My friends are fighting one doesn't want to be friends any more and the other one doesn't want to let go of a good friend
2007-05-05 16:17:58 · 22 answers · asked by lovlov1414 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
dont do anything, let them solve their own problems.
2007-05-05 16:20:19 · answer #1 · answered by koko 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get yourself out of the middle by removing yourself from the situation. I don't know what the fight is about and it is irrevelent, but if you were part of the start, instigating, or anything....I can understand....but if you did not have a part in the start of the fight or keeping it going, then do not worry about it. I know you love your friends, but remember, you cannot miss a friend you really never had. I know it hurts right now, but if the friendship is meant to be on either side, time will heal wounds. GET YOURSELF OUT....stop calling and supporting either side of the argument. JUST LAY LOW for a while..keep busy and PRAY. GOD can work miracles...
2007-05-05 16:26:49 · answer #2 · answered by L B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore them until they get over it. Tell them that if they are going to be fighting, you don't want to be in the middle of the problem. Tell them to work it out and become friends again.
2007-05-05 16:21:15 · answer #3 · answered by Jordan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Been there, done that. Just sit them down and all of you calmly talk to each other and tell them that you aren't going to in the middle of the arguement. If they have a problem with the other take it to them, don't bring it to you. Tell them how unfair it is that they are bringing it to you, instead of each other. Your friends aren't being fair to you if they are putting you in the middle, and especially if they are trying to make you decide between them (which they will occasionally do). Good luck.
2007-05-05 16:22:40 · answer #4 · answered by pixeydust77 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You get out of the middle by being on the outside. Let them settle there differences
2007-05-05 16:20:49 · answer #5 · answered by Cinnamon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Refuse to get in the middle of it.
Just be yourself and tell them you're not a part of what they're fighting about and you wish they'd just get over it.
2007-05-05 16:20:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's tough cuz sometimes you can get caught up in it just by listening and not saying a word; human nature I guess. I'd just tell em "I like you both, it's your deal so you guys work it out but I'm not taking sides" and stick to that.
2007-05-05 16:22:12 · answer #7 · answered by classic1957gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple. Just stay out of their way until they are done. There must be somebody else for you to hang around with. Make some new friends.
2007-05-05 16:33:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell them you're staying out of it. Let them both know that it's unfair to pick sides and that they should fight their own battles.
2007-05-05 16:21:11 · answer #9 · answered by Agent319.007 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay out of it,Just let them fuss it out so you dont get hurt. thats the best! I know you try to be a good friend,but a good friend would stay out of it so no one gets hurt. Good Luck! =]
2007-05-05 16:20:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Miss Nikiti♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
REFUSE to discuss either of them with the other at all costs. Simply say - "you need to talk to - - - about that, I don't know", then quickly change the subject. If either of them gets mad, it will only be for a second or two - eventually they will understand.
2007-05-05 16:22:51 · answer #11 · answered by BikerChick 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋