Family & Relationships - 7 May 2007

2007-05-07 14:46:50 · 5 answers · asked by jokland2004 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I don't know if you, dear reader, have watched Cesar Millan the "Dog Whisperer" easily straightened wayward dogs, misbehaving dogs, aggressive dogs. I am sure that the same principles could be used to straighten relationships. All this talk of equality really brings on lots of uncertainty and unhappiness. Women don't understand that their elusive quest for "equality" means constant stress guarding its unavoidably blurred lines in domestic life. Measuring each and every activity and hoping not to be taken advantage of in the efforts to run a house it's not a happy way to live.
I think women need to accept leadership. Most women don't elect women to political life why would they want to elect themselves as de facto leaders and judges of what equality means in a relationship?

2007-05-07 14:43:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Instead they lust over what they could have and torment themselves. Then later go out with losers who treat them badly. If you don't speak up, how will GOOD men ever know you exist? Are they that intimidating to you?

2007-05-07 14:42:47 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

19 yo Sexually active Italian male, out of relationship, and nervous about American women.

2007-05-07 14:42:07 · 20 answers · asked by BandAid 1 in Singles & Dating

Married in Jesup, GA on 8-11-90, but the license was not filed. We separated on 3-22-02 w/o having any children together (Each of us had three by previous marriages). During the time we were together, we migrated between the Jesup area and Clark County, IN area. There were no pre-nuptual agreements. It's my understanding that neither GA nor IN recognize "common-law" marriages. So, under these circumstances, do I need to get divorced before I get remarried?

2007-05-07 14:41:21 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Because me and my boyfriend have been together for almost two years, and he is really starting to bother me about having sex with him. He says he NEEDS it badly, which I don't understand because I am a virgin. We are totally in love with each other and he is NOT trying to pressure me, but I do feel kinda bad, I mean its been almost two years. He said if I gave him a bl*wjob I would still be a virgin. I am not really sure about that, I don't know what to do, I am afraid he will break up with me :(


Other Info:
*I'm 21, he is 22
*I was planning on saving myself until marriage
*He also said its not fair because I dress to sexy and I act sexual ?? (He's just being weird)
*He said its getting boring, just making out all the time :( He also keeps trying to get into my pant, literally.


Thanks for your help :)

2007-05-07 14:36:44 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 14:35:38 · 36 answers · asked by thesunshineking 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-07 14:35:13 · 3 answers · asked by Em 1 in Singles & Dating

and you tooted (cuz you couldnt hold it in any longer) and it blows right in the guy's face and messes his hair like if he was drivin in the wind or sumthin?????

2007-05-07 14:33:46 · 2 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

I only just noticed it, but it seems that (well at least the singles and dating part) is mainly occupupied by teenage girls having troubles with their first love etc.

Does that mean that guys just dont have troubles, or dont ask strangers on the internet about it :)

2007-05-07 14:31:50 · 2 answers · asked by ChAtMaN 4 in Singles & Dating

ok so my dad had his b-day a week ago, but he wasnt here to celibrate it with me and my sister, so he gets back and i made him a cake and everything. but then today he decides to treat himself to a happy b-day dinner without even consolting with the rest of the family. so as he's getting ready to leave i decide not to go cause its stupid. then he calls me and says "im selfish and i dont deserve him..my mom says i should not let him treat me like that, but i love him and he always stands up for me..what should i do?

2007-05-07 14:31:04 · 5 answers · asked by Blondey 1 in Family

Is it ok for girls, if your guy is like this:
1. Not good at any sport, except swimming
2. Have a voice like Bruce Lee
3. Can't speak clearly
4. Has a really soft voice
5. Has some pimples
6. An above-average student
7. Listens to some weird music, like the Beatles, Sister Hazel, Counting Crows and some other not-so-famous singers and bands.
8. Knows how to play a piano, but ain't really that good.
9. Maybe a little bit of a computer geek.
10. The quiet-type

2007-05-07 14:30:18 · 28 answers · asked by cool&laid-back 2 in Singles & Dating

i have this best friend who i tell everything to and i think she tells me only some stuff. then today she was crying, and i asked her what was wrong and she didnt even respond. then she goes off to this other person who is like only a normal friend and tells her. IM SO FRUSTRATED what should i do

2007-05-07 14:30:15 · 4 answers · asked by cheyenne b 1 in Friends

well we both work together in a restaurant. He is always staring at me and following me with his eyes. and he gives alot of eye contact when he is talking to me. I just got off work and he was going outside for a break and asked me to come along and talk to him. He stayed with me and walked me to my car.
Today i worked with him again. He was being kind of quiet and shy then out of nowhere he said that a fellow coworker asked him if i was his girlfriend. (she saw us outside together) then he said it was funny. then when i left he said hope you have a nice day etc. As i was walking to my car i saw him watching me. What does this all mean.

2007-05-07 14:30:00 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ive been with my girlfriend for almost three years now, and our sex life has been fine. My parents went away this weekend, and my girl wanted to try new things, and built up this weekend like it was the superbowl. I got too nervous, and couldn't stay hard Saturday night. I think this is where thing started getting in my head. She got very pissed at me, then last night, we tried it again, and I couldn't stay hard, and she broke down into tears. My heart ripped into pieces, and I feel like like Im losing my manhood, and my girlfriend. Everything was fine Thursday, now I have no confidence, and Ive resorted to trying horney goat weed. Im really scared Im going to lose the girl I love so much, and im all alone this week, and have nobody to talk to. Please help me.

2007-05-07 14:28:30 · 1 answers · asked by Brian S 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-07 14:27:52 · 4 answers · asked by kristajade 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my dad is a real gerk

2007-05-07 14:27:37 · 7 answers · asked by meow 1 in Family

2007-05-07 14:27:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My sister is getting married in August 2007 and I am supposed to be the matron of honor. She is 40 and lives across the country from me. I have a family (5 of us) and I am the only one attending because money is tight now. She has not offered to pay for anything. Now, she has chosen a dress for the bridesmaids and me and it is so ugly. I hate it. I told her so also. She is very upset with me. I am not doing anything at all for her for the wedding except for showing up the day before and standing up for her. I will be leaving the day after the wedding. We have always been very close, but this is tearing us apart. I think I am wrong to be upset, but I can't help it. It is like I am expected to drop everything and pay for everything. I don't know what to do. She has her 2 sisters-in-law (well almost) in the same town and they are doing all the usual wedding stuff together. Should I just bow out? Help.

2007-05-07 14:24:52 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have been married for about a year, just recently I took a job and have become very fond of my boss. He is single, and we flirt constantly. He is very generous and treats me very nice unilke my husband who seems like I don't exist. Help....what do I do?

2007-05-07 14:24:50 · 25 answers · asked by JR 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I've been nagging my parents about getting me a cell phone. They both said "No!". I even gave them reasons. Like for emergencies, when I go out with friends, after school even when walking home from school. I've heard all about those child predetors and kidnappers. I mean I usally go to the mall with my friends almost every weekend and the mall doesn't have payphones. Heres also a little story the one time we went there. Me and 2 other girls were at the food court and there was some guy walking around with a video camera at first we thought he was doing something for like a school project because he looked about high school age. Well both my friends had to go to the bathroom. So I was standing out there waiting for them when the guy sits down and points his camera at me the whole time I was standing there. I was freaked out!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm 12 and I do volleyball and cheerleading after school too. So like can people give me answer's PLEASE! Thanks.

2007-05-07 14:23:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm sort of like that sometimes. Like for example, I'll get really happy over something, kind of like a childs happiness. Or if I see something, I'll just stand with my mouth wide open. Also especially if I'm sick, I'll be just like a little kid almost. I don't think it's that bad, and it's not like I usually act childish, just sometimes, especially when I'm happy. Would that be annoying to a boyfriend, or not really.
*Relationship between two people in their twenties

2007-05-07 14:21:05 · 38 answers · asked by Brooke 2 in Singles & Dating

He and I never broke up.He went to the army,I moved away,we've losted touch,both got kids and are with someone else.After years of seperation,we've find each other and realized that we can't get enough of each other.I'm trying to do the right thing by staying away,but my heart is pain.Soldier boy is the only guy my heart and body desire.

2007-05-07 14:17:30 · 4 answers · asked by G.I jane 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think oral sex on men is really nasty. My boyfriend, doesn't care much for recieving it, but he loves to give it! :-) I've spoke with several women, most of whom are married, who agree that they really think its gross. Society has made it seem like this is a great and enjoyable thing to do.....but its really not for me. The taste of it and the taste of the "come" is really not "tasty" in any way. I'm amazed at how many women said they found to be really unenjoyable, but did it for their husbands anyway to make them happy. Its too much torture for me. Eww.

2007-05-07 14:17:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Her and my dad have gone through some tough times lately. My dad had a stroke and heart surgery and he wasn't able to work causing them to be evicted from their home. My dad is in a rehab center after the heart surgery and my mom was supposed to go to a shelter.

My mom has history of emotional problems, depression, breakdowns, manic behavior. So much was dealt with by my sister and myself growing up (abuse from both parents). My mom was recently put into a psych ward for her depression and this makes me happy to know that she hopefully will get the care and rehabilation that she has needed for so long. Is this a normal feeling?

And even though I haven't spoken to her in so long, for good cause, I was thinking about sending her fowers anonymously for mothers day. Do you think this would be a good idea or push her over the edge? I really only want her to get better, even if I never speak to her again.

2007-05-07 14:16:03 · 7 answers · asked by FaerieWhings 7 in Family

my gf sometimes just has these moods where she ignores me and seems like she doesnt want me with her. I love her so much and she doesnt know how this makes me feel? is this normal... keep in mind this only happens sometimes the rest of the time we share together is great!!!

2007-05-07 14:15:35 · 1 answers · asked by basketball 1 in Singles & Dating

Do you believe in MOST relationships, there is one person who loves the other more? Or do you believe your feelings are evenly divided?

2007-05-07 14:14:46 · 12 answers · asked by Miranda M. 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

If a guy teases you does that mean he like you?

2007-05-07 14:12:46 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My haircut is really cute and I just got it cut this sunday.Its short (down to my chin) with bangs .My haircut is a little longer in the front and a little shorter in the back, im a brunett I have brown eyes,im mixed (black and white).Today I walked into the classroom and he stopped what he was doing and stared at me and started to blush(hes white so you can tell very easily).And he kept turning around to stare at me.Occasionally I would just glance to notice hes staring at me.He knows I like him.I think he started to get jealouse when I didnt notice him staring at me,because I was being busy trying not to get tickled by my friend Cedric.

2007-05-07 14:12:44 · 8 answers · asked by Choxie Toxie 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a 2 yr old daughter with my ex boyfriend. We never got married but we lived together for most of her life. He was in and out and has had trouble with finances and drugs. I wound up staying in the same house that we were renting together while I figured out what to do next. I've since married a long time friend who happens to be in the military. I know that there will be alot of moving involved in his career. I have moved out of state with my daughter with the father's permission, but he now is threatening to take me to court for custody of her. There has been no legal arrangement. Will the moving with my husband make me look like an unstable mother? Any help would be great. Thanks....

2007-05-07 14:12:37 · 18 answers · asked by thisismeannoyed 1 in Marriage & Divorce