Family & Relationships - 5 May 2007

Has anyone been in this situation before? He's been married before (divorced 4 years) and has a 6yoa child. We've been together for almost 2 years and love each other very much but now he's saying that he can't give me what I want (a marriage and children). He said that he doesn't want to waste my time so i'm going to move out. I don't want to leave him and he says that he wants to be with me. I'm lost and don't know what to do. He said that he doesn't know when he'll be ready to commit again and wants me to go out with others to see if I can find someone that is ready. If you've been in this situation, let me know what you did and should I stay with him or leave???? Help me please!

2007-05-05 23:59:42 · 11 answers · asked by sunshine91105 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-05 23:57:49 · 13 answers · asked by Sahra 4 in Family

my wife had our child 2 years ago and ever since she doesnt want to have sex any more . is thereany females out there in the inland empire that can help me out?

2007-05-05 23:55:43 · 8 answers · asked by phillip s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I keep having a dream that my spouse is cheating on me, although I trust my spouse and I know that they would never cheat on I keep having the same dream and it makes me upset. It also makes me think that something is going on whenever my spouse talks about people she has met. I know I'm being stupid thus what can I do to stop the dreams and feel secure in my relationship? before I met my wife my last girlfriend cheated on me and I dremt about it before it happened thus this is why I am worried.

2007-05-05 23:55:31 · 7 answers · asked by lisa s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok I met this guy a week ago and we hit off straight away!! He was honest with me from day 1 but the problem is he was only visiting our town on business and he went back home yesterday! He asked me if I would go with him and now im torn in 2 my heart tells me to go but my brain says stay as he lives 1800 km away from me! Look I have been in love before but this is different I have been crying my eyes out since he left!!! What should I do?

2007-05-05 23:38:39 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

can someone tell me how to find out bf new email addy and password please i need proof of his cheating before i confront him

2007-05-05 23:34:29 · 5 answers · asked by wendy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi everybody,

I have had a girlfriend for 5 years, a little different way of relationship, is a widow and has 2 children . All my family were against the relation. Specially because I am the eldest child in family with high education and so .... !!! I love her character, like her appearance and doubtful about the effect of children and the difference of education level in our life ( we didnt live together, just met ), tired of blames of family .....

I feel the best thing for both of us is to find another partner who is more appropriate with less ifs and buts. However she doesnt what this and wants to resist against all the odds ! It is 2.5 years that I am abroad and we only had tel conversation , she rings EVERYDAY !

How should i break up the relation in a way that not to hurt her kind heart, with minimal suffering, please help me.

p.s. Also being abroad for long time i need to have a relation and dont want to cheat.

Many tax

2007-05-05 23:18:13 · 14 answers · asked by M R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

who likes to throw the fact of an ex (whos been past for YEARS) that was apparently more approved of....and is constantly saying hurtful things to you and hurting her son too, who would only like to forget about the past? I dont want to ask him to stay AWAY from his own family but I cant take this...!

2007-05-05 23:13:51 · 14 answers · asked by . 3 in Family

watch it with my husband or not

2007-05-05 23:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Everyday of my married life, I have had to turn the other cheek! WELL now its just one BIG BRUISE!!!

2007-05-05 23:13:17 · 4 answers · asked by momzrckz 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Someone they could punk around or do they like leaders, someone other people follow, someone who guides people in a good way? Do they find a pushover until they can find someone better? Explain please :)

2007-05-05 23:09:11 · 12 answers · asked by I MISS YOU! 1 in Singles & Dating

She wears transparent saree and blouse.I want someone to touch her also while she is in crowd or in bus.it is an erotic feeling. why am i getting such an excitement?

2007-05-05 23:07:39 · 20 answers · asked by Varsha N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been married to my husband for 9 years now. I'm currently 28. Marriage had been generally good but over the course of our time together, our "flame" had been slowly diminishing. My husband is a good man, but I'm no longer in love with him and am not sexually interested in him any more... This as a back drop, I recently started having an affair with my 1st-cousin. Growing up, my cousin and I were very close and we previously had serious intimate/sexual relationship on and off for several years in my teen years before meeting my husband. My cousin is single and he tells me he that he has always loved me and he wants to be with me (first cousin marriage is legal where I live). I have never loved another guy as much as I love him (never even felt this way about my husband even in the beginning of our relationship), and want to start a family with him. I'm not sure what to do...I really don't want to hurt my husband but I also can't live like this either. We have no kids.

2007-05-05 23:07:12 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Every time I have sex with my husband I get frustrated and depressed because he doesn't turn me on I can't climax. The most embarassing part is I have to fantasize about other men and mastubate and i felt sick having to do that. Help!!

2007-05-05 23:07:10 · 3 answers · asked by salina 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boss is so HOt and she likes me, but non of us is willing to take the initiative, since our relationship is complecated as an employee and an employer. Any advices?

2007-05-05 23:02:58 · 11 answers · asked by majjud 1 in Singles & Dating

You are in a good relationship and all is well but someone from your lovers life is close friends with an ex.... and tries to constantly throw this person in your face...? And then your most non-confrontational lover refuses to stick up for you? HELP me I want to pull out my hair.

2007-05-05 22:59:19 · 5 answers · asked by . 3 in Singles & Dating

How can American husbands tolerate their wives?

In Indian culture the wife is very loyal/faithful/submissive to her husband. If my wife acted like an American woman I'd end my life, how can men in the US tolerate their wives. They dont do anything for them but expect their husbands to do everything for them. why are american women so selfish?

2007-05-05 22:58:09 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

she practically ruined my lyf along wit my reputation

2007-05-05 22:54:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a problem my wife refuses to be submissive to me, in India culture it is very important for the wife to take care of her husband. But she refuses to cook for me, what do I do? Is physical action the answer or do I just threaten...Do american men do it too?

2007-05-05 22:34:48 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and few friends plan on going snog hunting tonight. who wants to come? Also we will be trying to catch the elusive "Muffin Top". So don't forget your mufin tins, bags, and sticks.

Mmmmm.. Muffin Tops sound so Delicious right now.

2007-05-05 22:06:23 · 4 answers · asked by Scottie"T" 5 in Singles & Dating

if you met someone in chatroom and gotten to talking to them. then you felt it was ok give them your phone number. then if you not home they leave message guess you don't want to talk to me again. i guess you found someone. then they callback crying saying things like they wished they was dead. we never met person we live 3000 miles apart. we talked few times but i never lead her on . i told her i wasn't looking for anything right now. it started off she was having pc problems i was trying help her fix it. then she kept saying to me be better if we talked on phone. i can't change my number cause i have to much going on. what would you do?

2007-05-05 21:56:17 · 7 answers · asked by Skitter 5 in Friends

to keep her from cheating?

I have come to realize that for a woman, sex is like a drug and if they don't get it enough they'll pull that whole "I love you but not in love with you" line so that they can get a different member rammed into their meat grinder.

In other words, the URGE to BREED will override a woman if she doesn't get it enough.

So what is a good frequency?

2007-05-05 21:45:08 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

well...i'm kinda good with girls...how to atract gals and such...nice phisich...so on and so on...now...a curious thing just happened to me with a particular girl. I got her number(she lives in a nearby town...4km away) and i went to see her...of course. Shes how u call brains and beauty tipe of girl. So every date we kiss, cundle...the hole 9 yard...and when i get distant from her...she gets close to me and grabs my hand...nothing surprising here:p. The thing that i find curious is that when i want to take her to my town (i dont buy dinner...so u know...) she refuses...says she doesnt like bars and particulary my town...she only wants to meet in her town...in a spot where few to none poeple walk...i know its intimate and such...but it just puzzles me, i asked her about it but she just starred at me with a nice smile and held my hand...everytime i possed the question(twice till now), need some advice, thanks in advance

2007-05-05 21:44:02 · 2 answers · asked by brainyack 1 in Singles & Dating

For some reason he wants to fight me, I dont know why. Anyhow, im bigger than him and stronger so im not really afraid of him, But he has more experience. Should I start the fight(sucker punch him) or let him star it?

2007-05-05 21:31:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Often it it has been observed married people stares to opposite sex.

2007-05-05 20:56:30 · 9 answers · asked by Josh 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my brother is 23 and he lives away from home. since he's been gone he has made a whole bunch of new friends who i like to describe as the 'wrong crowd'. don't get me wrong, they are lovely people, when they are sober. they drink wayyyy too much, and way too often, they're into recreational drugs (which i assumed was just pot) and they are just simply very dependant on alcohol and probably drugs to have a good time.

my brother seems to really love his new lifestyle. i was starting to accept that my brother is a piss head when last night i found out he's getting into more serious drugs like cocaine. this has completely thrown me off. i don't know what to say to him or if i should even get involved. i'm his little sister i don't feel like i have the right to tell him what to do, but it's just so awful to see my brother do this. especially me because i don't drink and i stay away from all drugs (i'm 20 by the way) and i just can't watch my brother get addicted to this trash.
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2007-05-05 20:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-05 20:49:49 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Same partner the whole time. Would you consider it normal, or enough to have it 3 times a week? Would you consider that the other person was failing to keep their end of the marriage contract if you didn't feel it was enough. The other partner is good with money and faithful and loving in all other ways, this is the only problem.

2007-05-05 20:47:37 · 8 answers · asked by Barb Outhere 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been knowing my friend for 7 years. I think he wants to go to bed with me cause he wants to meet me in places were there is no one. we both r mormons and cannot do this things....we have abstained from sex and decided to wait until marriage all our lives....we have very intense arguments and each other accuses the other of being in love with each other.
there is A lot of tension between us now, cause maybe he might be sexually repressed.....and sometimes i feel pressured by him b/c i dont wanna lose his friendship and feel like i must do what he wants. it confuses me because my church says that respectable girls dont go out having sex with their friends and if u like the guy and u go to bed with him, he will not love u and respect u...but only use u for that moment...
i def dont want that.....i feel like he is now lookin 4 satisfaction elsewhere, while im here fighting my hardest not to give in...he is frustrated w/ me and hates talking to me now, is my friendship dead?

2007-05-05 20:38:13 · 11 answers · asked by prettyinpink i 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 20:27:26 · 11 answers · asked by amee 2 in Singles & Dating