im gonna grab my bf's hand tomorrow....well.. im kinda nervous and not sure if i can do it,since my papa died last night and all...so should i just kiss him?ima easy dreamer ( we only been going out one month but i been his best friend 3 years)
2007-04-30 18:13:20 · 6 answers · asked by The Love Of A POPULAR??? 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
oh... well... look to him as comfort i suppose but you should really have your mind on your... "papa" pray he makes a safe trip up to heaven... etc.
i started to read it and it was boring till i read the whole we've been friends for three years... so that could pose as some kind of possible conflict... you probably dont want to move too fast on him... he may not be ready... that sounds weird for some reason... anyway... for example i put off a hardass persona but im a really shy guy... and well yea... so im sure you know everything about him and all... but he may not know how to react to a kiss... not yet anyway =)
2007-04-30 18:34:10 · answer #1 · answered by Haloguitarist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should probably focus on the funeral and all and ignore guys for a while - trust me, it's way more important.
Feel free to hold his hand any other time, maybe a week from now.
I'm very sorry for the loss of your father.
2007-05-01 01:15:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My sympathy for your loss.
Your Dad's wake or funeral is not the place to makeout.
If your guy wants to hold hands, or let you use his shoulder for crying, that is all well and good. But chill the smooching for the time being! There will be plenty of time for that later.
Doc
2007-05-01 01:31:56 · answer #3 · answered by Doc Hudson 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should know and that he would let you hold his hand anyway. you shouldn't be nervous at all. you should be confident and calm. i am very sorry about your loss. go for it cuz you need to be loved to get over your loss. i would give you a kiss to make you feel better and hold you close and hold your hand if this makes you feel better and more comfortable i feel your pain. here's what will make you feel better you are very beautiful inside and out. i'll give you my attention and devotion if you were my gf. hope this helps.
2007-05-01 01:19:22 · answer #4 · answered by sweetnstubbornsensitive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry to hear abt ur papa ( God rest his soul). But i think u need the emotional and physical support from loved ones. Go for it
2007-05-01 01:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to hear about ur dad.. =/ must be horrible..
what would your dad want you to do?
2007-05-01 01:19:57 · answer #6 · answered by Jay a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋