I met a great guy right when I was going through alot of family problems,etc.. and I basically treated him like crap.. I never told him what was going on w/my family.. He broke up with me and I didn't even care at first bc I wanted to concentrate on my family.. A couple weeks later I realized what i did wrong and tried to make amends but he wasn't having it.. His friends told me i really hurt him and he doesn't want anything to do with me.. It's been a while(couple months) since I've contacted him and I know for a fact he still doesn't have a new girlfriend.. I miss him so much and want another chance, but i know nothing i say on email or text would even make him talk to me.. I'm thinking of running into him"by chance" so we can clear the air.. Even though he's not interested in me anymore, the fact he is still single maybe if he saw me and i try to explain in person I might have a shot? This is my last resort.. but i want to know if this sounds nuts..
2007-05-05 09:53:27 · 5 answers · asked by noway 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not conceited but I know he was very attracted to me at first bc when we 1st met at a party, we talked all night and he ignored all the other people trying to get his attention.. he called me the very next day for a date and went from there.. but about 2 weeks into our dating is when my family problems began.. that's why i think if he sees me and sees i'm the same person i was before he might change his mind?
2007-05-05 09:53:48 · update #1
You are not a stalker, YET! I don't think it would be too bad to run into him by chance and see what happens. He may still be attracted to you, but if things do go your way please take this advice. Be sure you are ready for a relationship. Men don't want to be hurt just like women don't. It wasn't fair to him and if you know you are still capable of destruction then don't bother.
2007-05-05 09:59:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to tell him you had a reason for the way you were before but you were wrong by not telling him what was going on. If he rejects your apology give it some more time but explain to him that you really want to be given another chance and that you know that you really messed up but you are the same person he met that night at the party and you still love him! Good luck sweetie!
2007-05-05 17:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth a shot "running into him" once if you really think you have a chance getting through to him. Anything more than that might be creepy.
As a side note, it sounds like you did nothing but hurt this guy. Do you have anything to offer him? Or do you just want him back for your own reasons?
2007-05-05 17:00:55 · answer #3 · answered by The Naughty Librarian 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's worth a shot, but it sounds like he's the type of person who only gives someone 1 strike and you're out. Maybe you should write down they exact way you would talk to him if he was right in front of you and then have a mutual friend take it to him and have this friend insist he read it. If the guy still doesn't want to talk to you after that, then you are better off with out him.
2007-05-05 17:01:18 · answer #4 · answered by Becks6 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't say you are being a stalker I would say that you liked this guy alot and you are lonely without him. He however doesn't hjave those feelings for you anymore. I would say just get over him and get on with your life. Life is too short to run after someone that isn't even interested in you to begin with.
Get a life and find someone new.
God Bless and Best Wishes.
2007-05-05 17:00:20 · answer #5 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋