Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

2007-04-30 19:25:17 · 13 answers · asked by Ryan F 3 in Marriage & Divorce

well, there's these two girls at school and i just flat-out don't like them. they like to follow me around alot and try to keep me all to themselves. now before you go on and think im conceited for saying that (and if you didn't, thanks), they literally push my other friends out of their way to talk to me and for me to focus on them. and they constantly try to say they're into the exact same things i am, but for example, when they say they love my favorite band, i asked them, "what's your favorite song?" they just stay quiet and pretend they didn't hear what i asked. i am not the type of person to say, "hey, i don't like you, get away from me." i hate making people feel bad.

so, what do i do in a situation like this? i don't want to hurt anyone's feelings, but hey, i don't want these two girls following me everywhere, either!

2007-04-30 19:25:06 · 15 answers · asked by geeez 1 in Friends

Mom left house to both myself & my brother, he moved in and doesn't want to sell house but isn't making an effort to get a loan to buy me out. I don't want a fight, but fair is fair...... someone please help!

2007-04-30 19:24:09 · 4 answers · asked by missing mom 1 in Family

Well my older sister didn't do well in school so she is a poor person. She is currently living with me at this point. We have a lot of fun together until the other night the told me she was a lesbian. It scared me and know I don't know if I should kick her out of just let her live with me. What should I do?

2007-04-30 19:23:00 · 25 answers · asked by brookie786787 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My hubby and I are married for 4 yrs. The marriage/ relationship before the wedding was a constant up and down. He was always hiding things/ lying to me.(I had to pay his debt down cause he didnt do it, hiding his previous marriage and kids etc.) I moved out of the house 3 months ago because I couldnt take it anymore and to seriously think about the relationship.He even saw other girls while I was still living with him, I confronted him but even so I have 100% proof he still denies it. Now he changed all his passwords to his email accounts plus security answers/ login details so its impossible for me to track it down. I dont know if I am getting paranoid or if he is really up to something..again. I dont know how to make a decision/ I know when I ask him a question he wont tell the truth. I still love him but I am scared he wont change and it really hurts and I am so confused.

2007-04-30 19:18:35 · 14 answers · asked by Jennifer W 1 in Marriage & Divorce

When I was little my dad call me, Bootha, Heavy on the Sauce (hehehehe), and my mom's friend call me Miis P. I don't know what the "P" is.

2007-04-30 19:13:21 · 5 answers · asked by Marie K 2 in Family

I've been seeing this guy for almost two months now. We get along great. He introduces me as his friend and recently told his boss that he was going out of town with his "girl" so he can get his schedule rearranged. I don't want to assume that Im anything more than, yet he tells me that I should know that Im more than a friend. Dating other men is out of the question in his eyes. Would it be wrong if I ask him were this relationship is going? I don't want to run him off by wanting a label on the relationship but Im confused. Suggestions please!!!

2007-04-30 19:00:21 · 4 answers · asked by caasi2004 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband and Ihave been togethe r(including dating) for six yrs.Last year he had an affair and we both thought that we could get over it. We have made progress but every once in a while i find myself in a panic like state wondering if he really loves me. He says it was the biggest mistake in his life messing with that other woman. I see that he is changing and trying really hard to please me. I can't just jump up and leave because we have two kids together. Sometimes i just feel like I have to protect myself from him because i was scarred so badly from actaullu knowing that he was capable of hurting me( in my mind he was a perfect angel that could never cause me any harm). Now its hard for me to see past my "emotional brick wall" and just love him like i really want to. Am I just crazy and paranoid and need to get over the past and open myself up, to be happy or should I stop kidding myself? I really do want to work on our realtionship and be happy again.

2007-04-30 18:59:52 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have only slept nude once before in my life, and that was when I was by myself for two days while parents were at a conference in Idaho. I find it much more comfortable then pajamas, but I'm afraid my parents will walk in on me. I also don't feel comfortable discussing this issue with them. Help!

2007-04-30 18:52:44 · 7 answers · asked by Thomas 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so my friends wedding anniversary is coming up this month. I want to get her and the hubby a gift for their anniversary. The reason why I am asking is because me and friend aren't really talking and she made it quite clear she doesn't want to be friends anymore. But I still want to get them something for their anniversary to show them how much I appreciate them. No matter if she wants to be my friend or not I still consider her my friend and I just don't know if it is weird to give anniversary gifts to friends or not. So help me and what should I give them? I was thinking of getting them a gift certificate to a spa or masseuse and a card or maybe a gift certificate to a restaurant what do you guys think?

2007-04-30 18:50:30 · 7 answers · asked by sexylady 2 in Weddings

My ex and I have a child together, and are approximately 4 months into the 6 month waiting period required by Michigan for a divorce. We have been separated for approximately a year and a half. The last six months, I've been dating another man, and now may possibly be pregnant. I've not been tested yet, but want to know the legal ramifications if I am. Can the divorce still proceed? Am I even required to disclose the pregnancy? I don't want my ex to have anything to do with it, as far as his name on the birth certificate, support, or anything of the sort. My boyfriend and I plan to be married, and if the divorce can be final this summer as planned, would be married before the baby would be born. Any Michigan-specific help would be greatly greatly appreciated.

2007-04-30 18:46:21 · 6 answers · asked by avas_mommy83 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 18:40:02 · 7 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

One common answer is they will stand up for them. what if your a nice guy and can bench press 400 lbs. and break 2x4's with your fist yet you look pretty normal. do you have to walk around and dress like a tough guy to get women to think your tough? look at Clark Kent for example. He could have protected Lois at any moment but Lois never gave him a second look. What about the old adage don't judge a book by it's cover. What happens when your little bad boy runs for the hills when the real tough guys come out? Or hides behind you?

2007-04-30 18:38:47 · 14 answers · asked by Harry Hood 6 in Singles & Dating

i noticed that guys in college tend to exaggerate things. like they run into a girl in starbucks, chat for a bit, then he later refers to it as a "date". it's so stupid. why do guys do this?

2007-04-30 18:31:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when is the appropriate time and place, location, situation etc to ask a girl out. this is in college. no particular girl in mind. ive always considered dating and wanting to have a relationship with someone as being perverted and that every woman viewed this the same way. but considering since so many people are in relationships its not. but i do not ever want to come off as a perv or as a creep because im not. i just want to take a girl out and treat her nice and have a good time and thats all
Ive been in relationships before but all of those girls approached me. about five girls have asked me out and i have gone out with all of them, and 2 were really cool. but i have never asked anyone out myself
also how do you know if someone already has a boyfriend or is dating someone else

2007-04-30 18:29:21 · 8 answers · asked by billy t 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 18:28:50 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok ive been broke up with this guy for 4 years now but everyday i think of him and get really upset im in another relationship and have been for a long time now but i cant seem to stop thinking about my ex and its killing me inside. sometimes i cant sleep and tonight i broke down in tears because i saw him at wal-mart but i didnt say anything to him because supposedly hes married but i think thats major bull can someone give me advice on how to get him out of my head? am i crazy for still hurting after so long? and to make things worse my cousin died this week and then i see my ex. god i dont know what to do please please help me

2007-04-30 18:26:54 · 3 answers · asked by kitty45342 3 in Singles & Dating

We were walking out of class and this girl asked me if I had a class. I told her at twelve. She said she had a class also at 12(it was 11:15am when she asked). She also said that she was going to buy something from the cafeteria and then go and eat outside since it was pretty warm outside. I said that was a pretty good idea and said good-bye. I only realized the mistake I made in that case. Tell me what you think is my mistake cause I want to be sure I’m right.

2007-04-30 18:23:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

After sleeping with someone is it at all a wierd encounter when you see them at school or the local grocery store or is that just me?

2007-04-30 18:21:44 · 7 answers · asked by thenumberoneincluelessness 3 in Singles & Dating

I am 5 ft. 8 in. and am a big guy, but, I have been told by many women that I am the nicest guy they have ever met, and I do believe them because my male friends agree, and am friends with more girls than boys.

2007-04-30 18:21:41 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like this guy and i kinda get the vibe that he likes me. should i go ahead and make the first move or should i wait?

2007-04-30 18:17:41 · 9 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Singles & Dating

Hi,
I am single and coming to the end of my rental lease. I have been living on my own in apartments for the past ten years. I have to make a choice quickly on whether I should renew my lease. My parents want me to move in with them. During the past year, my father's health has really declined and my mom has to take care of him for most of the time. He has his good days and bad days. In a way, I know it is the moral thing to do so I could help my mom with my dad. Also, it would help me out financially since I live paycheck to paycheck. I could finally save money. But my parents live in a two bedroom townhouse. I would have my own bedroom, but still it will be cramped quarters. Also, I know I shouldn't worry about what other people think...but I will be a 32 year old living with her mommy and daddy. I have always been very independent and I can't stand the thought of losing my independence. But if I continue to live on my own, I will feel guilty for not helping them out. Also,

2007-04-30 18:16:49 · 14 answers · asked by Angrygirl5 3 in Family

My bf. brought me out on the road, were now back together. He hasn;t told me he loves me, sex is good, our relationship is okay. He said he changed, he does for me all the time i dont do without .....is it possible his love is expressed differently than what i want it to be? btw. we've been together for almost 4 years on and off and known each other almost 6....

2007-04-30 18:15:27 · 11 answers · asked by Britster 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-04-30 18:14:54 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For prom i'm going with this girl name lets say Stacy. Stacy and i went to Homecoming together and we got there 30 mins before the dance ended (long story short, our group got lost in dinner.)

For prom her date cant go with her anymore because he is going to another school prom on the same night. So now she asked me to go with her, i said ok without thinking.
Her group is made up with mainly popular kids. I don't judge people or anything but they aren't the type of people i would get a long with. I'm sure she is going to ditch me when we get to the dance, and she won't even dance with me, just like homecoming. Though i'm confused at this part, Because we arrived 30 mins late to homecoming, i had to go take pictures with these 2 other girls, so i couldnt dance with Stacy, She said she waslooking for me, somehow, i dont believe it. We've been friends for at least 2 years. My good friend rachel wants me to go with her because she is warning me about what stacy is gonna do, because

2007-04-30 18:14:31 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im gonna grab my bf's hand tomorrow....well.. im kinda nervous and not sure if i can do it,since my papa died last night and all...so should i just kiss him?ima easy dreamer ( we only been going out one month but i been his best friend 3 years)

2007-04-30 18:13:20 · 6 answers · asked by The Love Of A POPULAR??? 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 18:10:52 · 31 answers · asked by babytripa 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 18:10:34 · 17 answers · asked by sam 1 in Singles & Dating

i just really wanna know wtf causes guys to think that its OK 2 cheat on their gf. Seriously.

2007-04-30 18:09:22 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex that i still like alot asked me what I was doing this saturday and see we have this carnival thing coming to town so i was like idk maybe going to go the carnival and he was like well your going cuz im taking you.
i thought it was so cute how he said this.
the reason we broke up in the first place was because he cheated on me. I have a feeling that he wants to get back together with me, I really want to but i dont know if I should, its like he really does care but he confused. Im afriad that if I do take him back he will lie and cheat again but then i have that feeling maybe he wont. I am so confused right now, what do you guy think i should do?

2007-04-30 18:09:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating