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not able to get her off, she says she likes it but just cant

2007-04-30 12:00:38 · 8 answers · asked by be real 1 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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start when you're both relaxed ... like when you get up in the morning or in the middle of the night maybe ... or even in the afternoon when you're just sitting around. If she wants to, let her suck your c*ck first ... tell her how good it feels and how hot she looks sucking it ... after a few minutes (or sooner if she loses interest) ... start a massage.
Give her a massage starting with the back make sure to get her legs and butt ... go nice and slow and keep your eyes closed so you have to feel your way around ... then have her turn over and move to the front ... move your hands all over her but stay away from directly touching her p*ssy untill right at the end (your massage should have taken at least 5 to 10 minutes to this point) ... suck her nipples briefly and caress her breasts together .. then kiss from her breasts down to her p*ssy and just run your wet finger up and down her p*ssy lips, barely brushing her cl*t. Kiss around her p*ssy gently and then run your tongue up and down her wet slit ... lightly at first ... just flicking her cl*t with the tip of your tongue a few times. Then, wet one finger and, with your palm facing up, insert one finger about 3 inches into her p*ssy and point your finger UP in her p*ssy to the top of it, so that it pushes against the top or "ceiling" inside her p*ssy, push and rub gently there, back and forth with medium pressure while you lick and suck her p*ssy lips, gradually licking and sucking her cl*t more and more. Finally, keep medium pressure on the spot where your finger is inside her and suck and tongue her cl*t faster and faster ...at the same time, take your other hand and reach up to her breasts and feel her nipples ... massaging them a bit ... continue sucking and flicking her cl*t with your tongue also by moving your head from side to side, keep the stimulation on her cl*t that way until she comes. Make sure to cuddle and hold her in your arms and relax together after she comes (unless she has other ideas ;-)

2007-04-30 12:33:40 · answer #1 · answered by benno.haas 2 · 0 0

it may not be you at all. Girls, especially younger ones don't always climax during intercourse. Though they usually do with oral or masturbation. She might have some sex issues on a subconcious level where she doesn't realy feel relaxed or comfortbale. Usually women become more comfortable iwth sex as they get older. I dated a thirty year old woman who said i gave her the best orgasm she ever had. She said she hardly ever had them when she was younger. This may be due to the fact that as a women gets older they lose estrogen and have more testosterone which makes them hornier. That's why they say a women reaches her sexual peak at about 35. Testosterone is powerful sex hormone. Your girlfriend might be too young but you should experiement and take the pressure off. Don't feel like you have to accomplish anything. don't feel bad cause she can't get off. When it comes to sex you should just enjoy yourself. Its not about the destiantion its about the joureny. have fun.

2007-04-30 19:09:41 · answer #2 · answered by frank_d22 3 · 1 0

Have her masterbate for you first, see what she likes, and make her feel comfortable climaxing around you.

Most girls love oral. Those, or get a vibrator and make her come before sex. She'll be more likely to come again during sex.

2007-04-30 19:07:48 · answer #3 · answered by J 2 · 1 0

Ask her what she'd like. Experiment and try oral.

2007-04-30 21:17:24 · answer #4 · answered by Sarah A 3 · 0 0

give her some bomb *** head or why not ask her how she likes it ? unless maybe shes a lesbian ? ....i suggest maybe buying some books on oral. good luck!

2007-04-30 19:06:25 · answer #5 · answered by the1lioness1queen 5 · 1 0

shove your finger in her *** while your eatin it ill guarantee she busts right in your face enjoi

2007-04-30 19:05:10 · answer #6 · answered by mark t 1 · 0 0

You have to communicate... and care.

2007-04-30 19:03:23 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 1 0

oral sex is always amazing

2007-04-30 19:03:10 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

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