why men wont marry you ?

Answer 1

Actually, I'm sure a lot of men would marry me, but there is only one I want.

Why won't men marry you? Again, is it this inability to communicate? English lessons, NOW!

Answer 2

Well, you are divorced just like he is. Do you really want to get married again? If he says he loves you and treats you right, what's the big deal. Why do women think marriage is always the answer to being happy? You can have a wonderful, monagomus relationship without being married and be happy. And if 10 or 20 years down the road, things don't work out, you can go your seperate ways without going through a painful divorce. You were in love for your first marriage, and you took vows thinking that it was forever, but guess what, it wasn't, was it? Same with him, he was married before also, and he thought it was forever, but , it wasn't. I have been married for 18 years, and if, God forbid, it ended, I would never get married again. NO WAY.

Answer 3

Why some men won't marry is how you should have phrased your question. Now to answer it.

1.Not emotionally secure about themselves.
2.Afraid of commitment
3.Afraid to lose their freedom
4.Have read or heard of the divorce statistics
5.Afraid of resposibility, ( supporting wife, and children both emotionally, and financially)

6.They would rather have their cake and eat it too. (Their are many women who will live together with a man, and that avoids all of the above first 5 itemized reasons.

I am sure ther are other reasons, as each person is an individual.

Answer 4

I understand what you mean honey! They are so scared of the 'lawful' commitment that marriage brings to a relationship. They also like to feel 'free', which is the opportunity to walk out of your life when they feel like it, without any repurcussions. If your man doesnt want to marry you, he doesnt understand commitment and he obviously doesnt respect you enough. Ask yourself the question: If he really loved you then marriage wouldnt be a problem would it? Sit him down and confront him with your concern - he'll spell it out loud and clear if he's honest enough, and you'll have your answer.
Good luck

Answer 5

I love my gf more than I've ever loved (this is for the girl who said he doesn't love you).
Very early in the relashionship, I told her I would never get married again and she told me she would never live with someone again.... And I said the same, and really I meant it...But little by little, naturally, a light relationship become more serious... She's now living in my place with her kids and mines.... And we are both very happy. So we changed our minds about living together, right ?
I still didn't change my mind about marriage... BUT... In the future, who knows ? That's what I think at the moment... Which is huge already...
I sum up : let things go naturally. You never have to act in emergency if something is really important.
If you hadn't learnt to be patient before, start today.

Answer 6

Actually I am married, but I think I hv lots of single friends and they are great but nobody come to marry them because they are though and working like men from early in the morning till evening. These girls don't look after their beauty and body at all.

Answer 7

Its because a man always thinks that there might be someone else that is better out there. So i have noticed in my friends that at the most they will get engaged and wait as long as they can to get married just thinking there's going to be someone else.

Answer 8

I haven't had that problem. I'm married. But usually a man won't marry you for these reasons: he is afraid of commitment, he is afraid of commitment with YOU, he doesn't think you're the one.

Answer 9

I really cannot answer that because
a) Im married so a man did ask me and
b) I dont really know you or your circumsatnces (there is very little info as to why you are asking this question)

Answer 10

lets just say if a man wanted to marry me...he would have to be insane. First off i like to fight more than i like being friendly, also im celibate. i dont know any man who would marry a woman who wouldnt have sex with him.