Family & Relationships - 30 April 2007

I was curious because my boyfriend & I got into an argument yesterday about the amount of times that we talk. I understand that people need and want their space, but is wanting to just call someone everyday because their on your mind asking too much. I mean my boyfriend and I could spend 7 days together straight but on the 8th day when we don't see each other he doesn't even want to talk to me. If I just call to see how his day is going...what's so needy and clingy about that.

I mean in every other relationship I've had we've talked everyday or every other day and it hasn't been a problem. He just says that he doesn't want to be bothered with me sometimes which I though was a pretty harsh thing to say. So he'll ignore my calls, won't return them and won't respond to my messages. I get a little frustrated about that. I mean when two people live together and they talk everyday...is that being too needy and clingy. What's wrong with wanting to talk to your SO?

2007-04-30 10:26:43 · 5 answers · asked by geminig 1 in Singles & Dating

the debt is mostly from a bad divorce and "guilt money" for his young children.I have the money to pay the debt but feel funny him asking me for it.I would never ask anyone to pay off my debt but thats just me.mature answers only please would a decent guy ask his fiance to pay his debt off and how would u feel if he did?

2007-04-30 10:26:30 · 11 answers · asked by carriemartin7869 1 in Marriage & Divorce

its been almost a year and she is so emotionally atached to me and im not and i cant be with her anymore we are like 25+ miles apart and the only reason i am with her is caus i use to live up thereand now i still go to school up there but school is done in like 2 weeks i just need some advice please help

2007-04-30 10:26:07 · 37 answers · asked by mrgreg0_6 1 in Singles & Dating

my x bf, askd me to marry him and he told me he is still in love with me, and i still have feelings for him but im way to young to get married, im not even half way tho high school, and i dont know what to do, i said ill tell him in a week but im to young and i still em a virgin the reason why i broke up with him because he tryd to pressure me to have sex and i dont wanna do that until i know im in love with someone. and he got on his knee and begged me if ill marry him, and atfer he askd me to have sex with him!! and i just don know i really do like him but im not even sure if i wanna get back with him! i dont know can someone help me? please?

2007-04-30 10:24:07 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm not opposed to the idea, but I'm concerned about how my conservative family will take it. I also don't understand how the "man of honor" will come down the aisle. Normally, a groomsman would accompany them, right?...

2007-04-30 10:21:32 · 35 answers · asked by belle046 2 in Weddings

2007-04-30 10:21:06 · 18 answers · asked by BlahBlahBlah 2 in Weddings

Is it odd to like a guy and/or think he's cute when he's four years younger than you? Suppose he doesn't look it or act like it, but appears older and more mature?

2007-04-30 10:20:07 · 30 answers · asked by ilovejoshgroban! 2 in Singles & Dating

I want to get my girlfriend a Promise Ring before shes leaves for Argentina on a 4 month Mission trip, I need some idea like how much to spend, when i give it to her do I need to get on a Knee? And what exactly is the Significance of a Promise Ring?

2007-04-30 10:11:10 · 8 answers · asked by farcus2222 1 in Weddings

i am a divorced mother with a 13 yr. old boy. he is online a lot and i feel lilke i have a right to know what is being said to him and by him when he is chatting on different websites. he, of course disagrees. what does the yahoo world think?

2007-04-30 10:06:50 · 17 answers · asked by sashimi 2 in Family

...with Bruno- our German Shepard. I don't know what to do. Any advice.

2007-04-30 10:05:30 · 18 answers · asked by Ronin 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She was submissive, and then she decided that being a dominatrix would be better, but the thing is because of stuff in my past I dont llike to be submissive. So I just want to know how I act around her? Like no hugging or kissing her? Should I be cold around her?

2007-04-30 09:58:33 · 12 answers · asked by Sammy 1 in Singles & Dating

should i stay mad at this guy for insulting me and hurting my feelings after i confessed my crush to him....after i told him i liked him he said well sorry im interested in someone else i told him it was ok that i should probably find an older guy but that id still like to be friends he got mad for some reson or annoyed and said i was immature and childish and that i delt with the whole crush situation very very immature im like well hello im a sixteen year old girl and your no better than i am your even more immature i also told him that if thats the way he thinks of me that hes no friend of mine...i wanted to ask him to prom but as you can probably tell thats out of the question...hes a dick and ive realized that now i just have to find a guy to go with me to make him jealous were not talking right now this happened saturday night and so i feel shitty because he made it so clear he liked me it was like wow obvious other wise i wouldnt have told him i liked him what a jerk any advice

2007-04-30 09:58:18 · 2 answers · asked by gigi 3 in Singles & Dating

My friend told me it was illegal because in massachusetts the age of consent is 16. My girlfriend is 15 and if i get her mad she can send me to jail. It makes zero sense that there is no fine print saying that there can be a 4 year age difference. My girl is the only girl i am interested in and by the time she turns 16 i will be going to college. What should I do?

2007-04-30 09:57:11 · 12 answers · asked by bjl51489 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 09:57:04 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's sort of a funny custom how fathers walk their daughters down the isle for the big-day, like sort of passing the baton.

But what happened to the custom of actually courting a woman...when you FIRST went to her father to ask permission to even approach his own daughter...what happend to that?

2007-04-30 09:54:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I've known this guy for about a year, but we've never met, he's 25 and I'm 18. In the beg. of the friendship, I kind of liked him, but as time grew on, the feeling stopped. Now he's really into me and he texts me stuff like "i love u" and "let's cuddle" or "r u coming over 2nite?" and I keep telling him like "u WOULD love me." and telling him I'm not coming over and then he says he was just kidding and if the reason I'm not coming over is because I hate him, in which case I'll respond and he'll respond back that he was just kidding. We've gotten into countless discussions about why I won't 'give him a chance' (Uhm how bout for starters, HE'S 25? Being friends is okay, but NOT dating) Like seriously, wth is up with him?

2007-04-30 09:53:36 · 26 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Singles & Dating

You know I'm so sick of girls who think they can use a nice guy and expect him to love them always. When they go out and date others and expect to come back to the nice guy. I've been in three situations where three "little" girls, I say little loosly cause thats what I think of them, little inmature girls, have loved my kind, respectfull, hard working, real character, but who have just been looking for a wild guy who would charm them off there feet. I admitt I'm not that charming, but I am honest, and I don't put on a "show!" I just want someone who will love me for who I am, and love God with all there heart, and be serious, have ambitions, and not expect a really charming, and witty guy. Someone simple. Is there such a person? Because I haven't met any...I'm not saying all girls are like this, just the ones I've been involved with, and you know what they don't deserve to be with me. I'm looking for class in a woman.

2007-04-30 09:50:43 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-04-30 09:50:13 · 8 answers · asked by yvhonne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

With 1 being horrible, and 10 being fantastic. For me, it's a 0 because i'm not necessarily in an exclusive relationship at the momemnt. How about you?

*I am bored and at work with nothing to do at the moment, humor me please. lol *

2007-04-30 09:49:16 · 12 answers · asked by LibraT 4 in Singles & Dating

My best friend of 12 years is having a birthday this weekend, and also graduating from college. He's asked for money to pay of fhis loans, etc. We usually don't exchange expensive gifts, for my birthday last year I mostly got inexpensive gag gifts from him. I'm a broke college student myself, you think $25 is enough? I don't wanna look cheap, I make more money than he does but I also have a lot more expenses...

2007-04-30 09:48:16 · 9 answers · asked by wendaylou2 3 in Friends

What is the average amount you would spend on a gift for a family member or relative?

2007-04-30 09:41:17 · 30 answers · asked by curious cat 3 in Weddings

I love my girlfriend with all my heart, and I know if I get rid of her or she gets rid of me, I will be so depressed and go through a withdrawl. I don't want to go through that. I know I would find another girl to love and care and have babies and all that, but I want to do that with this girl. She's EVERYTHING I look for in a woman. I recently found her texting back and fourth with some guy talking about giving him a bj, and going over to his place. I called the guy up and said if you want to be with her man, she's yours, take her. He said no big misunderstanding, just friends joking around, and she said the same thing. But she never told me about him ever before, and she said shes known him for 10 years, he says they met 6 months ago, he said they met at a burrito stand, she said they met in college. I think she's scared to tell me things so she has a bad habit of lying. What should I do, I love her so much. I want to be with her more then anything...

2007-04-30 09:40:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-04-30 09:38:36 · 13 answers · asked by january_fowler 2 in Weddings

Any ladies getting ready to leave work gonna kick the socks and shoes off on the drive home? Anyone never tried ot and curious? I know odd question :) Thanks for the responses (in advance)

2007-04-30 09:36:53 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband lived in another state with our daughter. I gave him custody during our divorce a few years ago. I live in another state. I have tried living in the same town and he always pushes me to get back together with him and it does not work.

Now, he moved due to job reasons about 500 miles away. He keeps leaving me messages about our child basically being by herself. Her grandmother does stay with her.

My child is pushing people away and trying to fend for herself and take care of things on her own. The house is up for sale and she has to maintain it.

He is thinking of leaving his job because of the pain she is in. He left me a message that we should get back together for her sake. I don't think I can adjust to his ways.

What is my role in this? I am willing to take custody of the child if he gives it to me.

I am extrememely worried about my child. I don't know what to do.

2007-04-30 09:31:51 · 10 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-04-30 09:29:46 · 20 answers · asked by january_fowler 2 in Weddings

2007-04-30 09:23:26 · 11 answers · asked by kaycee r 1 in Weddings

Gift can be bought OR made, as far as I'm concerned.

2007-04-30 09:21:50 · 5 answers · asked by OOO! I know! I know! 5 in Weddings

yeah im just doin a survey. and i wanted to kno some ppl wont tell i kno but some ppl will.lol and if u chose to tell u can be as descriptive as u like. thankies

2007-04-30 09:20:32 · 11 answers · asked by xXxcaptainxplanetxXx 2 in Singles & Dating

If a woman says that she has been waiting all her life for u and everything is perfect, why would she need a break ? Is there such a thing as being too perfect ? all girls say they want someone to sweep them off their feet, but y is it when they get swept, they bug out - does it scare them that they been looking all their life, and now its finally in front of them ? could this also be a test to see if ur serious about being with them forever? when u look at the situation it is kind of scary to know that u met ur soulmate, but some girls handle it different - like my girl, who just called me out of no where and said she needed time for herself - this all 1 days after she told me she wants to be with me forever - married, kids, etc (we have had this conversation many times before as well) - is it possible to be that scared that u run away from a great relationship ?

2007-04-30 09:17:54 · 3 answers · asked by anthony c 1 in Singles & Dating