Okay one of my best friend lives with her step-dad, mom and her sibilings. But every time her step-dad gets mad at her she comes over which my family and i don't care but what we do care is that he is hitting her family. and sumtines i get scared b/c she has 2 little brother and they r only 3 and if he hits them something bad can happen to them and i know how much she loves them. Also my family knows her mom even before she got married to a monster. What do i do to help my friend? Please help me love Diana
2007-05-05 04:47:46 · 9 answers · asked by Diana Alcala 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Find proof of the abuse! If you can definatly prove that the step father is betting the children then you can get him arrested. Or call 911, it might be a false alarm, but I'm sure your friend would be thankful that you took an interest in her life.
2007-05-05 04:53:17 · answer #1 · answered by BMW 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your Mom about moving with her because of a totally toxic environment. Keep in mind that you are minors and your Father should have to pay child support until you are 18...this should help your Mom with expenses.You really have to help you little brother here since he's only 12 and has no escape. If your Dad got custody, there had to be a good reason, but if Your Mom is in a better position now, you are now tax credits for your Dad...you move out and he can't claim to as Dependents. How's that for striking back!
2016-05-21 01:38:42 · answer #2 · answered by myong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simple, you go to the police. That same thing happened to me and my best friend was at the same point you are now, she told her mom and her mom told her to call the cops. Now I am find and hes was put away... but it was my real father not my stepdad. I'm sure you don't want to get them involved with the police but if you really care for your friend and her family you would do it. Something really bad could happen like you said... I've seen many of these and a lot of them turned out to be the children who were being abused was killed. As a good friend you would go to the police or at least try to caught him. Your friend and her family will thank you in the end. I thank my friend everyday for getting me out of that **** hole.
2007-05-05 08:27:15 · answer #3 · answered by carriejeanxx3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about proof of anything. You have reasonable grounds to believe she is being abused and the same for her little brothers. Report what you believe to the police, school counselor, a minister that you know and trust, or a priest and do it quickly. Bless you for your concerns. All the folks in that family are being abused. AND the worst part of the abuse is that they learn to accept it. ACT!!
2007-05-05 04:58:14 · answer #4 · answered by DelK 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friend is coming over and is scared and worried,frightened then call the POLICE and your local CHILD SERVICES.There is something going on and needs attention right away.so be her friend and get that attention to that home. you can remain anomous when calling to report a possible abuse case.
2007-05-05 05:08:15 · answer #5 · answered by donnaj_32 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What makes you think that he is a monster? Has your friend told you that he is? If you have any kind of proof that he is abusing ANYONE in her home, then it needs to be reported to the authorities........IMMEDIATELY!
Your friend needs to speak to an adult that she trusts. Is she telling you, AND your parents things of horror???
2007-05-05 05:06:35 · answer #6 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
call the police and tell them that the monster is molesting the childern, trust me a serious investigation will take place
2007-05-05 04:52:26 · answer #7 · answered by burner377 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant do anything other than be a base for your friend. if her mom wont leave him, they have to stay put. get your mum to talk some sense into her mum and see what happens.
or, you could be wrong....you dont know yet.
2007-05-05 04:54:12 · answer #8 · answered by hana woo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either you or your parents should report what you think to the police or whatever child welfare organization is in your area.
2007-05-05 04:52:28 · answer #9 · answered by wolfatrest2000 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋