Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

he came up to me the first time i saw him she got a note from him saying you have a special place in my heart he handed me his class ring with out saying anything he let me wear is favorite hat he made some little gifts for her when i was talking to him one time and we hugged and he had his hand on my waist almost the enitre conversation and said "i got you a present!" and he opened his hand and it was a ball of tape and he said "i know, i'm crazy aren't i" and he looked me in the eye and he let me play with his hair but anyway i don't know if he likes me or her or both of us. he's older then both of us

2007-04-30 12:10:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Chocolate Bar, would you eat it all?

2007-04-30 12:08:48 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Cause I really like him,cause he is really funny and cute...
But.. he is racist to hispanic,and I AM HISPANIC! He doesn't know that I like him,but I see him in 2 classes!!And I always see him♥!What I can do!?!!?!

2007-04-30 12:07:58 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have had this instructor for 2 semesters and I would really like to get her some meaningful. But I don't know what to get her! Any suggestions or ideas?

2007-04-30 12:06:27 · 3 answers · asked by CindyLou 3 in Friends

im tall (5.7/8) ,tanned, long brown hair and deep brown eyes. ive never had a BF and almost 21. im sick of being on my own! i have urges (if u know what i mean) and cant control them any more! ! !

im shy ! and sick of not getting any where!

so guys do u like girls like this?

2007-04-30 12:03:40 · 10 answers · asked by rea 1 in Singles & Dating

my bff has this step mom that treats her like s h i t !!! And the step mom tries to turn my bffs dad against his daughter. This has been going on for like 4 years. My bffs dad just sits there and tolerates this behavior from his wife, but hew still wants to have a close relationship w/ his daughter! What should she do??

2007-04-30 12:02:58 · 8 answers · asked by Lauren. 4 in Family

I was talking to my crush about the stuff I was upto but he continiously asked me questions about my close guyfriend,!
questions like why i dont do so & so outing with that guy and what does he say about so & so..
IS MY CRUSH JEALOUS ? OR IS HE CURIOUS ABOUT ME AND MY GUYFRIEND?

2007-04-30 12:02:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thats 5'6" 237 lbs?

2007-04-30 12:01:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

not able to get her off, she says she likes it but just cant

2007-04-30 12:00:38 · 8 answers · asked by be real 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since I could remember I've wanted a beautiful wedding. I'm the oldest of three children. My other siblings are already married. Both male. Now it's my turn. When I called to tell my parents about planning they pretty much told me they didn't have any money to help. They helped out the other siblings, and so I just went on planning, now everything I want to do other family members have a problem with it. I thought small church wedding and reception in basement in church. Nope that's a problem, etc. I don't want to get married at the court house , but I don't know what to do. I'm just about ready to forget it and just get married at the court house, alone with my fiancee. What should I do?

2007-04-30 11:59:38 · 27 answers · asked by karen r 2 in Weddings

I went to spend the night at my friends house one Friday night and I found beer cans under his bed. I asked him and he told me that he had started stealing beer from his dad. Then one night he was home alone and I went over there unannounced and found him broken down in thebathroom puking everywere he looked awful! This happend one more time after that, he made me promise to to tell ANYONE! He told me that he had stopped but the last time I was over there I found two cans hidded in the mini fridge in his room. I finally told his dad and showed him the cans. He got in so much trouble, he got kicked off the football team, he lost his allowence, he is pretty much stuck in his room with the door open. He told me he hated me right when I left. Am I a bad friend? All I did was what I had to, I couldn't stand to see him like that. Did I do the right thing?

2007-04-30 11:57:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We have been together for three years and about two years ago he moved. He lives about 45 minutes away now. Almost every single day he "ignores" my calls for at least two hours. He says he will call me back and then when he finally does he says he fell asleep or bla bla bla. If i don't answer the phone then he absolutely flips on me, but he cant understand why i get mad at him. Sometimes he won't talk to me all day and then says i was sleeping, i don't believe him at all and it really pisses me off. Also about a year ago he was sleeping around with this other girl. My car was broke down so he knew i wouldn't be showing up, and while he was doing that he would guess what ignore me. Now i know the obvious thing is to get rid of him cuz he is selfish and disrespectful and a great number of other things but besides that isn't there something i can say to him to help him understand why i find it so irritating and disrespectful fro him to ignore me? Please i know it sounds silly

2007-04-30 11:54:29 · 16 answers · asked by mary 1 in Singles & Dating

And he wants to work it out, how do you KNOW its for real? How do you KNOW he's sincere? That he really wants YOU. I'm so confused cuz he said he had an affair cuz he wasnt happy, but he never treated me bad while it was happening. Like i have nothing to compare it too. Like behavior during the affair as opposed to now. I constantly find myself throwing phrases in his face like: thats what you said then, or thats what you promised then, or thats what you did then. He says that was then and I wasnt myself then, this is now and please accept me for who I am today. He has me so "jacked up in the head". I dont know what to believe. He is trying so hard, to make it right, that much I can tell, but theres always that lingering doubt when I compare the personalities he had then to now. Theres not much different. someone please help me, i dont know what to do or what to think.

2007-04-30 11:53:28 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

How long would you normally wait in a relationship until you "fool around" with your partner. That doesn't mean sex it could mean other things too! What's a good waiting period for this?

2007-04-30 11:47:04 · 29 answers · asked by Jackie Knows Best 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee and I will soon be getting married but we can't agree on my name change. I would like to keep my last name and just add his on to mine but he doesn't like it. He says that he feel disrespected and he just wants me to take his last name. I tried to explain to him that some women add on, some women hyphenate, and others do take their husbands last name but he doesn't get it. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!!!!

2007-04-30 11:45:09 · 15 answers · asked by Nicki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 11:37:14 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Don't they know that

1. They look terrible with all their layers of blubber hanging out from under their tight tops
2. They look even worse naked (YIKES)
3. They run up big food bills
4. They will run up bill medical bills as they age

Please: Put that Big Mac down and step away!

2007-04-30 11:33:49 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got married at age 30 and divorced at age 35. Do you think I waited to long? I still want to be married.

2007-04-30 11:32:46 · 11 answers · asked by Douglas W 2 in Marriage & Divorce

how do i get this really hot boy to ask em out cause he alreay like me back

2007-04-30 11:32:20 · 12 answers · asked by Nicole A 2 in Singles & Dating

haha. just wondering.

2007-04-30 11:32:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how many people would get mad if your mother in law bought your daughter new shoes, and then you found out that she told your daughter that the ones you bought her were dirty and didnt fit right? (child is 7) or would you like it if she constantly was telling you what you were doing wrong with raising your child. how about your mother in law offering to help you buy a house, under these conditions...she will pay what you cannot afford on house for 1 year, but only if her name is on the mortgage and only if its the house she wants you and her son to buy...which just happens to be right next to her sister. and what would you do if you confront your husband about this and he tells you to stop being a b****

2007-04-30 11:30:42 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know my friend (girl) for 12 years now, two years ago I have left my wife and moved out, I had a number of flings, but my friend was always there for me when I want to talk, we can talk for hours, sometimes right through the night, We were a couple of time intimate. She has problems with spirits and can not stand me touching her as she is very touch sensitive.
I’m always there for her, and she is always there for me, I listen to her and her problems and help and give her advice, the last month I just got so tensed up not having sex with anybody, touching another person, as I spend so much time with her, and not dating for a while that just lost it. I demand sex from her, and set an ultimatum of not having sex I will no longer be her friend.
Well we have not spoke to each other for a number of days, I feel miserable for setting that ultimatum as our friendship mend much more than sex. Any Ideas on how to fix this.

2007-04-30 11:30:32 · 13 answers · asked by thunder_sa 1 in Friends

AND MORE DEPENDANT

her mom and dad also don't have any common sense at all either so she doesn't learn from the about anything...

i kno you can't just teach someone common sense like that, but her parents never use any, in result - My G/F doesn't have any either.......what do i do

2007-04-30 11:26:58 · 19 answers · asked by mjorden2342 2 in Singles & Dating

now the girl found me on myspace and she looks just like me. I'm married now and have 2 kids of my own, I love them tremendously, 16 years ago i fell in love with this girl and was going to get married, my father manipulated me and her to think something that was not true so she left. and I let her go. Now we have been talking and both discovered that had we known the truth about what my father had done, we would have gotten married and live out our life.

We have both fallen in love all over again, our flame has been re-ignited. but we also love our spouses (who were not even in the picture 16 years ago) We both know that our love is true, but cant figure out how to deal with it. neither one of us wants to destroy our excisting families, but we can't deny our love. If we lived closer to one another we would no doubt act out our love in a phyisical manor, but we live 2000 miles apart. someone please give some SOUND advise.

2007-04-30 11:25:55 · 31 answers · asked by troubled12345 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Random little question?
I just shrunk your ex to an inch tall like on “Honey we Shrunk the Kids”and you find him running across your bedroom floor, what would you do?

Have fun.

2007-04-30 11:24:03 · 10 answers · asked by golsen2000 3 in Singles & Dating

I love him so much. My question is this though : We've been together for five months...over the net. He swears that it's just me and him, no one else, as do i. He's supposed to be comming to visit me in June...do you think that we will be good together in person if we're good together on the net and on the phone? I know there's lots of things that we will have to work on and figure out, but if we eraslly love each other, it will work out right?

2007-04-30 11:22:59 · 9 answers · asked by Rinnie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

has this girl that is really into him. she doesnt go to our school or anything but they used to talk on the phone a lot. idk y they stopped. buuut, anyways she saw his myspace and gave him a friend request. she said call me call me! we havent talked in forever! i miss talking to you! i was gonna ask u to my dance friday but i cant buy anymore tickets! blah blah blah =/ anywayys, he sent her a message saying he might get around to it, but he keeps sayin he doesnt want to. he keeps saying shes so aggravating she never stopped calling me and he always talking to her. i guess u could say i am pretty jealous right now. is this normal and should i be jealous about this?? please help me!

2007-04-30 11:21:11 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well, the boy I like knows I like him. I walk past him alot in the halls just to get him to look at him. My friend emailed him and told him that I liked him a lot. I leave him comments and I don't get anything back. People say he's shy. I wanna go out with him really bad, But, like I said. He doesn't even know me. I'll walk by him on purpose in the hallway.

2007-04-30 11:20:43 · 11 answers · asked by shelley a 2 in Singles & Dating

don't know how to feel about this situation,but what happened was I met this guy, a few months ago, and he told me found me to be attractive, and a cool person to hang out with and to call him if I wanted to go out.I finally did, after a month of giving it some thought, and took him up on his offer, so the first things he says is that he's broke, and in a few weeks we'll hang out, then a few weeks past, and he tells me something came up, and he will let ME know when he has time, so a few months past, and I run into him again, and he asks me when is he gonna let him take me out, and he aplogizes says he's been going throguh some things, so we set a date, he calls me a few days later, and tells me he's had some deaths in the family, and when he runs into me again we'll aset another date,I run inot him again he doesn't brings it up, and he tells me that i should have came over to him and said Hello, and during the conversation he doesn't bring it up, so i bring it up he's still clamini

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After that I asked him to hang out again, and he's tells me oh well, I 'm going to this club to check out the atmosphere for this new gig I'm getting, and he told me that he's broke that's why he's taking on a second job, and he saying all this crap about when he gets on his feet, he's going to make it up too me...but then a few days alter I see him at the gym and he says nothing too me, we actually made eye contact and he rolled his eyes and never said nothing too me the entire time I was at the gym, so I text messaged him and asked him if I liked more than a friend, he says sorry he cant say that he does , even though he finds me to be attractive and cool, he's not interested in not pursuing a serious relationship with me, and the next day he changed his status to from single to "in a relationship" wow do i feel bad.

2007-04-30 11:20:32 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has been keeping their rituals alive such as no curtains, window shades always open, plants ALL over the place, won't replace small washer, electric dryer and dishwasher that doesn't clean well. We did keep some furniture, but pieces that don't fit or have no place for, he fits in one of the rooms or puts down the cellar for "maybe we'll use it someday". Have not sold previous home yet and I'm ready to move back. Any solutions?

2007-04-30 11:18:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce