Family & Relationships - 1 May 2007

2007-05-01 23:58:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We broke up over a week ago. I can't help but think that it was because he thought things were moving too fast after being to gether for a year. He said he felt we were at different stages but I don't understand as I don't think we were. He sent me a card in February saying how he couldn't wait to spend many more years together? The only thing that may have freaked him was that there were lots of things for us to go too together and he was having triouble fitting them in around his work and his own pals. I had said that one of my mates think we should move in together but that I didn't, I would maybe think about it after two years but was not looking for that now. Should I email him to tell him this?

2007-05-01 23:51:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

After, he told me that he been with someone he don't even like her, but he had sex with her, I patienced waited untill they're split up, and contacted him, we got together and seemed everything will be okay, he then told me that he glad that am I back in his life, also he said that he is lucky to have me, and we will grown old together, he knows how much I cares for him and wants to be with him.
One day he let me used his computer, I got currious and explored his files, and found out he still writes letters to women he dates on-line, I confronted him, he then told me that he will take all that off and would quite all together. A month went by, I saw he didn't do what he promissed. I was hurt and went consulted with friends. When I got home he was mad at me of being home late, I told him what and where I been, the old attitured he kicked me out, I told him, I had no where to go, and cried all night, next day he went to court, sereved me the restrained order for kept him up all night.

2007-05-01 23:51:10 · 3 answers · asked by Pam 2 in Singles & Dating

i found a girl on the net (matrimony) and all prelimanaries are over, in the sense parents met each other and noe its our turn to see each other direct and decide.

2007-05-01 23:48:34 · 8 answers · asked by dan_kerala 1 in Weddings

I feel like I owe some people an apology.

They used to be so nice to me and tried so hard to be my friend and get me out of my shell but I just couldn't and I was too weak. And I feel horribly now and I need to explain some things to them.

First of all I want them to know that I'm not trying to get anything out of this or their sympathy. I want them to know that I've always loved them and the reason I never could be friends with them was because first of personal weakness and later depression. All I want is for them to understand.

How should I approach them to apologize, wait for an opening? Or actually like sit them down and tell them everything? Any suggestions are good.

2007-05-01 23:47:57 · 4 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

2007-05-01 23:46:13 · 18 answers · asked by lil 2 in Friends

At my young years she has been a total bastard..
Who charges their 7 year old kid $8.00 to play with the neighbor or any friend?
Now I'm 13....she's like 230 something lbs and all she does is hit hit hit me, I am completley fed up! At my young years she really over protected me so I can really love her...and it worked unfortanatley. Anyways, she took me out of school, so currentley I home school.
Her most commen way of hitting me is getting a sandal and slapping the hell outta me with it. Now she's punching my arm. I wanna get her outta my life but the problem is....I love her way to much because of the over protection, basicaly it was me staying with her 24/7 and that makes me not wanna leave her. I think she's a cruel horrible person. I don't know how to stop loving her. Anyways, my question is if anyone knows what I should do? She has to understand that I must get a life! Staying on a computer an not being allowed to go outside is horrible..

2007-05-01 23:43:22 · 5 answers · asked by clara b 1 in Family

to those who already separate...why still i m always meeting the wrong guy?and the same attitude end up with us?they said we can mee the right guy after the wrong ones..are you saying that after your separation...you can actually love someone else?sometimes i wonder how people can divert their feelings for someone else...what if the other person happen to be the same type...does that mean this is our fate...?which makes us only to prefer single again

2007-05-01 23:39:12 · 8 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband keeps me naked in the house,if i say anything then i am beaten up,my son tears my clothes in front of his friends,ties me up and his friends play on me.what do i do ?if i say anything then i am beaten up mercilessly

2007-05-01 23:38:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-01 23:38:09 · 7 answers · asked by canrog2007 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 and a virgin and my boyfriend isn't, i'm also worried that i won't measue up to his past girlfriends who have all been experienced!

2007-05-01 23:35:43 · 35 answers · asked by Girl Confused 1 in Singles & Dating

hiya when me and my boyfriend have sex when he ejaculates his sperm is very watery and not thick and white why is this ??
how can he improve it to make it thick and white ? as he wud like to no aswell ?
he is 26 years old ?
thanxs xx

2007-05-01 23:32:06 · 23 answers · asked by sara2007 1 in Singles & Dating

It has just come to my attention, that my boyfriend of nearly 6 years has had several relationships behind my back in the time we have been together. I believe they involved sexual relations. He denys it all, but a woman always knows. One of the "flings" involved him traveling on a plane. In the meantime, I've been completely supportive of him and faithful. I thought he was the one. The last of these 2 secret relationships I learned about ended about 6 months ago. Since then he really does seem to be completely with me. I finally really feel loved by him. But now I've found out about this past. I still love him, but he won't even admit it. What do I do?

2007-05-01 23:31:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you fail in your marriage,and you felt hopeless as your friends have a happy family as not you...your friends would ask why ?and they dont seem understand....do you feel ashame of yourself as you cant make a good family...compared to your friends?like maybe a loser...and sometimes you think why dont i be like them?what can we do?also your friends and other people would talk behind your back saying "look at her she cant manage .....her life"what a pity women"

2007-05-01 23:30:09 · 9 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

person always hurt others feelings by making fun

2007-05-01 23:29:21 · 11 answers · asked by madiha s 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and my boyfriend were going great, thinkin of marraige etc, and then suddenly out of the blue he tells me he doesnt love me anymore,so i made this whole special dinner, writing him a poem and asked him back and he said yes. three days went by, we didnt even kiss! so after a while i dumped him and told him that he's obviously happier without me so i would put his feelings first, letting him rather be happy than me. it has been a week now, we live in the same house, luckaly i have my own room, and now, yesterday, we fooled around a bit. i was extremely happy, cuz i want him so much, and afterwards i was in tears again, cuz we still aint together. he told me he's sorry it happend cuz he doesnt wana hurt me anymore than he already did, and then, last nite, it happend again. I want him so badly and i cant reject him. is he only using me or do u think somewhere deep inside he still loves me? the reason we not together, is because he only loves me as a friend. im not so sure if thats true.

2007-05-01 23:29:08 · 9 answers · asked by emmasand 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 23:21:25 · 16 answers · asked by ambidextrous25 3 in Singles & Dating

The man who I like has got no money, property or high social status, and may lose his job after marriage... ...However, he is a very kind, caring young man.

He proposed recently.. Should I marry him?

2007-05-01 23:21:25 · 30 answers · asked by xiao x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

me15yrs old,me n a guy were goin out for around a year..we were lyk crazy abt each oder..but were a very immature couple and used to fight on silly issues..later i dumped him! but still he asked me later whether could we be frnds...i agreed! now a year has passed..and i still have a soft corner for him and so does he..! one of our common frnd told me that she still feels that i and him still like each other..! i dont know if i wana go back to him..i dont know if iam ready to take this step..my frnd tells me he has improved..and everything..and wont repeat the same mistakes he made in the past..even i feel so as im his frnd..n i could see the change! but still what should i do ? ..please helpp..!!

2007-05-01 23:17:39 · 7 answers · asked by anonymous 17 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-01 23:13:25 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im a chinese and want to marry with a foreign woman or girl.just so curious.

2007-05-01 23:12:42 · 6 answers · asked by allenjimjia 1 in Singles & Dating

We been together for 16yrs and seperated for a year. My ex sometimes makes me feel guilty about our problems and tells me that i need to get help. She is the one living with a loser ex boyfriend that has a part time job and can't pay there bills. She was even jealous of my girlfriend and told me what am i'm doing you have 2 daughters (they live with me). So I broke it off with her because I thought she wanted to work things out but now it seems that my ex only comes around when she needs money or something. I can't understand why she would choose to still be so shelfish and stubborn and not try to work thing out. So how can I show her you need to make up your mind because I need closure and to move on. I don't want to be the bad guy and my kids are hurting for her. I feel bad because i'm the one that kick her out. I got tired of the bs and cheating. I still love her and want her back. I look into my daughters eyes and all I see is my ex. I know my ex is hurting also what do I do.

2007-05-01 23:12:34 · 5 answers · asked by jadden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me what is that one thing without which a honey moon is incomplete. That thing must be special and must mean something.

Please justify your answers

2007-05-01 23:12:15 · 10 answers · asked by Gunnery Sargent 2 in Weddings

if hottest person came up to you and wanted to have sex with you .would you go for it

2007-05-01 23:11:05 · 5 answers · asked by Debby B 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

it happen like ,i have a long time friend since i was in college we used to share our screts until todate.But resentry she has betrayed me i dont know of what to do am confused because i love her so much.

2007-05-01 23:09:59 · 17 answers · asked by B K 1 in Friends

2007-05-01 23:09:59 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-01 23:08:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

if someone says this.. what would they mean?.. i mean, how would you define the difference in them?

2007-05-01 23:08:10 · 9 answers · asked by - BIANCA; 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has lied to me on many occassions he drinks with his mates and denies it also he will make excuses that he is working late and will infact go out with his mates, how do i deal with this situation?

2007-05-01 23:07:48 · 13 answers · asked by syk786 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-01 23:04:00 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family