Family & Relationships - 5 May 2007

if some one loves you so much if they break on you how you gonna treat them?

2007-05-05 16:28:13 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

read past questions first. today they woke me up and someone came over and they said they were going to do something about my voice they made me gargal and drink stuff for hours now i sound girly. i also had to play tennis again they say my girl form is coming along nicely and soon it will be permanate. i am trying to stay calm but now i have long air makeup dresses a girly body a girly voice and i play tennis in a girls league in a white dress what should i do

2007-05-05 16:18:03 · 7 answers · asked by cubegod666 1 in Family

My friends are fighting one doesn't want to be friends any more and the other one doesn't want to let go of a good friend

2007-05-05 16:17:58 · 22 answers · asked by lovlov1414 2 in Friends

There is a really hot 8th grader who also thinks i'm hott too. but what do i say to him? he wants to go out with me, but i hardly know him. he tells his friends i'm hott, but when i try to talk to him, i can't even look him in the eye to see him. i guess i'm just too shy to actually talk with him. So.......... WHAT DO I DO?help me i'm desparate 4 an answer!!

2007-05-05 16:12:39 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Stupid, stupid, unreliable boy. I need him and he's not there. I hate him, but I love him. He makes me hurt so much psychologically that it starts to hurt physically. He drives me insane, especially when he doesn't (I know this sounds so cliche) text me back. And I hate him for this. But when he does talk to me, he gives me something to hope for- being with him. And I love him for that. He tortures me like this constantly. Maybe he knows he's doing it, maybe he doesn't. But one thing's for sure: I have no idea what's going on with me. Please, anyone, help me. Am I going crazy?

-xcaseys.songx

2007-05-05 16:12:29 · 14 answers · asked by xcaseys.songx 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband very much and know that he is in love with me. He tells me every day how beautiful I am. I was having a big problem with getting help from him financially and found myself paying all of the bills. He has medical problems that affect his ability to work a strenuous job. I finally told him to help or leave. That he needed to get his %*$& straight and figure out his priorities. This is both of our 2nd marriages. I don't want to give up on someone that I know loves me. He had withdrawn and become unavailable to me. He says he's insecure and is scared of losing me. SO PULL AWAY? Does this make sense at all? Well since threatening to end things, he's improved. Yesterday he gave me $100 towards bills and the day before he gave me money also. Was it right to pull the b**** card??? Is he going to continue to improve or is this just temporary. I usually see these things coming a mile away, but this time I'm blinded.

2007-05-05 16:09:48 · 7 answers · asked by pcchocoholic 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my good friend (a girl whom I have feelings for) have been friends for a bit now. When I first met her, she had a boyfriend and she said she didn't like to talk about her personal life too much. The closer of friends we became, the more she opened up to me. When she presented a problem, I would always give her my best advice and she seemed really happy after. Recently she broke up with her boyfriend and admitted she had feelings for me. I never told her I had feelings for her, but she knows I do. We used to talk about anything, one subject to the next, but after telling me she has feelings for me, our conversations have been really awkward. There will be a lot of awkward silences and either of us wont have anything to say. Does she feel weird around me, or does this normally happen?

2007-05-05 16:03:05 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone I know told me do "Die in a fire" on IM messenger. This person has some temper issues and I wouldn't be surprised if he did it, set my house on fire. Should i take this serious? or let it blow over? We were arguing pretty bad.

2007-05-05 16:00:15 · 19 answers · asked by comicalhazard 2 in Friends

i know he loves me, shows me in many ways, but he won't kiss me, even just a peck on the lips....when i asked him why he mumbled something about germs.......not sure i buy that it is getting quite frustrating, i wanna be kissed!!!

2007-05-05 15:57:44 · 8 answers · asked by impatientmomma 1 in Marriage & Divorce

theres this boy that i like and he's always really nice to me. but there are these times when he just like sits down and puts his head in his arms.. its kinda weird but w/e! and it always seems like hes crying or hes sad or something... but when i ask him what wrong he says something like "can you just shut up for a second?!?!" or "be quiet!! just shut up for a little okay?!?!??!!?!?" and then just sits there and then gets up and walks away...

it always makes me feel really guilty.
does anybody know why he does that or if its like a sign or something??

thanks :]

2007-05-05 15:57:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

love

2007-05-05 15:57:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I feel lucky in that regard. Now that my state is offering civil union we're considering doing something to make it official. Now keep in mind before we even brought it up to family the family and friends have all brought it up to us, that they look forward to a good party. Now the conundrum, at the present time we are trying really hard to get a business off the ground and its killing me financially. I've been supporting him for over a year and the business in just barely maybe starting to make a profit. I was the the chief financial contributor to getting it started and no one knows that except the two of us. I'm concerned that throwing a party at this point would put me back substantially. But they keep pushing us to do it. I wanted to when it was just us, but now I'm getting really ticked off that they expect so much, and, get this, true stuff, since we've been together so long they even have it planned with no gifts. Am I'm in the twighlight zone? Gay couple, I'm 44, he's 50.

2007-05-05 15:54:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My best friend has been really, really rude to me lately, and I dont know what wrong. I cant ask herm because she will say "nothing." It all started three weeks ago when she came over to my house for a sleepover, and we were talking about this guy we both like, lets call him bob. Now Bob talks to her alot, but he talks to me too. She says IM a freak, Im gothic, and all those rude comments.(im not gothic by the way) She asks me if I get jealous when she talks to him, and I say no, and I ask her is she gets jeakous when I talk to bob, and she says no, but you can tell she is. Then she blabbed that I liked him to our guy friend. I dont know whats wrong with her. What should I say to her? She is really hurting my feelings. I asked her to ask Bob if he cared if I had his e-mail and he said he didn't, but know I wonder what he actually said. I was sick that day, so I dont know. I dont think I should believe her. What should I do? Is she jealous?

2007-05-05 15:50:04 · 3 answers · asked by --- 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

No matter the extent of the relationship or what I may want. Don't they deserve the respect for me to talk to them? And is asking here a disrespect to my trust in them?

2007-05-05 15:49:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 15:45:06 · 14 answers · asked by Matthew H 1 in Singles & Dating

well, there is the f*cking ugly girl in my geo class who sits right next to me. i know she likes me, she tries to hide it, but is too stupid to see that i can see her looking at me. so on friday, she asked me out...i was angry that she could even ask me that question, since she should be able to tell she is the ugliest girl in the world. so i said to her "get a f*cking life, i never liked you, i never will like you, and you will never have a date, a boyfriend, or a husband forever, everyone in school f*cking hates you, we all wish you would just die". am i a jerk for saying this?

2007-05-05 15:37:15 · 9 answers · asked by ITALLIAN STALLION 2 in Friends

February-March.. I heard someone scream no one heard it but me. Asked my mom and sister but they said its not them. Then voices keep whispering on me something I could not understand. I heard a crying late around the house at night and Im scared to death because of the abnormalities Im experiencing and I did not go to the source because I do not want to meet a banshee. I heard a scream again one week after the incident and a voice of woman shouting "wake up!" in the morning. Then three weeks later another scream. and it all stopped I shrugged it off because it could be result of extensive studying. Now I just found out now that my mom has leukemia. She is a 5 year breast cancer survivor and we discovered it after my mom started having weak legs and swollen mouth and bleeding nose. I hope to God that Im just schizophrenic I dont want any on my family to die. Is it all just my imagination? I heard that banshee only visits certain family but my mom is 1/4 spanish plz help.

2007-05-05 15:30:54 · 8 answers · asked by o_olikeomg 1 in Family

2007-05-05 15:27:11 · 11 answers · asked by Blondie_n_TN 2 in Weddings

My wife wants a dog. We have been married for almost 7 years and she continually brings up this sore subject with me.

I am EXTREMELY allergic to dogs. Even these dogs that friends and family have that are supposedly "hypo-allergenic" tend to bother me when I am around them for more than an hour or so. I itch, I break out in hives, and I have trouble breathing. It's a problem I have had since childhood and was even an issue for me when I took allergy shots. As an adult it has simply continued to get worse.

We have a TINY yard and I am not one who wants to tie a dog to live outside for thier entire life. Our kids are all in school and my wife and I both work during the day, so I know an inside dog would be left alone for hours on end and would most likely relieve themselves all over our house while we are gone.

However, it still gets brought up every few months and I get blamed for being the "bad guy".

Am I being unreasonable here?

I would appreciate some advice.

2007-05-05 15:14:25 · 25 answers · asked by todvango 6 in Marriage & Divorce

This one is self explanitory

2007-05-05 15:11:42 · 21 answers · asked by Me 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a leo woman and dated a Cancer man for two years and i have to ask is why in the HELL are they so damn moody and not know! He made me feel like i was crazy when i would say how he was treating me and he would get so defensive!!!! I've never met someone who was moody, not romantic, not affectionate, boring in my life. I mean he is sweet and nice but it's when HE wants to be. We broke up a couple of weeks ago because of this and it wasn't my intentions I was just venting and NOW he wont return any of my calls because he is angry. I don't understand because when will get into arguments he is the coldess person ever saying very harsh things to me. Right now he is ignoring me as if he found me cheating or i bashed his window in or something. Cancer men are very weird to me. I wanted us to work it out MAYBE or at least be cool with each other but he's ignoring me. Do cancer men hold anger this long for real????

2007-05-05 14:59:46 · 19 answers · asked by mizunderstood 2 in Singles & Dating

we have been together over 2 years, we have been through a lot, and we fighted and hurt each other too much, so 2 days ago I broke up with my bf, he was very pissed off, he said ok we should both move on now.
Yesterday I saw him on a dating website, when we were together, he suspended that account, yesterday I thought he might be there, so I looked up and I did find him there. The moment I saw his name on the screen, it hurt like hell. I love him very much, I cant accept that he is acting so fast, I cant accept he would hold another woman in arms instead of me. I couldnt help to call him, he turned the phone off when he knew it was me. So the whole night I couldnt sleep at all, I sent him lots of messages, I was like crazy...

2007-05-05 14:55:54 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

not the kind of crying when she/he is dumped but while still in the heat of love, do people cry as some sort of way to express their love?

2007-05-05 14:55:08 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend and i have had a weekend-er scheduled for about a month, but she just called me and told me she was lesbian. i told her i respected her decision, but now i am nervous for next weekend. i'm not sure who the girl of her affection is, and if it is me, i definitely would not want to spend a week of hanging out and sleep-overs with her... help!

2007-05-05 14:44:51 · 11 answers · asked by mexicanbanana22 1 in Friends

okay my name is nikole but i like to go by nikki. i like it better but some guys have told me nikole is hotter. what is the difference?

2007-05-05 14:41:13 · 4 answers · asked by Nikki 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm talking about would you date a girl that was 185lbs but had the greatest personality or would you date a super hot girl knowing that she was dumber than a dirt. I need some answers because I'm doing a paper on this for psy class!

2007-05-05 14:35:14 · 18 answers · asked by Surrendersavedmylife 2 in Singles & Dating

She seems to find something wrong with every guy. She has dated some really nice guys, but I know she is young. I just hope she is not setting a pattern for herself for life.

2007-05-05 14:31:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 14:31:38 · 4 answers · asked by Madmen22 1 in Singles & Dating

Usually during proposals, you expect a yes answer. But what happens when your sweetheart says no?

2007-05-05 14:29:48 · 39 answers · asked by ravensfan172003 3 in Weddings

okay... well theres this guy corey and hes really funny and cute and i want to ask him out and he found out i liked him and the word has gone around that he would say no if i asked him out but i always see him talking in privite to this 1 guy matt and i think he is debating on wether to say yes or no and stuff like that and he said he didnt like anyone soooo should i ask him out or look around for sum 1 else?? help need answers quickly

2007-05-05 14:29:12 · 12 answers · asked by chrissy 1 in Singles & Dating