Family & Relationships - 5 May 2007

so yesterday a person that i love told me that he has feelings for my bestfriend yet he still loves me how can that be? i want him to choose only one of us and whichever he chooses ill be happy because i cant force him to want me and i woudlnt since after he told me he also began to judge me telling me that im stubborn and that i have all these bad qualities it really hurt me its enoguh that he tells me he likes my bestfriend (who most likely likes him back i know she does ) and well me and this guy we werent going out its just that we are the unofficial couple" he kept tellin me he loved me. but now all of the sudden this...i was expecting it..but it is just too overwhelming..what can i do ?

2007-05-05 05:43:47 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im with a man who is 3 years younger than me. We live together and have a 1 year old. I want him to be more family oriented but all he seems to want to do is party all the time. Hed rather hang out with his boys than with me and the kids. (I have a 5 year old from a previous marriage.) I want to go out and have dinner, go to the movies, take the kids to the parks. You get the picture. Even if he would go to dinner with us and then hang out with the boys that would be fine. but sometimes I feel that I am invisible. Even a kiss when we get home from work would satisfy my intimate need. i keep a clean house, i cook for him, he his really spoiled. Can someone tell me what I can do?

2007-05-05 05:40:29 · 27 answers · asked by mavin h 1 in Singles & Dating

has married my step doughter and did not invite me or her father.to the wedding. to give a brief history my bother has had a drink problem for many years. he had already had a bad relationship which ended badly. my husbund and i gave support to his doughter but told her to tread carefully with the relationship. this was taken the wrong way. my brother told me he doesnt want too see me again and my step doughter said she wants to see her father without me.to top it up is other doughter hasnt seen her dad for over two years. she told him she didnt like me becouse she belived i should of worked and payed my husbunds debts. i tried telling her that i would have worked for another company however my husbund said it made more sence i worked in our own company together that would save hiring someonelse , she also accused me of treating her mum badly over money. my husbund paid her as much as he could his sons would rather see him on his own. my brother said i am evil and his kids dont like me

2007-05-05 05:32:49 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've never had a boyfriend and i don't think i ever will. Also, if i do ever get a boyfried, i dont know how to kiss. I know it sounds stupid but its true. Can anyone help???

2007-05-05 05:29:54 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-05 05:27:10 · 5 answers · asked by What is wrong w/ppl these days! 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a handful of friends that practically live at my place. A few weekends ago I notice i started missing clothes. I figured I was just losing my mind and misplacing them under the bed or something. Well one day I went to go do some laundry and I noticed a few pairs of my boxer briefs were missing. The odd part was that I found one pair in one of my friends back packs. I know shes been kind of into me, and I heard she is kind of a freak, but I never thought of her that way. Normally I would think its cool to have someone sniffing my breifs, but I have been really sick lately and they were pretty marked up with some diarehea stains. It was pretty embarassing.

Should I approach her and say something? I dont think I have the guts to do that right now.

Or could someone be playing a trick? Should I play it out and see how far it goes, maybe she won't ever say anything?

2007-05-05 05:26:26 · 5 answers · asked by Berries Dingle 2 in Singles & Dating

I Allways Have My Hair Up Because I am an Active Person and Dont Want it in my Face. My Sister is allways Cracking Jokes About That Her an My Mom Say That I Should Let My Hair Down and Get Highlights. That I should stop Dressing Sporty and Get The Look They Want like maybe the way they dress. I dont know I mean Im Happy This Way I'm not triying to get other people or guy to notice me or anything.

2007-05-05 05:25:09 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 05:24:02 · 3 answers · asked by S.J. Floo 1 in Singles & Dating

my mom and my dad are going trew a divorce.He was suppose to serve my mom on april 4th but did it on April 13th. My mom just relized that she was suppose to get served on April 4th and respond by may 4th not may 13th. She still hasn't responded yet because she dosen't have a lawyer. How will this effect her case for child support.

2007-05-05 05:23:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I meet this really amazing kid at some carnival thing and got his number.I called him twice and we hung out once.Turns out he goes to my school(hes one grade higher).I saw him in the halway once and I thought he might have liked me too.But now I call him and he doesn`t answer and I have my friends give him notes and he never writes back or calls me.ADIVCE PLEASE??

2007-05-05 05:20:55 · 19 answers · asked by kelsobabe94 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this boy in my class who acts really mean towards even though he knows me for less than a year. There are other new people who came to school but he's only mean with me. Then he tells me that he likes me.. What does it mean?? That he really really hates me or that he likes me?? But I really dont know whether I should trust him or not since he told me tht he liked me while we were chatting.

2007-05-05 05:18:23 · 12 answers · asked by animallover 2 in Friends

.. to burp and fart at the same time for a long stretch sometimes as much as ten seconds .. at first she was impressed so I kept showing off withit at the cinema and stuff .. but now she doesn't call do you think she wasn't actually impressed at all and she only lied at first?

2007-05-05 05:16:41 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Would you try anything if you knew she was in a deep sleep? Or she was on sleeping meds?
Or would you be mad she was in your arms?
or would you just let he be?

2007-05-05 05:14:02 · 6 answers · asked by Nicoletta 3 in Singles & Dating

Everything changed after we got married. He started complaining about every little thing. We fight all the time, because he ain't listening at all, not to me, not to anyone, he says stupid things for me and my family, and if we are not fighting then we ain't talk at all.
Because after he makes all the mistakes he is acting as if nothing happened, and that is so annoying. I mean so far because it is impossible for me to live with somebody and talk at all, i always initiated a discussion, but i cannot take this any longer.
I need him to show me that he cares, that he is aware of all that he has done and how much pain he has caused me.
I need him to start showing some responsibility, and get him to undestrand that marrgiage is not a game, it is something we should work on.
Is there any chance, i can get him to talk to me by his own initiative, or am i seeing an end to this marriage?

2007-05-05 05:07:08 · 32 answers · asked by Senka M 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Our budget is tight ($2,000). Any suggestions or ideas? Ways to get a better deal?

2007-05-05 05:04:18 · 3 answers · asked by kitiby 2 in Weddings

what are some of the wildest things anyone has ever done or seen at a bachelorette party? (at the bars, in the limos, with the strippers, crazy themes, etc.)

2007-05-05 05:03:23 · 3 answers · asked by collegeguy09 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-05 05:01:37 · 27 answers · asked by ChelleBug 5 in Weddings

You just can't hide all the things that collide
With someone they have taken our pride.
Yes the same one who makes you smile
Can make you cry
No matter how you try the feelings they make us hide
You can't deny
We give power to those who seem to hurt us most
Tear us up inside.
They keep breaking our hearts
With no regard to all the hurt they apply to our lives.
It's like with utter disregard they used a dull knife
That seems to open this wound
To leave me bleeding
Having to pick up my broken heart all over again.
Just to have to mend my mind
Now all twisted and confused
One day you won't be able to do this to me anymore
I won't be lost inside from all you do
It won't matter anymore
For I won't care because I'll no longer be in love with you.

2007-05-05 04:59:40 · 9 answers · asked by claritycomeschanges 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

His name is James.But I hate James ex girl friend.Her name is Shelby.

2007-05-05 04:55:51 · 5 answers · asked by Autumn 1 in Singles & Dating

As a child, I often wished I had an older adult I could ask questions of, without getting a lecture...or getting punished...or getting a really non-sensical answer.

For example, how do I get along with a bully at school? Is there a God? Should I report another kid stealing? Why do I have to go to school?

My grandson will be visited soon. I was curious what questions you might have encountered...or had as an 8-year old that were never answered for you.

2007-05-05 04:53:16 · 1 answers · asked by NewDad 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

that you have never lived with before or even stay the night with him before? Do you think things are going ot be werid once you are married? (My Best Friend is doing this!!) I thought it may be hard for them...

2007-05-05 04:51:52 · 19 answers · asked by Small Town 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I just want to know whether I had my first kiss in 6th or 7th grade

2007-05-05 04:51:48 · 18 answers · asked by iLOVEJESUS 4 in Singles & Dating

Okay one of my best friend lives with her step-dad, mom and her sibilings. But every time her step-dad gets mad at her she comes over which my family and i don't care but what we do care is that he is hitting her family. and sumtines i get scared b/c she has 2 little brother and they r only 3 and if he hits them something bad can happen to them and i know how much she loves them. Also my family knows her mom even before she got married to a monster. What do i do to help my friend? Please help me love Diana

2007-05-05 04:47:46 · 9 answers · asked by Diana Alcala 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

..attention too much its embarassing especially when im with my uglier friends the girls are like bees around a honey pot when im around but my friends just look on I want to help them they feel left out what should i do ..Im sorry to admit it but Im soooo handsome. I just want my friends to get some attention sometimes.?

2007-05-05 04:43:52 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My father is slightly concerned about his speech for my sister's wedding. I've tried to help him out by finding some websites with hints and tips, but most of them seem to charge a fee. Can anyone help out with this situation, and perhaps suggest some good websites to ease his worries?

2007-05-05 04:42:11 · 11 answers · asked by Baby Chaos 2 in Weddings

What Can a girl do for/to you that just gets you going? I dont mean just saying she wants to **** i mean things that drive you absolutely wild...

Or women what do u do that grives you man wild?

2007-05-05 04:40:27 · 8 answers · asked by littlelady2389 2 in Singles & Dating

I really like this girl, but I can't figure her out. One minute she'll be all over me-you know, calling me babe, saying I'm her favorite guy in the world. She wouldn't let me forget that tomorrow (most of this happened last night, so tomorrow is today) is National Make Out Day. We even had a fake marriage on the beach. Then the next minute, she will be talking about her ex boyfriend, going over and flirting (not as much) with other guys, and hanging all over her gay best friend. Please, what should I do!

2007-05-05 04:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by asfd s 1 in Singles & Dating

You throw yourselves at me, knowing I'm in a 9 year relationship, because I am a very upstanding and honest person, enough so that I share this with all my 'one nighters'. Then when I ask for a little advice on this site you tee off on me for being unfaithful to the gal I've been dating. I'm 'unfaithful' as you call it with members of your sisterhood, so get mad at your own gender for contstantly begging me to spend some play time with you. What's a guy supposed to do? If I don't sleep with all these women, you'd probably say I was a tease; so I do and you say I'm a scum. I don't see how a guy like me is supposed to win. I suppose if I left the girl I've been dating as you suggest you'd say I was bad too. So many women, so hard to keep them all happy - maybe I should just focus to pleasing me more versus all of you. Not being critical, just looking for feedback, you beat us men up way, way too much.

2007-05-05 04:39:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

why is life so unfair, i hate my life right now, its very hard, i live in an orphanage with 32 kids, im homeschoold at this orphanage and i hate it because the people here are so mean, i want out, i want to run away, but my brother keeps on stoping me, i have 1 brother in this whole orphanage place, i dont know what to do, can anyone help me, i dont get along with the other kids here, i cant handle all of this pressure, thanks to those who say yes to helping me out a bit with advice or telling me what i should do, im just so scared, the people here treat me teribly, i dont think they like me that much, so can anyone help me, i have no friends here, again, thanks to those who say yes to helping me.

2007-05-05 04:37:19 · 20 answers · asked by Skye H 1 in Friends

But now I am 45 I realize you cant allways get what you want but when i was younger i thought i could do anything when it came to my carrer and relationship

2007-05-05 04:37:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating