment what you find attractive about her personality. Talk to her like you would a friend or sister. I know that sounds strange but girls like when guys can relax like that and talk about 'serious' topics rather than flirty ones all the time.

You just need to look at what she is used to...what she expects from guys......and do the opposite. To stand out.

The key is to get into her psyche ;-)

Good luck!

Daydream Believer

2007-05-07 22:59:14 · answer #5 · answered by Synergy 1 · 0 1

Just be yourself.

Personally as a women the things I like most in a man or woman, whether friend or lover are as follows....
Personality............Be true to your nature!
Consideration.......Treat those around you how you want to be treated yourself!
Honesty.................This is a vital factor of every relationship, lies equal distrust, distrust equals.....no relationship!
Humor....................We all need to laugh, the ability to laugh and make others laugh with you, is like giving out a pill for the soul!!
Generosity.............This includes giving your all in every sense!!
Passion..................Be passionate about life, love and people and your soul is inspired to inspire others!!
Thoughtfulness.......You are not alone in this world, others matter!
Loving......................Be loving towards others and you will find it flows back to you naturally.
Understanding.........Is the key to all human relationships!
Know yourself.........Confusion arises from insecurities and being unsure!
Be true to yourself.....Living beyond your abilities evokes lies!
But most of all.....................just be yourself!. If this woman likes what you are about, then friendships etc will occur naturally.
If this woman has the opportunity to see you for who you are, then when you ask her out she will either say yes or no, but at least she has a really informed choice!.....and there are indeed, plenty of fish in the sea!!!!!
Good luck, Take care x

2007-05-07 23:13:26 · answer #6 · answered by littlebee 3 · 0 0

Just be yourself, that is the best advice I can give you, do not try to be fake, everyone can see that and that is a big turn off.

By being yourself, and saying "hi", you will be amazed at how far that will get you in any chance of a realtionship with her!

2007-05-07 23:06:51 · answer #7 · answered by carriegreen13 6 · 1 0

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2007-05-08 00:00:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Never try to Impress.. be the gentleman.. she see's you trying to impress her from other guys she will use you as a mark. Play your cards right.. be smart

2007-05-07 22:55:03 · answer #9 · answered by K_LOVE 3 · 0 1

hmm...post a photo of yourself. at least well know whether to bother replying. ps Really hot woman are impossible to keep happy. Find a pretty one instead.

2007-05-07 22:56:30 · answer #10 · answered by blerchus4incapet 4 · 1 1

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