Family & Relationships - 5 May 2007

Looking for something other than the same ol' dinner and a movie bit. Something spontanious. somewhat cheap. and nothing involving liquor. Oh and we live in AZ!

2007-05-05 14:27:39 · 16 answers · asked by batemanluv 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-05 14:25:19 · 4 answers · asked by Heidii_Palmer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

if you delete me why are youi hanging around---i need to know how to blow these people off my page?

2007-05-05 14:22:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I left him in October to point out to him that he has been verbally abusing me for years (yes, I've done the psychology etc and it has been doctor confirmed). I did not blame everything on him. I know I should have put my foot down years ago. I left with the intentions of trying to work out our marriage and get back together with a healthier way of fighting and solving problems (as opposed to he yells 1" from my face until I submit and calls me names such as "dead weight, B***ch, worthless, and undesirable). I believe that there is love between us because we have so many good memories. I know that I love him. I just want to be treated like a person.

So, 1 month after I left, he cheats on me, then calls me asking me down to the house for sex (which I didn't do). I find out I'm pregnant about then (with my hubby's baby before I left), and he continues to cheat; quits marriage counselling. Now he's after 50% custody of both my kids (I'm due in 1 month) and is telling the judge

2007-05-05 14:20:12 · 10 answers · asked by Shannon H 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband is addicted to porn. he does sex talks to girls online while im sleeping. I found him chatting dirty to a filipino girl while i was sleeping next to where the computer was and i totally faked my sleep and found him talking about oral sex and taking her to bed in a fantasy. Is it a warning sign? He also fakes his identity on the messangers, looks at naked girls' pics and views live webcams. I dont think he finds me attractive enough for him. Our sex life is also not spiced up; he rather prefers to look at the porn and naked girls than caressing, cuddling and loving me. When i ask him that why he is doing this, he replies by saying" im stressed out and i simply feel pleasure to watch porn and in a way it deals with my stress". However, i dont think its a valid reason for him to defend his nasty actions. Im pretty sure he doesnt date girls in real life because he mostly spends his day at home watching porn. i dont know what to do anymore. Im confused. what i should do? any sugg

2007-05-05 14:19:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There is this cute girl that is on my co ed recreational soccer team that i play on. We have said hey whats up when we see each other. I really do like and want to get to know her, what is the best way to go about this? What should i do or say to show that I am interested in her? And How can I get her to become interested in me as I am to her?
Thanks
G

2007-05-05 14:19:36 · 19 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

u meet someone who isn't your "type" but when u get to know them, you think they are an awesome person and wish to be with them?

2007-05-05 14:17:52 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your mother showed up at your baby shower in front of family and friends drunk, after you asked her to not come if she was going to be drinking? I'm really sick of it. At all functions she is drunk and beligerent and when I talk to her about it she just brushes it off like she is right and Im wrong for saying something about it. What would you do?

2007-05-05 14:00:03 · 14 answers · asked by hunney_21 1 in Family

2007-05-05 13:58:11 · 6 answers · asked by Amber O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-05 13:57:27 · 21 answers · asked by Family Guy Obsessed 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

..people with great sex life most likely won't get divorced?

2007-05-05 13:50:59 · 17 answers · asked by Bibi 5 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, im turning 16 in a month, and i've been with my boyfriend for 1 month, 1 week, and 6 days since march 22nd (i have to keep track because he'll forget haha) but, i really really love him - i've known jeff since 7th grade and were at the end of our sophomore year and we really want to be together. i mean we make each other laugh all the time and we always have fun and we've talked about sex and things like that and we're going to wait until its right, but we feel comfortable enough to tell each other and know that this is the person we want to give our virginity to and things like that.
ok, jeff has had a pretty rough life because of his older brothers making stupid decisions in their life and taking the wrong "path". his family is sort of a mess because for 2 years in jeff's life his world seemed to crash down on him. his parents got divorced, someone in his family died, his brother went to the "big house" and he just didnt care anymore ------ h/o i'll put in more detail

2007-05-05 13:49:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and you and him are going to get back together but he wants to restart the friendship that we lost. I dont think he is seeing other people because the phone b/c the phone is in my name and he speaks to me alot. I told him that I loved him a few times he told me he still loves me. when i asked what is taking so long for us to get back together he said why am i stressing a title of a relationship when wwe are trying to get back a friendship then we can get together . Me and him stop arguing and we talk good now. Last month i told him he was happy without me and he said he wasnt and doest know why i would say that. when i tell that this is stupid and get your own phone in ur name and we should speak he tells me why am i over reacting and he doesnt want to be with anyone but me. I just feel lonely sometimes b/c im so use to being with him. I told him that i was going to move on and he said why do that its not like we are not getting better. I just really love him and his family.

2007-05-05 13:49:31 · 3 answers · asked by Queen 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this cute girl that is on my co ed recreational soccer team that i play on. We have said hey whats up when we see each other. I really do like and want to get to know her, what is the best way to go about this? What should i do or say to show that I am interested in her? And How can I get her to become interested in me as I am to her?
Thanks
G

2007-05-05 13:47:42 · 14 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

when me and my boyfriend broke up. thou that i wont date again but i knew this new guy for almost a month now and that the first time we met. we knew that we like each other ( he is so damn hot lol, he has nice blond hair with light green eyes, nice bod 2) well he works as a bouncer and alot of gurls talk to him and most of them call him on his cell and he ask me out and wants me to be his gurlfriend so what should i do (say yes or no) a hot thang like that only wants one gurl or he is just playing.

2007-05-05 13:47:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do they ever try to show with the gift on how much she loves and appreciates him?...Whats wrong with that?....

2007-05-05 13:41:22 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

Women like to talk, but I get the sense that they dislike actually explaining themselves.

2007-05-05 13:39:25 · 14 answers · asked by R. Lee 3 in Singles & Dating

either for role play?
or for real?

2007-05-05 13:34:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is healthy?

2007-05-05 13:34:05 · 13 answers · asked by someone 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married in January.I want a dress that looks like Belle's ball gown in the last scenes of Beauty and the Beast.Can someone help me out please? Thanks!

2007-05-05 13:33:40 · 11 answers · asked by Artemis The Cunning 2 in Weddings

well me and my boyfriend are deeply inlove with each other but i dont know why he wont ask me to marry him! maybe because we are too young or maybe because he is not ready! but i really dont know.

2007-05-05 13:32:17 · 14 answers · asked by VICKY 3 in Weddings

I have posted recently about a nasty email from my ex...yet I feel like I will always care...we were friends for a long time before we were together...and I do think I made many mistakes. He did not give me the closure I needed, and often avoided confrontations in our relaitonship he was much younger. So, in the last year, instead of making him comfortable enough with me to get back together, as I guess he wanted, I always closed every effort with talking about the conflicts we never discussed before, and pushing unasked-for communication upon him....I feel badly for this. There is still much love in my heart for him...more, I think, in fact, than there has been for the past year. I cannot explain this, because he sent me the nastiest message. There is something healing in his having set a boundary...historically, he has had no boundaries. I have not written him back for a week...I feel a kind of peace in my heart, but I want him to know I understand. Does anyone understand? Ideas?

2007-05-05 13:31:10 · 2 answers · asked by myrtlebough 1 in Singles & Dating

There is this girl that I liked, and we had been talking for a couple months and she knew I liked her and I knew she liked me, and I finally got up the courage to ask her out.

On our first date I was little short on cash so I took her bowling and we got a pizza and had a good time. At the end of the date I didn't give her a goodbye kiss.

A couple weeks later I asked her for a second date and I had a little more money this time so I took her to a nice restaurant and we went to see a movie afterwards. At the end of the date I walked her to her door and as we were saying our goodbyes I gave her a kiss and she seemed to enjoy it.

I have been trying to get ahold of her for 2 weeks now and she won't answer my calls or return my texts. What did I do wrong?

2007-05-05 13:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by big_studdly_05 1 in Singles & Dating

We're in a relationship, very happy, while in the act, he looks me in the eyes, holds me tight, kisses me, very passionate, and kisses me on my forehead and holds me tight when we're done... Is it love or is he good at pretending? I've read that men can fake it too.
He has told me he loves me, but I'm so mistrusting b/c I've been so brutally burned before by people in my life, not just boyfriends, but family members too so it's instinct for me not to trust. Any thoughts anyone?

2007-05-05 13:28:18 · 15 answers · asked by Karla Marx 3 in Singles & Dating

I need some one to talk to, it is a very long story… and I do not know what to do any more. I am about to run away or something. Can some one please help?

2007-05-05 13:27:10 · 12 answers · asked by someone 2 in Family

2007-05-05 13:25:31 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my husband don't do it for me what can I do

2007-05-05 13:24:39 · 12 answers · asked by dizzy76 3 in Singles & Dating

I think its ok to have a simple and meaningful marriage but a huge waist of money down the drain for one celebration ....it will be fun while its going on...but then its over...
Take some of the money and go on a nice vacation together not on a wedding.....I have friends who spend 15 to 20 thousand on weddings...I have one thing to say ....DEBT!!!....

anyone agree?

2007-05-05 13:23:49 · 24 answers · asked by ? 3 in Weddings

or is he just nice? he always says how cute my feet are and always wants to rub or massage them. it does nothing for me...in fact i don't really like feet or people touching mine. =/

2007-05-05 13:22:10 · 4 answers · asked by helloosunshine 3 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I recently moved into an apartment together. She is a smoker, and always smokes inside. I love the smell of smoke, and am thinking about starting myself. She continues to tell me that I shouldn't, but my logic is this: If breathing in my girlfriend's secondhand smoke is more dangerous than inhaling smoke through the filter of a cigarette, then, as long as I am exposed to her smoke, what is the harm in taking up smoking myself?

2007-05-05 13:21:56 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating