I really like this girl, but I can't figure her out. One minute she'll be all over me-you know, calling me babe, saying I'm her favorite guy in the world. She wouldn't let me forget that tomorrow (most of this happened last night, so tomorrow is today) is National Make Out Day. We even had a fake marriage on the beach. Then the next minute, she will be talking about her ex boyfriend, going over and flirting (not as much) with other guys, and hanging all over her gay best friend. Please, what should I do!
2007-05-05 04:40:18 · 11 answers · asked by asfd s 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, I think you guys are a little confused. She's not hurting me or anythings. She's not flirting with gay guys, she just has a gay BEST FRIEND. And she's downright pissed at her ex. I think she's probably trying to make me jealous, but I wanted to know what everyone else thinks, because you only see what you want to see.
2007-05-05 05:25:46 · update #1
MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST TELL HER YOU WANNA BE WITH HER AND SHE MIGHT SETTLE DOWN. IF IT WAS A LONG RELATIONSHIP THAT SHE HAD BEFORE MAYBE THE SENSATION OF BEING SINGLE IS EXILERATING TO HER.
2007-05-05 04:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey. I believe shes into you but a player too. Shes to want more than just one but who knows. If you ask her out like to a movie or something(doesn't even have to be a date date just as friends) by the way she acts will tell you how she really is. Girls (me included) have a habit of trying to make a guy they like jealous. Some she may be doing that. Do what you can to find out whats up. Good luck!
2007-05-05 04:49:42 · answer #2 · answered by **JaeAnswers! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i dunno if im good at giving advice but i would talk to her some more and start learning about her interests, and hobbies and if she still likes her ex. Sounds like she is just using you as a back up. I might be wrong, but i dont want you to get hurt, even though i dont know you. It sounds like she still has feelings for her ex and she needs to back up off you and figure things out for herself before she starts flirting with other guys, exspecially gay ones. I think she is a little confused at what she wants right now and is just using you as a person that would be there when she finds out herself and who she wants to be with, but i think she needs to back up and think first at what she wants instead of teasing people that might like her back without her liking them at all. you know? well, i hope so. and good luck with everything, just remember, love isnt everything. Carpe Diem and laugh a lot!
2007-05-05 04:49:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She seems to be a little flirt, but if she's hanging out with gay guys you shouldn't have to worry right? *No offense to gay guys* I think that she doesn't understand what your feelings are for her, and if she's been through a bunch of relationships before you then she could still have negative feelings towards guys, just wait it out, she'll get over t hem eventually.
2007-05-05 04:45:09 · answer #4 · answered by BMW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What should you do? ---Ask your self why in the world would you care? You got you some, you animal---- so she treats you like most players treat women. And stupid women, like you wonder how in the world can they figure out this guy?? He is just saying what ever he has to -----to get what he wants! Sound familiar---a true player! La La La---- ancient dance
2007-05-05 04:53:08 · answer #5 · answered by kim 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Buddy....sounds like she's playing you....keeping you close, but not so close that she can still keep her freedom; if she is still talking about her ex-BF, she may still harbor some unresolved issues about/with him. And she may not feel the same way towards you as you do towards her....time for you to stop letting her "pull your strings" and move on....sorry if this is too harsh, but life is way too short to let someone keep doing this to you....
2007-05-05 04:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by AngelEyes In SF 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be patient with her if you can. She likes you but she might not be sure how much and she doesn't want you to think her feelings are more than what they are. I usually say talk to this person, but I won't to you, just let her be herself and try to see what happens.
I hope this helps
-Ms. Rolle-
2007-05-05 05:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by ~sunflower 26~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's doing that because guaranteed she's young and immature for one thing, but to get attention and to see if it makes you jealous. Be wary- sounds like the mind game type to me! :}
2007-05-05 04:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by MedeivelReign 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's a fliberty jibbit:
act like your busy: to busy for her:
or do like she does: mimic her:
idk but I would say she's not ready for anything serious for sure:
give her a taste of her own medicine!
You just live your life :) and the right girl will come along.
2007-05-05 04:44:49 · answer #9 · answered by Space Coast Virtual Services 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just talk to her, if you are really involved, then dont sit back, very camly without any anger just talk to her and talk about your feeling and how it hurts you to see she does stuff like that, but becareful not to go too fast caz she might think you dont trust her, if she got upset, drop the subj, she gets your message.
good luck
2007-05-05 04:47:48 · answer #10 · answered by Linda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋