We have been dating for 3 weeks and we were at the movies with friends and he gave me a small kiss and then started to make-out with me. i wasn't ready so i told him not infront of my friends. the little bit that we did make-out was nice. (he is also the first person i have ever kissed so could it be that i am just nervous?) next time do i just go with it or tell him i'm not ready?
2007-05-05 10:50:46 · 13 answers · asked by xxkaitsogreatxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well go with it again and if you still feel lik your not ready then tell him that....i was sorta in the same place that you are lik a month ago...just tell him wat you think,. . .and it probably is b/c your nervous b/c til this day im still nervous..l0l
2007-05-05 11:03:46 · answer #1 · answered by Me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't feel like you are ready to make-out with him, just tell him so.
Maybe you worry too much about they way you will make out (given you have no experience)?
Think about it. If you are not ready just tell him, if it's only you are worried, then don't and enjoy your relationship with this guy.
How old are you exactly? you sound like 13 or 14. Dont make out at ALL if you are.
2007-05-05 17:58:17 · answer #2 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are not ready then just tell him. If he loves you, he will wait. I told mine and he was cool with it. Eventually i, ya know "was ready" and so yea. You also have to be confortable with him. When you are around him and you dont feel necessarily right, then you arent excatly confortable to make out with him--ya know?
If you are ready then go for it!
2007-05-05 17:55:53 · answer #3 · answered by Eve 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should take your time and only progress at a speed that is comfortable to you. When you want to stop, tell him, and stop. If he cares for you he will, and if he doesn't it is best to find out now so you can look for another friend. Respect yourself first - demand that he respect you too.
2007-05-05 17:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you were ready, you would know it.
Tell him the truth and go slow. If you give in when you are not ready, you'll regret it and resent him for pressuring you. Long term relationships are never built on regrets and resentment.
2007-05-05 17:57:14 · answer #5 · answered by sublimetranscendental 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes just tell him your not ready and he will have to wait but when you are ready you will probable have to make that move
2007-05-05 17:54:18 · answer #6 · answered by marinabeth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If ur not redy, dont do it. but it could also b that ur nervous(been there done that) but the main line is, dont feel pressured 2 do nething ur not comfortable w/.
2007-05-05 18:02:03 · answer #7 · answered by chelceejhays 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him you are not ready but stuck your tougher in his month anyway and give him a big surprise.
2007-05-05 17:55:48 · answer #8 · answered by ubon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you don't feel that your ready as a boyfriend he should understand. if he doesn't t that a problem.
don't do it if you don't want to
hope it works out
2007-05-05 17:58:58 · answer #9 · answered by Brezzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are uncertain, do not let him pressure you.
2007-05-05 17:57:57 · answer #10 · answered by Callie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋