Family & Relationships - 5 May 2007

My husband drinking is out of control. I told him so many times how this is damaging our marriage and ask him to quit, seek help but he still contines to drink. He drinks on the weekends and three nights in the week. He buys a twelve pack and has to drink all in one night and on weekends even more. I am so unhappy and lonely since its all he wants to do and leave me with no attention. I am trying to find a better high paying job so I can support myself and going to leave if he does not stop. Any advice will be helpful.

2007-05-05 11:03:40 · 4 answers · asked by kathrine444 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-05 11:02:58 · 13 answers · asked by pointlomarocks 1 in Singles & Dating

I need a new version of pleasure for the wife. I need an idea that will be exciting and pleasurable to her tonight. Anyone have any?

2007-05-05 10:59:58 · 13 answers · asked by Notta 2 in Marriage & Divorce

act as if they are mature as they say that they are some woman just really p i s s me off to no ends ...
if you dont know what right and wrong is then why did you leave home.grow the f u c k up

2007-05-05 10:58:47 · 1 answers · asked by nobodyspeical00 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a freshman in highschool, and have a crush on a girl (not at school, at my church youth group). She is shy, but not too shy to talk to me, in fact, because I'm so shy, she is usually the one initiating the conversation. I was just wondering what signs I can look for that she might like me?

P.S. She might know that I like her.

2007-05-05 10:56:47 · 3 answers · asked by Wolfpack 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 10:56:23 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for 3 weeks and we were at the movies with friends and he gave me a small kiss and then started to make-out with me. i wasn't ready so i told him not infront of my friends. the little bit that we did make-out was nice. (he is also the first person i have ever kissed so could it be that i am just nervous?) next time do i just go with it or tell him i'm not ready?

2007-05-05 10:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by xxkaitsogreatxx 2 in Singles & Dating

Doesn't it annoy you when people say it? When you really like someone you don't care about meeting up with someone you don't know from Adam. You just wanna see that person and no-one else matters at that time. Fish aint gonna help anyone! Do you find it helpful?

2007-05-05 10:50:38 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it possible to lower your child support, i know taking a chance could increase it what do you think i havent missed a payment in 11yrs but i know my daughter doesnt get all that money. plus i do alot and save some for her on the side should i chance lowering it??

2007-05-05 10:48:59 · 7 answers · asked by steve-o 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 13 years old and I like this girl:
http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AkE.3azWUzD0KAyY1nXO7SXsy6IX?qid=20070504135912AALc0ys

Read that topic first, then answer this.

She acts like she likes me, but she says that she likes someone else, and she told people who it is. However, she has been known to like multiple people at the same time.

How can I find out if she likes me without telling her that I like her, which I can't tell her because she is my best friend that is a girl, and is a very good friend, so I don't want to mess up a friendship if she doesn't like me back.
I already tried asking her friends, and they don't know.
I was thinking I could maybe trick her into telling me without telling her I like her by maybe saying that someone told me that she liked me and I was wondering if it was true. Would that work? And does anyone have any other ideas?

Thanks for any and all help!

2007-05-05 10:47:13 · 9 answers · asked by I Don't Take Your Crap 2 in Singles & Dating

every day feels the same at the moment its been 3 months

2007-05-05 10:42:38 · 18 answers · asked by mooby 1 in Friends

Please explain in as much details possible.

2007-05-05 10:41:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he wont give me a hug
hes giving me silent treatment
he says rude comments to me online
then says sorry for acting that way and that hes just lonely
all i told him was that he shouldnt let all of his negative stress out on me theres better ways to handle it
and he said "whatever i dont want to talk to you right now"
hes hung up on me on the phone twice before
yet tells me i never call him enough
but why should i if he continues to hang up?
i just feel like theres really nothing left i can do.
none of us have mentioned breaking up to another but im seriously thinking that breaking up would make this better and easier
maybe hes just trying to play with my feelings and not look so desperate for me back
i dont know....

2007-05-05 10:40:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay, I have been with my girlfriend on and off for a year and a few months. She's cheated on me once, she didn't sleep with the guy, just made out with him. When we first started dating we had sex all the time. Like an everyday thing. Now, we never have sex... like ever. She tells me she loves me and that im wrong for not trusting her enough. But thats just the thing, she lies to me constantly. Whenever i ask her something like "Who'd you hang out with the other day?" she always says "huh?" then a few seconds later, she answers the questions. I may be wrong but that implies a lie to me. I told her I don't care if she hangs out with other guys but just stop lying to me. I always take her places to run her errands, and it feels like everytime we get alone together she wants to do something else. Is she using me?

2007-05-05 10:37:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 10:32:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

tonight is prom, and im going with my friend, who im beginning to think isnt my friend anymore. we're going with the "popular" kids. they arent my sort to hang out with, but my date is friends with all of them so they they decided to go together.
all the past dances i've had were miserable, i was somewhat, obligated to go, i didnt' want my mom to feel bad her son doesnt like to go to any dances. i've had dates for every dance i went to.

tonight the kids im going with are most likely not gonna talk to me because i have some of them in my class and im a quiet guy who never speaks really.

I know im gonna have a terrible time, one of many, at this prom, my senior year.
What would any of u suggest to bring ymself back up from tonight? like not physically doing something, but mentally.
thanks.

2007-05-05 10:32:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have a wonderful 9 year old son, who we both adore. I want us to stay together because I love her and above all I want us to be a family for our son who loves us dearly and he would be devasted if we separate then divorce, or we sell our family home. But, I do not want my wife to be unhappy for the rest of her life. She refuses to go to Relate etc and says there is no point because she simply doesn't love me. I don't think she is having an affair although this started 2 years ago when she moved to a much more pressured role in a bank and mixes with many single parent Mums. She seems constantly stressed out by work, tired and unhappy but refuses to work part-time. Also, she went on the pill about the same time as this started and our love life has sank to zilch! I do not pressure her, nor do I want anyone else. I'm getting old and cannot afford another mortgage (5 years to my OAP), especially if we split our equity 50/50. How can it better for all of us, esp our son?

2007-05-05 10:29:15 · 20 answers · asked by reynaertgj 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I need to get revenge on someone and i need ideas it doesn't matter how humiliating or disgusting or anythig just give me some ideas

2007-05-05 10:26:24 · 7 answers · asked by too short 2 in Friends

OKAII SO THERES THIS BOI N IM GOING OUT WITH HIM IN THE BEGGING OF THE REALTIONSHIP HE ALWAIS USED TO CALL ME LIKE EVERY SINGLE DAII BUT LATELY IT DOESNT FEEL LIKE HE LIKES ME ANYMORE I TOLD HIM BUT HE SAID IF HE DIDNT WOULD HE BEWITH ME????DEN YESTERDAII I CALLED HIM 2N NO ANSWER N FOR THE PAST 3 DAIS HE HASNET CALLED ME ....WAT SHOULD I THINK?????BREAK UP WITH HIM OR WAT?

2007-05-05 10:25:20 · 5 answers · asked by Te Amo PaRA SIeMPrE 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 10:15:54 · 2 answers · asked by pink 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my wife were recently married and I mentioned to her I would love to have a very large family....To my surprise she turned into what I can best describe as a scared kitten...To be honest, I will be making more than enough money to support a family with 6-8 children so that is not her worry...Is she simply worried about going through the process of passing 6-8 kids?....I have worked hard to be able to accomplish this in my life (honestly, I may have never mentioned my intentions with her completely--but she was happily expecting children)...What do you think is her true worry?

2007-05-05 10:12:46 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

aging & never could find a wife

2007-05-05 10:08:52 · 15 answers · asked by Bostic R 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-05 10:07:10 · 7 answers · asked by tina s 2 in Singles & Dating

in each class we both stare each other but not at the same time like i would look at him and he would glance away. I think he liked me in kindergarden ( i'm 13)

2007-05-05 10:04:42 · 11 answers · asked by cassie 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a man who wants me to wait for him. I'm not saying its hard. But I don't want to slip into any temtations. What can I do to keep myself busy or to keep my mind off of sex. It is very RARE to meet any military wifes who haven't cheated. I'm from Vriginia and we see it all the time. You hear about them getting pregnant by other men while the husbands and boyfriends are gone. It happened to one of my closest friends, his wife cheated and got pregnant by another man. I have a really good man counting on me in Japan. And I don't want to hurt him. I really don't want any other man. What can I do. When he comes back he's coming with a ring and I don't want to jeopardize my future with him. He is a really good guy. I just want to prove to him that I'm worth it.

2007-05-05 10:02:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the guy is letting me pick. is Disturbia really scary? ive also got my eye on Wild Hogs.

2007-05-05 10:01:39 · 16 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Singles & Dating

WHAT SHOULD I DO??

2007-05-05 09:57:23 · 15 answers · asked by Morgan M 1 in Family

2007-05-05 09:54:05 · 5 answers · asked by Yea Yea 4 in Singles & Dating

I met a great guy right when I was going through alot of family problems,etc.. and I basically treated him like crap.. I never told him what was going on w/my family.. He broke up with me and I didn't even care at first bc I wanted to concentrate on my family.. A couple weeks later I realized what i did wrong and tried to make amends but he wasn't having it.. His friends told me i really hurt him and he doesn't want anything to do with me.. It's been a while(couple months) since I've contacted him and I know for a fact he still doesn't have a new girlfriend.. I miss him so much and want another chance, but i know nothing i say on email or text would even make him talk to me.. I'm thinking of running into him"by chance" so we can clear the air.. Even though he's not interested in me anymore, the fact he is still single maybe if he saw me and i try to explain in person I might have a shot? This is my last resort.. but i want to know if this sounds nuts..

2007-05-05 09:53:27 · 5 answers · asked by noway 1 in Singles & Dating

Me and my girl of 4 years have an ok relationship, things have seemed to go downhill lately. Well today I left my 2 year old's pair of sandals in a shopping cart. We got home and she completely flipped, she slammed the doors, cursed at me, and then drove back to the store to buy him a new pair. She got home and was still angry and throwing a fit.

I told her it was an accident and I didn't realize I left them in the cart. She said I was stupid for not going right back to buy him a pair of sandals, so she had to do it.

So eventually I got fed up and began yelling at her, telling her that it wasn't my fault and I would get him another pair, but it didn't do anything. When she got home I said, "hey honey," and she said "F you"

So now we're fighting... how do I solve this?

2007-05-05 09:50:42 · 21 answers · asked by aa 1 in Marriage & Divorce