Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

I have only been goin out this girl for 3 weeks, i really love everything about her and she says the same. The only problem is her ex, she wont tell him about us because 'he will shout at her and go mad at her'. She tells everyone else about us thought. She see's him everyday a college and spends every lunch with him, just the 2 of them. They were together for 2 years in high school and split up a year ago, he hasn't had another girlfriend since they split up. She has had afew short term boyfriends but nothing serous. He is constantly ringing her checking on her, making sure she isn't with any other guys. She tells me they are just friends and i trust her, but i think he still has feelings for her. I can accept her spending time with him at college but i just don't like the fact that he doesn't know about us. I just want to know what other people would do in my situation. I'm just worried about losing her. She told me she will tell him soon.

2007-04-30 23:58:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am dating one of my closest friends. He is really nice and everything, but he's just so damn "friend"! I want tokiss him but it just feels weird. It's not that I don't like him like that, its just that it takes a while to get used to the idea, but he wants to kiss and hold hands and all the stuff couples do, but im not sure im ready. What am i supposed to do, because i feel like a totally horrible girlfriend!

2007-04-30 23:54:33 · 9 answers · asked by Ollie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 23:53:51 · 7 answers · asked by MegTheKeg 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

why is it that its so hard to move on?

2007-04-30 23:35:20 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 23:31:42 · 5 answers · asked by shuaishang591 1 in Singles & Dating

my daughter is now 9 months i have kept her father updated on her progress by text messages but he never responds, should i give up on him? he has other children that i have seen him crying over because he cannot see them cause he doesnt know where they our i cant understand why he would not take up this opportunity, i dont know where he is now but i know he is recieving my texts and that his number is correct i am heart broken for my daughter as one day i am going to have to tell her that i dont know where her dad is and that he doesnt seem to care about her should i continue to text him and tell him about her? she is just like him or should i give up he knows my number and where i live so should i now leave it up to him?? advise please i only want to do the right thing

2007-04-30 23:30:26 · 25 answers · asked by Emma H 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

losing your virginity before marriage is stigmatized as a sin.
but generation y has almost no regards for this "rule".
it's almost as if it has become a norm.

i'm careful when i say this and i don't mean it in any offence, but i believe virginity to women holds a more deeper importance and impact, than it does to men.
when a girl anticipates having sex before marriage, it seems a lot is at stake.
there's the issue of protection, the idea of "popping the cherry", the partner, and the emotional rollercoaster.

i myself believed i would wait until after marriage.
i grew up with my mother telling me to 'stay pure' until marriage, and i agreed.
then i found someone special. it happened earlier than i thought and yes, unexpected.
with all the reassuring, i couldn't bring myself to come forward to her.
i don't regret it. it was beautiful and meaningful, and my relationship holds strong and true.
but i have to admit, there is a little guilt.

so, is it really that wrong?

2007-04-30 23:30:10 · 17 answers · asked by psychedelena 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 23:22:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Women are excellent liars of course, from all the practice, naturally very sneaky and also continually suspicious.

Men on the other hand are trusting idiots who couldn't lie straight in bed.

Is the great disparity at which men and women are caught out cheating all down to the fact that men are idiots?

2007-04-30 23:21:25 · 12 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5 in Singles & Dating

I feel like total crap for feeling like this, my wife just found out she is pregnant and all I can think about is how much I don't want to be here. For 2 months before this I talked to her about how i wasn't sure if this was what I really wanted, and maybe we should hold off a month or two so I can really decide. We haven't goten along really well for almosst two years but she still feels this is a good thing, I am not sure. I want to set a good example for my child, but I know we will continue arguing throughout the pregnancy and once the little one is here and i know from my own experience that is never a good thing. I want to feel better about this, but I want to make it right too. i have no idea what to do.

2007-04-30 23:20:12 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A few years ago, I was a virgin (18) and had been dating my boyfriend at the time for two months. He was friends with my friends, the topic of me being a virgin never came up (we fooled around but never had sex) and although I should have mentioned something I just assumed he knew that I was. One night we came home from a date and he started to have sex with me. He didn't ask, he just did. I was in so much shock I didn't know what to do until after 30-40 seconds I told him to stop and he did. He said sorry and went to sleep. It was never mentioned agian the entirety of our relationship (about a year). It bothers me to this day. Was I raped? I really don't know.

2007-04-30 23:19:22 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so here's the thing , when we r sittin in a group ,my best friend keeps on tellin jokes that i would luv 2 say that they're funny , but they're not , now when she does that every body just keeps on starin at her , n i try 2 save the situation by laughin n changin the subject . but i feel that i should say something before somebody else does , so how can i tell my bestfriend that her jokes r lame without hirtin her feelings??????????

2007-04-30 23:14:41 · 14 answers · asked by mimo_mcenzi 1 in Friends

HE CHEATED ME FOR 6 MONTHS.,HE CONFESSED ALMOST 2 MONTHS AGO..HE ADMITTED HE LOVED(?) THE GIRL.I GIVE HIM THE CHANCE TO MAKE UP...,PLS....HELP ME TO ENLIGHTEN MY MIND.IT'S REALLY PAINFUL..I KNOW THINGS WILL NEVER BE THE SAME AGAIN.MY TRUST,HIS FIDELITY...,I'M AFRAID IT WILL HAPPEN AGAIN.,DOES ANYONE CHEATED JUST ONCE OR ITS ALWAYS POSSIBLE TO HAPPEN AGAIN,...TO BE FAIR MY HUSBAND IS TRYING TO REGAIN MY TRUST..,ITS JUST IM SO AFRAID TO GIVE MY TRUST & LOVE AGAIN BUT IN THE END HE'LL DO IT AGAIN...

2007-04-30 23:01:41 · 11 answers · asked by shannel d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at the bar with friends, guy walks up our table and asks this girl to dance girl says no thanks! guy leave and then we all asked her why did you say no he was a good looking guy. and she said i know is was really cute! why do girls turn guys down even when they like them?

2007-04-30 23:01:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 23:00:18 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

She said she'd known but for a while, but she didn't feel the same. We're still friends and I'm still with my girlfriend but I feel like crap.

2007-04-30 22:59:17 · 16 answers · asked by barnaby_362003 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 22:48:35 · 12 answers · asked by bushman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just read in an article that, people who have regular sex partners actually masturbate more often than those who don't. What do you think?

2007-04-30 22:43:55 · 12 answers · asked by spak 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i,ve been married for 12yrs and has never had a stable income from my husband. he is always relying on me to cove the bills. we have kids. do i stay in marriage for sake of kids

2007-04-30 22:41:17 · 22 answers · asked by Nazzy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I left my ex-bf bcos there is a huge age difference between us. When we were together, we had amazing sex, we loved each other deeply which made the sex life very good... Then I met someone else and got married, we 2 didnt have sex b4 the wedding, after getting married, I find Im not interested in having sex with him, I cant find the passion anymore, I still missed my exbf very much. But my husband has tried his best, he is very satisfied and enjoys the sex, but I dont, I feel painful...I always miss the long and passionate love making with my exbf, and cant get over it... What should I do now? How can I forget the past?

2007-04-30 22:33:53 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 21 soon to be 22. Married for just under a year now and living overseas with my husband (army). My family as a whole has always been fairly astranged and distant. My father (63) and mother(58) have been married for 25 years (26 in july). Both have children from previous marriages. I am their only child and 8 years the youngest. For reasons I won't disclose my parents are separating. My mother has moved down to florida with the idea of divorce around the fall of this year. My father is staying in MA but footing the bill for her and giving her an allowance. I don't know all the legal details but that's besides the point. Since I can remember I have wanted them to separate. When I first heard I said I'd support them in any decision and loved them both. But to tell the truth I want to scream. I want to tell them I WANT them to divorce (I have my reasons). I'm only holding back because i'm not in their immediate life anymore... but I'm still their child, does my opinion still count?

2007-04-30 22:30:50 · 12 answers · asked by cav71006 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 22:25:24 · 6 answers · asked by hooks 2 in Marriage & Divorce

im single and i was starting to talk to this girl on msn i herd she likes me but im not sure if i like her , we only started to talk for about 10 mins and i was told by her m8 (who gave me her addy) that she wanted to met up with me tonight the same night that we started to talk im not sure about her yet she is 16 and im 19 , but i dont realy want to be single and i dont have a job to pay for stuff

2007-04-30 22:23:45 · 20 answers · asked by ak222002 4 in Singles & Dating

I'm pregnant and my ex dumped me when i was 5 weeks gone he soon moved onto a 17yr old gf (he's 25 married still but not with her and has 3 kids!) i want them to split up so he will be here for the baby and so that we can maybe start again. If not i want him away from my hometown and the only way i can think is if he got fired he'd have nowhere to live here. he has previous criminal history including beating both his pregnant exes and stealing from an old job what can i do?

2007-04-30 22:21:56 · 26 answers · asked by saffy50 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm supposed to be getting married in September, but lately im not too sure if I should or not. I'm not even excited about the wedding... planning it seems to be a pain. And now I'm finding all these things that are wrong with him... ie. he doesn't show enough affection towards me. And I'm not sure if I can spend the rest of my life with someone who doesnt show me the affection I want. He's working on this, and getting better very slowly. And now I'm also thinking maybe I'm too young to get married (I'm 24, he's 28). That maybe I should wait and live life a little bit more before deciding if I should be married. The wedding is 4 months away...should I just marry him, or put the wedding off for a while? We've been engaged for 2 years, and together for almost 6. AND I just quit smoking... is this pre-wedding jitters... or what? I'm so confused.

2007-04-30 22:20:55 · 4 answers · asked by Jen 1 in Weddings

2007-04-30 22:20:50 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he prefers to spend time watching movies out doors. His friends are more important than I. I thought I could be the problem , so I tried to avoid nagging or any harsh form of communication. I even asked him about this. But all he said was that no man can live without friends. then I asked him to take me out with him sometimes, but he hates it. And whn he does he keeps a distance. What I know honestly is that I am beautiful, because I do modeling as a hobby which is always successful. In public, people have congratulated him in my presence on my beauty. Please I don't know which way to go this time.

2007-04-30 22:19:02 · 20 answers · asked by loveit 2 in Marriage & Divorce

That's what some girl in my class just told me. Was she hitting on me...?

Should I ask her out?

2007-04-30 22:18:51 · 4 answers · asked by sweatypig7 s 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a lot of potential between us. Let's convert some into kinetic.

2007-04-30 22:15:21 · 10 answers · asked by sweatypig7 s 1 in Singles & Dating

what made it the best day??what happened for u and your partner??

2007-04-30 22:11:49 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce