he prefers to spend time watching movies out doors. His friends are more important than I. I thought I could be the problem , so I tried to avoid nagging or any harsh form of communication. I even asked him about this. But all he said was that no man can live without friends. then I asked him to take me out with him sometimes, but he hates it. And whn he does he keeps a distance. What I know honestly is that I am beautiful, because I do modeling as a hobby which is always successful. In public, people have congratulated him in my presence on my beauty. Please I don't know which way to go this time.
2007-04-30 22:19:02 · 20 answers · asked by loveit 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes, you do. Follow your gut instincts here. This guy is definitely a loser an doesnt deserve anyone like you. If youre as beautiful and smart as you say you are then this guy is stupid too avoiding you instead of showing you off and puts his friends first? Something tells me that this guy has realized he has made a mistake but has no idea how to get out. Also since you hav not mention anything resembling any kind of love from either, this tells me that this is actually a dead relationship and you need to get out and move on and find someone who is better suited for you. You dont need this guy and definitely can do better. Better to end this "going nowhere" relationship now instead of later (inevitable) when its going to be more expensive and harder to get out. Good luck
2007-04-30 22:30:35 · answer #1 · answered by Arthur W 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sounds a bit like my Ex to be honest.
He cares for you and all that, but I think it's a sign that what you two have together may be "love" rather than the all consuming type of love that you should have when you get engaged.
Are you trophy girlfriend? I don't mean that harshly, but is he a bit of a footy boy with a pretty bird on his arm?
Sounds like he is very blokey and wants to be one of the lads even if he loves you may not be his focus in life.
Do you want to put up like this, as he's not likely to change? Wouldn't you prefer someone who idiolised you?
I've been through something simliar, and now I know how much I was missing out on when I was with my x and that there is so much better out there.
Good luck x
2007-04-30 22:59:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A beautiful person is not necessarily someone who looks gorgeous, a good brain and personality makes a woman far more attractive and sexy than a beautiful face. You need to have a sense of adventure, be impulsive and never be clingy. It sounds as if you are a little shallow and naive, if this guy loved you he would want to be with you, he'd be proud of you. You need to make yourself a little more interesting in all ways if you want to keep this guy.
2007-05-01 10:14:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey get smart woman. Your fine good. But do you think he will want to be hanging wit a fine person who might bore him when he can be watching games or catching jokes with friends. Besides try and take interest in one of his hobbies. Beauty aint everything. It does not mean he dont like you.
At least be happy hes being honest about it not pretending to like hanging out with you.
2007-05-01 09:13:05 · answer #4 · answered by Salam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being beautiful has nothing to do with it...so why bring it up?! You could still have these problems even if you were ugly! Sounds like he isn't keen on spending much time with you, you need to sit down and talk seriously about this otherwise you're going to end up alone x
2007-04-30 22:56:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being beautiful is not the B-all and End-all. There is more to life than being a trophy girlfriend. He would possibly prefer someone with a social life of their own who isn't obssessed with being joined at the hip with their boyfriend 24/7. That is no life for anyone. If you don't allow him his space and develop a social life of your own he will start to resent you.
2007-04-30 22:25:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure you want to spend the rest of your life with someone playing second fiddle to his mates? Someone who does not seem to be proud of you at all by keeping his distance in public? I think you should have a good talk with him regarding your insecurities before heading down the aisle.
2007-04-30 22:30:07 · answer #7 · answered by watashi79 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Simply my opinion here, but if he is doing this now what is he going to do when you are married? What you need to do is ask yourself if this is how you want to spend the rest of your life. Only you can answer that.
2007-04-30 22:24:35 · answer #8 · answered by K~ (AKA Korndog/Girlnut) 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You may be beautiful but have you got a personality?
If you truly believe he does not want to be seen with
you what the helll are you doing being engaged to this guy??
Dump Him.
2007-04-30 22:31:43 · answer #9 · answered by Minxy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all the times that beauty counts to men, they also look your inner character. Maybe there is something within you that he find it to another woman, try to investigate where and what are the things that you've done to him... before its too late..
2007-04-30 22:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by shekinah_78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋