Stupid, stupid, unreliable boy. I need him and he's not there. I hate him, but I love him. He makes me hurt so much psychologically that it starts to hurt physically. He drives me insane, especially when he doesn't (I know this sounds so cliche) text me back. And I hate him for this. But when he does talk to me, he gives me something to hope for- being with him. And I love him for that. He tortures me like this constantly. Maybe he knows he's doing it, maybe he doesn't. But one thing's for sure: I have no idea what's going on with me. Please, anyone, help me. Am I going crazy?
-xcaseys.songx
2007-05-05 16:12:29 · 14 answers · asked by xcaseys.songx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I dont know about you going crazy, but it does sound like your worrying too much about little things. Make sure your not being to clingy because maybe he isnt answering you all the time because your doing it too much, or maybe he is just doing something else, and isnt sitting there paying full attention, but really it dont sound like its something to stress over, and if you really arent sure if hes purposely trying to get to you like this then talk to him, and tell him that it makes you feel unsure about things between you two when he dont answer back to you, etc. Dont yell, or sound really upset, just let him know that your curious why he dont get back to you.. Guys just dont look at that kind of stuff like girls, and dont worry about it as much as we do, they dont see anything wrong with not getting back to you right away, etc.. He probibly dont even mean anything by it, and just is busy with other things when he does that. Guys dont know what to say about somethings also like when we are upset so they just stay quiet to not make things worse, and not realizing that its bothers us when they do that, but really dont worry about it, and just relax more.. if you stress it too much your going to push him away. Its just not being sure what hes up to, or what hes thinking thats getting to you.. Guys need thier space sometimes, and you shouldnt take it personally. Your not going crazy even though it may seem like that.
2007-05-05 16:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I like to jump naked on my trampoline in the back yard at night in 50 degree weather so that I can see my nipples get extra hard. Sounds crazy, but it's true.
2016-04-01 10:16:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not crazy, but you are desperate. Love should not hurt, remember that, if nothing else. How glad I am that I am older and all of this kind of "b... s..." is behind me. If someone is truly interested in you, and only you, you would not be having this problem. I think you "love" him more than he loves you. And after wasting years going through this roller coaster ride, you will kick yourself for not letting him go sooner. Good Luck!
2007-05-05 16:24:22 · answer #3 · answered by JAXXIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We're all mad here. You have a particularly difficult version of madness, that involves some measure of pain. You perhaps understand how God feels about you--the only way to overcome these emotions is that they flipped to a disgust, much as God's judgment on sinners amounts to a righteous indignation over the unrepentant who are eternally in hell. Your emotions will have to likewise switch from obsessive want to obsessive horror. Only then can you get on with things.
2007-05-05 16:17:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
YOUR NOT CRAZY! Talk with him about what's bothering you in your relationship. Work together, compromise, and work things out. If his unreliability becomes a MAJOR problem maybe hes not the boy for you. Analyze your relationship and whats important in it and talk together.
2007-05-05 16:23:03 · answer #5 · answered by AtomicKitten11 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
maybe he just wants to see how much he can keep u on a leash. we do that sometimes sad but true. stop getting in touch with him and see what happens. suppose if he likes ya he might show up alittle more. yes game playing but isnt that what makes all this crap fun
2007-05-05 16:17:31 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
No child, you aren't GOING crazy, you already ARE crazy. The nice men in the white coats will help you now.
2007-05-05 16:15:42 · answer #7 · answered by Chance20_m 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you are not crazy and needs to seriously talk things over with him. Tell him he is messing with your emotions and to stop or leave him alone.
2007-05-05 16:20:00 · answer #8 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, you're not going crazy. And, welcome to the club. I have dealt with situations like that in the past, and now I pass on males who act like that. Not worth my time.
2007-05-05 16:16:01 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nah, just very dramatic. It will pass once maturity sets in.
2007-05-05 16:15:23 · answer #10 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋