Family & Relationships - 3 May 2007

so people here's the story, if u r board. help me out...

i like this girl. ( co-worker, but in different department, but i see her around few times a day) she been playing me around. she seems to like me, (i think she likes me*) but we have lots of co-workers around, and we're both young, around same age, good looking people. so our co-workers get very suspicious about us.
i try asking her out before, didn't really work. ( i didn't have her number, next day she gave me her number) and second time she said she was busy, i thought she said that to turn me down. but now i know she really didn't have time then. so i flirt around with her. and she tries to be sweet with me. and other day i told her she looks cute! she seem flattered. and smiled.
i want to know how can i take it to next level?
Should I ask her out again? What can i say? help me out. How do I ask her again.

2007-05-03 23:56:39 · 12 answers · asked by S. 1 in Singles & Dating

He walked out on 3/3/07 and moved in with another woman. I do not want the home we shared together, but he does. He claims he will make the payments until he can refinance in his own name (joint mortgage account). If for, some reason he can not make the payments can I get him removed from the home? We are in agreement on everything and are trying to file the Divorce without lawyers, but with the uncertainty of the home I wanted to make sure what would happen.

2007-05-03 23:53:38 · 7 answers · asked by Hope7582 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have just signed a lease to live in a house wit my ex gf and i have a dread feeling in my stomach! i still like her but we have summer now and dont have to move in for 3 months!

2007-05-03 23:53:18 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

How would you interpret someone saying they would just go buy another phone and stop calling anybody thats the opposite sex?

2007-05-03 23:49:21 · 16 answers · asked by TABU22 1 in Singles & Dating

the marital status of someone else's parents any of your business? If yes, what is your relation to the couple that is married or divorced?

2007-05-03 23:48:17 · 6 answers · asked by GoodQuestion 6 in Family

i have had very special pets

"aussie" my precious lil australian terrier. he helped through surgery when i was young. we would pull ourselves "commando crawl" along on our bellies together. he ate doritos with me. My dad always said "he had the heart of a lion" , i tear up thinking of him now.

but now that i have children, there is no comparison. when i got sick of playin with aussie he went back outside with "gypsy" and "rebel".

i would lay my life down for my kids, i wouldn't for my pets.

i also "get" that some people can't have children (that would be devestating) but please don't compare your ANIMAL to my children!

2007-05-03 23:46:49 · 11 answers · asked by SweetieGoat 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiance is very controlling. More or less every conversation we have is to do with some aspect of me that disappoints her or that she finds unacceptable. It didn't used to be like this. At other times she can be full of sweetness and light and then the criticism is that I'm not being very loving(as evidenced by spontaneous touching and kissing), but given the usual character assassination, I find it hard to be. I moved to a different country to be with her, but she still has no respect for my commitment to the relationship. I have tried so many times to discuss this with her and tell her how I feel, but her response is invariably that it is some kind of problem with me not hearing or understanding what she has said or not making allowances for one thing or another. I did and do love her, but I'm getting close to the end of my tether and the idea of spending years together if it's going to be like this make me want to run down the road screaming. Ideas anyone?

2007-05-03 23:45:46 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

i can go to bed all sexy and he will just keep playing his ps2 and the times we do have sex after he's done he'll just turn around and go to bed! i even tell him that i need to be pleased and he will play the part but he is not even trining to please me it gets to the point were i just get up mad and walk out and sleep in the other room! if he was trining then wouldent he go talk to me about it instead of just going to sleep?

2007-05-03 23:44:42 · 24 answers · asked by skylaa 1 in Marriage & Divorce

everyday after that, sometimes 30 times a day for hours at a time. I never checked the cell phone bills i trusted him.i didn't start suspecting anything until almost 10 mths later.i investigated and found out on my own.i cant get a real answer from him for why he did. so i just keep going over it in my head.asking why.he want tell the truth.he obviously enjoyed her conversations, as far as sex he says it was just the excitement of it being new yeah right, it must have been better than with me. he had a faithful wife i thought we were on top of the world. i think he was falling in love this woman. he was willing to jeopardize everything. he had sex with her 1 mth after meeting her and this contiuned i don't know exactly how many times. i don't understand. i would have done anything for him.i thought our sex was great, never told no. how could he live with himself or face me knowing what he was doing.he says he liked the control she would drop her plans to see him. wow he had a wife home

2007-05-03 23:38:25 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I love my friends. However recently they are all depressed. I have been supportive and spent night after night with them, hanging out and listening to their problems, but I also want a life. I'm in my twenties and want to get out there.

However I'm finding this difficult. It's hard to meet new people when none of your friends are having events, parties or want to come out with you.

My town is small. What can I do to get out of this rut?

Am I awful for feeling this way? I have no problems being supportive, but I need more than sitting in living rooms. Even when I initiate going out people stop coming. They are fine with me watching videos and talking with them though.

It's been almost a year since I've done anything.

2007-05-03 23:36:20 · 11 answers · asked by Cendrie 2 in Friends

Where inside the park should I propose to my girlfriend? We are goimg in February.

2007-05-03 23:27:16 · 14 answers · asked by Michael G 1 in Weddings

People around me who knew I had break up with my boyfriend are asking for a relationship and am afraid because of what I went through.

2007-05-03 23:18:15 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-03 23:12:17 · 16 answers · asked by lucelle 1 in Marriage & Divorce

does love exit after death

2007-05-03 23:07:40 · 30 answers · asked by rsrmrr 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiancee and I can not afford to have a honeymoon. I was wondering if anyone has any ideas or has experienced this also?

2007-05-03 23:07:31 · 31 answers · asked by Soon2beMrs.B 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend is facing a tough decision - whether or not to come out to his old-fashioned father! We want to get married (Civil Partnership) but we know that Nick's dad will flip! The ceremony will be in the UK but his dad lives in Nigeria. Should Nick just keep quiet about it all and allow his dad to be ignorant of the relationship that Nick and I have?

2007-05-03 23:07:00 · 25 answers · asked by mike4nick 3 in Family

2007-05-03 23:06:12 · 7 answers · asked by Inuk-man 3 in Singles & Dating

How amay of you have taken nude or seminude snaps of your spouse & kept it in safe?

2007-05-03 23:05:34 · 13 answers · asked by Rockey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend says that love can not be happened in judt few meetings ,we need to know everything about each other then only we can fall in love.is that true?if yes then y so...and if no then when person should actually fall in love.

2007-05-03 23:00:33 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

my husband and i have just split we both agreed we fight too much infront of the children and cant get on and he ended it which i am happy with, but he then changed his mind and started getting nasty to the point the police had to be called by my dad coz he could hear him on the phone anyway he calmed down now and he wants to take the kids to yarmouth for the school holidays to spend some time with them b4 he leaves, so he suggested i go to see my mum in spain while he away which i have booked the tickets but this was all arranged b4 it all kicked off, but i am a bit worried he can run with my children and if he does can i get him for kidnapping them? i cant say no to him taking them coz they his kids too and it would only cause more trouble. help me.

2007-05-03 22:47:20 · 12 answers · asked by foxy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm in love but my situation is like this. I have to decide between 2 girls:

1. 'V' is the one I'm in love with. We're together since 7 months now, and she's also in love, although for her it took some more time. We've gone thru a lot together, our relationship is passionate, and at times 'V' is a bit unstable, like she would think about her ex, and how miserable her life used to be. Now she's very eager to marry me, and has told me to come to her parents asap to ask her hand 'officially'. My family/parents do not really like her character and find her a bit 'superficial', and too keen on 'beauty products', 'clothes', 'fashion', etc.

2. 'R' is a girl I've dated a couple of times. She's nice, not as beautiful and sexy as 'V', and comes from a very wealthy family. She drives cars like BMW, and is the type of girl any 'opportunist' would like to settle with. I've slept with 'R' once, and she's a bit attached to me. My family likes her and want me to marry her.

Who I shud marry then?

2007-05-03 22:43:45 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-05-03 22:26:41 · 14 answers · asked by bolor1993 1 in Singles & Dating

me ex best mate is a s_____t she's 14 years old and now she has slept wiv him she'll dump him within 2-3 weeks i've told the bf what shes doin cos me and him have history she told him i'm only sayin that cos i want him back WITCH I DON'T she makes him hate me this is the e-mail:


I gettin really bored of this now, ur out of my life, and I really dont want to hear frm u any more, wot me and Alan do is our buisness not urs, and I wont be breaking up with him at any point in the near future. and just because u cant get one guy to go out with u, it aint my fault. Get lost, dont reply, I dont want to know u any more! TAKE THE HINT! Bye forever!


What should i do?

2007-05-03 22:23:57 · 19 answers · asked by amy_baby123 3 in Friends

Never heard of one?neither have i.Is this conclusive proof that a colony of homosexual insects exist, and are thriving??last week i saw one with a tache and matching leather cap and hot pants!!!!!!!!HONEST

2007-05-03 22:23:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What best advice can you give based your own on personal experience please?

2007-05-03 22:20:53 · 10 answers · asked by Chrissie 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-03 22:17:11 · 1 answers · asked by Meloni 1 in Singles & Dating

and if so how should I go about it? (Cancer, Sickle Cell Anemia,,,,ect) suggestions please, plus feedback on your experiences is welcome

2007-05-03 22:15:53 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i ama about to have a child with the man who promised to marry me but he has decided he is not interested in me nor the baby. i am keeping the baby bcos icant imagine myself going thru physical pain to remove the child and more so bcos of my beliefs. what do u guys suggest i do. i live in my country but he lives abroad. my family is distraught and i am just going with the tide for now. people tell me i am strong but i tell them i have no other choice. and frankly i dont want to be dishonorable in my actions by doing the seemingly right thing but actually wrong thing. please answer me.

2007-05-03 22:09:49 · 17 answers · asked by hef 1 in Singles & Dating

Is such a marriage an old custom or is it a practice that should be encouraged for a harmonious society? Justify your stance.

2007-05-03 22:09:28 · 7 answers · asked by Dennis Y 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When i was 20 i met my partner, i told him when we met, thati wnted to meet my future husband when i was 20, get ingadged when im 23 and get married at 25 and have a first child at 28, and i told him the kind of ring i wanted. But he has 2 kids, 4, and 6. And he still only wants to ask me when im 23, get married when im 25 etc. And even though we cant afford the ring he still wants to bay thatone, its unnessisary. what should i do.

2007-05-03 22:08:19 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings