The man who I like has got no money, property or high social status, and may lose his job after marriage... ...However, he is a very kind, caring young man.
He proposed recently.. Should I marry him?
2007-05-01 23:21:25 · 30 answers · asked by xiao x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
In life property, money, social status are all conceptual things. They are all relative to who you ask and where the person lives. The worst part is that they are only temporary.
If you believe he can make you happy, then go ahead. Only you should search your feelings, to determine if you love him for what he can do for you and who he is now, or if you love him for what he has it in his heart to be.
I believe you should only enter marriage if you love someone.truly and honestly. There are no dollar signs attached to love, quality of life is determined by the individual. If you are happy in a mud hole then be happy. In the end the man or woman who lives atop the hill and the one who lives in the valley will meet the same fate.
2007-05-01 23:39:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jorge G 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Should you marry, The man who you like?
You have to be an immature baby to ask that question?
I'll start by writing that you don't even know what marriage is! You don't even know what love is? You don't have any reason to even consider going near those two subjects.
After reading your question, I can predict your future. If you get married, your going to get a divorce shortly thereafter and then you'll be a single mother, alone with your child, not one dollar to support anything, because he already didn't have a job, but he's gone! He just stood up, decided he had enough and then he went to do that to another woman.
You don't get married unless you are in LOVE and want to spend the rest of your lives together. Then you get pregnant when your in your late 20's, early 30's.
Slow the hell down. What is the rush? If you wait and enjoy life, then you will know when the right guy comes along to sweep you off your feet and believe me, it's worth the wait. You could have the best life.
2007-05-02 06:51:26 · answer #2 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you truly love this man then the money wont matter as money cant buy love and as for work I'm sure he can get another one. To many employers nowadays want grades for this and grades for that and they forget that sometimes the person may not have the grades but are capable of doing the job they should go on the persons ability to do the job and not what grades they have and give people a chance and yous can always save for a place but if u do love him don't let this put you off as real true love is hard to find in this day and age good luck
2007-05-02 06:30:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give your self some time before making any big decisions and give him some time to show what his working habits will be in the future. Don't judge him by his financial situations is no problem that he has no money the problem is if he fail to make the money. He will show after while what he is made of TIME just give it at least two years, and if he is still working then the man likes to work and then you can go ahead with your marriage plans.. Good luck.
2007-05-02 07:43:10 · answer #4 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know. Are you looking to marry for love or money. I married a poor man for love and we are richer than most. We have had our tough times, but we are always there for each other. We are now a lot more financially secure. If you don't think you can love him through the hard times with little money or property, let him go to find a girl who will love him the way he is.
2007-05-02 06:45:59 · answer #5 · answered by cutie322434 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, for several reasons.
1) You have ask a bunch of strangers who know nothing of him or your relationship.
2) You are making money the main factor of marriage. It helps, but its not near everything.
3) You mentioned nothing of how he feels about you or you feel about him, or anything to do with your relationship with him. All we know is he is some random guy who has a wonderful personality and no money. Your love for one another cant be that important if you dont mention how you feel about one another.
2007-05-02 07:41:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you have to ask on Yahoo, then no. Honestly....though kind and caring seem like very nice virtues, what else does he have to offer to a marriage? You don't say you love him, do you know how he feels about children, the church, how does he plan to support a family? Marriage isn't dating.
2007-05-02 06:43:53 · answer #7 · answered by dawnb 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Money can buy you a house but not a home.
Money can buy you a watch but not time.
Money can buy you everything but can not buy happiness.
Money is not the most important thing in life, yes maybe it will be difficult in the beginning but if both of you are prepared to work hard and save up I see no problem.....
Love is the most important thing in the world..
2007-05-02 06:35:23 · answer #8 · answered by Ladybird 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. It doesnt matter if he doesn't have any money or what ever. If he is a good and caring man the you should marry him. If he is a mean person then dont
2007-05-02 06:28:24 · answer #9 · answered by salmanhead 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Being kind and caring is good, but if he lacks motivation or if he can't support you or himself well, then it will be a burden more than a blessing and might end up in divorce. My older sister ended up like that. But If you really do love him and if you think those qualities will help him and if he's motivated, then go for it.
2007-05-02 06:25:27 · answer #10 · answered by Brian 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋